THIS OMG THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS I am so sorry for repeating the words over and over but omg Istg, people in this fandom are just very insensitive as hell. Towards the characters and real people combined, I cannot tell you enough how f3tishized Dazai is in the bsd community. While unrelated but also somewhat related, my experience as someone who ships Dazai with Chuuya, the amount of the kind of comments you stated are uncountable, I almost always see them daily on skk posts, and if not, other ship posts like Fyozai. I genuinely hate it when people also use the "he's weak so he has to be submissive" reason for them preferring him to be the "bottom" in the relationship. It's so misleading and honestly very disrespectful since I see these comments on every single skk video that has Dazai acting "dominant" (the poster just made Chuuya sit on Dazai's lap, it's literally not a big deal) I never liked when people sl*tshamed bsd characters or any character for that matter, ESPECIALLY ON DAZAI WHO WAS BASED OFF YOZO IN NLH, and had a LOT OF TRAUMA RELATED TO WOMEN And people still do it because they want him to be submissive, I never thought people could stoop THIS LOW for a bed position, and "the role in his relationships"
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"Have their way with Dazai and pass him around"?? Bruh wth is wrong with people?? 😭 I love BSD, but this fandom is cracked beyond belie
2 weeks ago
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That's absolutely diabolical. Never understood how people could possibly misunderstand this entire part of chapter 50. It's literally in your face the entire time.
1 week ago
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The way people treat him and his bidg in the fandom is genuinely so dehumanizing which is so ironic. I don't get why people find sl*tshaming him so funny but it's disgusting. And the idea of dazai being "submissive" just never sat right with me so passively assertive feels so perfect for his character.
2 weeks ago
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Not to be dramatic, but imagine saying such comments about a REAL person.. just saying that about a character like Dazai in general is just so weird to me. I understand joking around but god you are strange to be saying such things. 😭
2 weeks ago
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thank you for talking about that video, genuinely, I found that video so disgusting the moment I watched it and no one in the comments was even saying anything about it and the one person who did say it was weird, the replies were like "oh but it's not mischaracterization because Dazai canonically sleeps around" like huh?? And even the thought of someone being "passed around and everyone getting their way with them" just sounds so disgusting
2 weeks ago (edited)
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This is actually very true and sometimes ppl should actually rethink we they comment or say anything abt a character ( I mean why this phase is made “ think before you speak “ I guess the Internet is always going to be Internet 😂😂) But this creates more depth towards dazai’s character in general And ppl comment that he’s a wh*r* Makes zero to no sense At all tho But YEAHH if we could change the Internet made just a lil percent then ifykyk ( but that’s not gonna happen in a million years 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 btw I was being sarcastic abt changing the Internet
2 weeks ago (edited)
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I'm going to print this on my forehead because I hate this part of the fandom that mischaracterizes the characters, and it's so disgusting to see Dazai only as a twink or something similar.
2 weeks ago
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I agree with this completely, and would like to say, as an asexual person, I personally headcanon him as ace, because he doesn't seem to go out of his way to be a womanizer when he isn't either doing it for his own gain, or when he is being performative (if that makes sense) (idk, I can't explain it really well)
2 weeks ago
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people.... aren't joking when they're saying that??? oh..... 😟
2 weeks ago
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I just finished reading No Longer Human, and reading about this person making more disinformation and disgusting allegations to Dazai is soooo gross, more now after reading the book. Thank you for clarifying the truth about that part of him.
2 weeks ago
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Also just a panel before we see he was distressed because he couldn't help his coworkers, and that tells at that time he was more like acting out of desperation for his phone rather than wanting it. He was just out of surgery, his wounds would hurt, and possibly drugs were still affecting him so definitely did not do it for pleasure. And the nurse won't let him talk on phone to rest but would sleep with him? And even asking for another round? It feels like the nurse did it for pleasure but dazai did it for his phone
2 weeks ago
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Those comments make me sick i see people say shit like that on pinterest it's disgusting
2 weeks ago
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I saw that exact video too and someone in the comments said they thought it was weird and all the replies where like saying the creator just worded it weird or that “dazai would like it” literally anyone who’s read No Longer Human would know damn well he would absolutely despise it, he was a womaniser and he hated that he was. He used womanising to cope, not because he enjoyed being “passed around”
2 weeks ago
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Okay even if Dazai is technically a sl^t, I don’t like seeing characters LIKE DAZAI who clearly are acting mentally ill be insulted for how they react to their fate. I think it just waters down their stories too much—I get it as a joke but if it’s EVERYTIME then it’s not funny to me
2 weeks ago
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Kaitelyn
!TW!
I know I talk about Dazais relationship with women a lot on my channel- but it’s because I genuinely think it’s a topic that isn’t talked about enough. More specifically the nurse scene. For starters Im sure we’ve all seen the amount of “I wish I was the nurse” “Dazai must be so good in bed” “the nurse was so lucky” comments that get made (mostly on the TikTok side of the fandom).
I know there is a lot of controversy around whether or not this could be considered SA, but in the end nothing can change the fact that it was ethically wrong & the nurse is the one who holds the most blame. She was his NURSE & he was her PATIENT. Just moments prior she told Dazai that he should be resting after surgery (he was also still hooked up to the IV), only to then go back and ask him if they can do it again. So while it was likely Dazai who initiated it, it’s the nurses responsibility to say ‘no’. Yes, Dazai knew exactly what he was doing, heck it’s canon he does this often. However that doesn’t mean the nurse was ‘manipulated’ into doing it with him (she’s a grown a woman & should know better then to agree to any s3xual acts with a patient). In my personal opinion, Asagiri added this scene as just as a way to joke about how much of a womanizer Dazai is, however-even if executed a bit poorly-it does showcase how easily Dazai is to resort to using his body if need be.
One last thing I wanted to point out is how the fandom (again mostly the TikTok side) makes Dazai out to be some submissive wh0re & no I am not kidding, I saw a TikTok vid saying they wish the other characters would “have their way with Dazai & then pass him around” & just overall heaps of posts saying he’s a wh0re. First of all, he’s not “submissive” Infact he’s a very passively assertive person & just because he isn’t swearing/acting violent 24/7 doesn’t means he’s a submissive twink. And calling him a wh0re (also that’s not the correct use of the word ‘wh0re’ since Dazai isn’t a s3x worker, the correct word would be ‘s/ut’…) just waters down what I talked about before with him using his body for personal gain & probably temporary pleasure (look I’m not gonna sit here & say that he isn’t one, because he is a womanizer & is very promiscuous- but the way the fandom handles it is it just wrong). You can be a multishipper but saying “he should get passed around & let others have their way with him” is kinda weird imo.
There’s a limit between s3xualization & f3tishization.
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