disagree, even if you could have a rotation it’s way better to be in a great relationship. i’ve done both so i’m talking from experience.
2 years ago | 23
I think a lot of them had their fun, and move on to commitment. There’s pros and cons to being single vs in a relationship, but in the long term most of us understand what’s more fulfilling.
2 years ago (edited) | 15
I‘m 6,6” traveling between sub5 and normie my entire life(know it by getting many female reactions as feedback). Depends of my overweight. My colleague is a 6,4” chad with an A5-color of skin and being in relationship with a tall beautiful white Dutch woman for almost twenty years. Just be yourself bro, - that was his advice yesterday evening:) I sincerely thanked him and went to my gym…)
2 years ago (edited) | 12
Among the few chads I’ve come across, they hooked up with a couple of women but then had a relationship with a high tier Becky (Stacy-lite with makeup) who would treat him them like a king. I remember asking a friend’s friend who was a quintessential Tyrone, why he would not date some of the women we saw him talk to. They were pretty much all instagram level bodies with pretty faces and he said they were not going to fair well in a relationship. He said even some of the semi pretty girls could get an inflated ego, and start treating him like an option. So he said for relationships he would take a plain Jane kind of girl. I’ve only known one chad (he looked like a young Chris Carmack but better) that was with a average/maybe even below average girl. She was skinny but her face was really bland. He was in a relationship with her, and he just liked her for her. The way she loved him was one of those moments I got kinda angry and yet happy. Reason being is because it proved to me that women can love men for more than what they can do. However they only really love a guy who they are infatuated with and the gatekeeper to her love is looks. I knew I’d never have that unless I dumpster dives into gutter for whales. Even after going to the gym and getting lean, and getting a CS degree and being rated a 5.5/10 as the harshest and truest rating I’ve ever had. I still can only access whales, and I suspect I could just be unlucky. However everywhere I go, all of the average looking women are just having fun being single (they are smashing guys out of their league), and waiting till 29 and 34 to settle down if the guy has a good bank account or just keep being single. So it’s just not good right now to be the average guy, unless you have absolutely no problem accepting some disrespect and you’re willing to pay/do things for her a 80% of the time with no return on investment for you.
2 years ago (edited) | 16
Well, chad is such a natural that he takes for granted that his life would have been harder if he was a normie/sub5. He has no comparative point of reference and his life never really gets to the point of sucking so much that he needs to reflect more on how the world works in this regard.
2 years ago | 9
I believe that the reason of that observation is that most of that "chads" you meet they are not so good looking how you think.
2 years ago | 2
They could have already had their fun in their earlier years and chose to settle down after that. And I don't see many whose partner is super mismatched in looks.
2 years ago | 5
I don't know exactly how many of the chads are players, but we know for sure that there are enough of them to make the dating scene a nightmare for normies. And I think the fact that they are not blackpilled, makes it worse, because once they believe that their success is due to their personality, they won't hold back or they won't commit, because why would they, they just need to be themselves and the options would be there. Instead a black pilled chad knows that it's its looks, and they will fade away sooner or later, so it's advantageous for him to look for the best option and invest in it before it's too late. Another thing is that a blackpilled chad could have some understanding of the problem we have in today society, and this is the first step towards trying not to screw it more, instead of blue/red pilled chad who thinks that he deserves what he gets because of his personality or being alpha, and other people deserve to rot, because they didn't put in the work ..
2 years ago (edited) | 1
Tbh I'm glad I'm not a Chad.. Idk if I'm a sub5 or normie but there's so much unnecessary drama chads will go through dealing with women. I enjoy my peace
2 years ago | 0
reality is not black and white - its gray. for example I have a friend that is a white chad that has a becky asian girlfriend and for me this is just pathetic. on the other hand i also have a normie friend with a stacy girlfriend.
2 years ago | 9
all the Chads I know marryed at 22-23 with average or bellow average women. most of them now have children. in the western(-eised) world women dominate the dating & s3x scene, not the Chads
2 years ago | 3
i agree and disagree in some part of what you've said. i agree that alot of people including the attractive ones just be saying "Just be confident" as if that's really a good advice but regarding about being monogamous, i do think that it's also evolutionary, some humans are just monogamous regardless of how they look. I think science has said something about this, alot of people are just seeking for a pair bond and it's biological. Also chads and stacy dating and marrying someone who isn't in their lookmatch is rare. alot of attractive people are ending up with someone who's also the same as attractive as them bcs physical looks is what sparks an initial interests in us to approach someone then get to know them deeper and soon get to decide whether we want to build a relationship with them or not. This is a reason why not all average looking people have a chance with the attractive ones. You can't force people to have an interest with you in the first place.
2 years ago (edited) | 0
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A good thing (for us non Chads) is that many Chads are unaware of the blackpill and their power. That's why they give bluebill advice such as "just be yourself bro". They actually believe it, because after all, it worked for them. As a result, I've seen many of them being in a relationship with girls below their looksmatch. This is good for us, because imagine if every Chad knew that he could have a rotation, taking many women out of the dating market. If today's market is bad, that would be a nightmare. From the few Chads I know, only around 20% are "city boys". The rest are bluepilled and monogamous. Have you noticed the same?
2 years ago | [YT] | 38