Joy Ross

What a beautiful day it’s been!

Today marked the beginning of week two in my intensive outpatient group therapy—and wow, each session continues to bring new topics, fresh insights, and meaningful experiences.

This group setting truly feels like the perfect fit for me. As many of you know, I love to share. My life has always been an open book, and in this space, sharing is not only welcomed—it’s encouraged. I’ve really been enjoying telling my stories and hearing others open up about theirs. Today’s discussion focused on attachment styles and how we can intentionally create positive moments and experiences in our lives.

I had the opportunity to share about when I lost my sight completely in 2008. I spoke about the overwhelming challenges I faced, how I truly believed my life was over, and how being a mother to two baby girls gave me the strength to keep going. I talked about the decision I made to change my perspective, to not let my loss defeat me. I chose to find joy through the darkness.

Sharing how my blindness has actually brightened my life! I explained how, because I’ve walked through those hard places, I’m now able to offer hope to others navigating through their own struggles. I told the group that I wouldn’t change my life for anything, because what I’ve gained from my challenges far outweighs my losses. The response was overwhelming—they were moved. More than anything, in class I’m feeling seen, heard, and truly understood. It feels like I’m right where I’m meant to be.

After class something sweet happened. The instructor was about to help guide me out to the lobby, when a classmate came over and gently asked, “Can I ask you a question?” I said, “Of course.” She smiled and said, “Why aren’t you teaching these classes?” I laughed and thanked her sincerely. I told her that while I’ve been through a lot, I’m still learning and there’s always room to grow. She was so kind, saying she’d spent the entire class wondering why I wasn’t leading it. But I know why I’m here. Maybe it’s for something greater than I even realize. I don’t know what that is yet, but I’m open, I’m ready, and I’m so excited for what’s to come in the weeks ahead.

Photo description:
I’m standing confidently in my lush green yard, soaking in the warmth after class. I’m wearing a textured taupe crop top with dark blue wide-leg carpenter jeans. My long black hair is styled in a high ponytail with a rhinestone scrunchie. I’ve accessorized with large silver hoop earrings, a Tiffany-style chain necklace, bracelets, rings, and rhinestone espadrille wedges. My makeup is soft with a nude lip, long lashes, and sparkly silver fingernails. I felt cute, confident, and very ready to finally warm up after freezing in class, definitely bringing my jean jacket next time!

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