If she can not afford to live or afford to take care of that child, she needs to give the child to the father.....that should be LAW.....
1 year ago | 35
$1700 in child support per month is ridiculous. This is one reason why I don’t deal with men who have kids. Remaining childless is the best decision I’ve ever made
1 year ago | 43
If i were in this situation, personally, I wouldn't have a problem with it if she had the right spirit. If she's treating us like some "come up," then it'll be an issue, but if her heart is genuine, I wouldn't mind. It's his children, and if she's the custodial parent and needs extra help, she'll get it because her well-being is important. Now, when she's no longer single,then that responsibility is her and her new husband's, [i edited this to add if she also gets a new job or career and can now afford her expenses, then we'll be done] but all in all, it wouldn't bother me. Daycare is 500+ dollars. Imagine if 2 kids are daycare age. That's his child support right there, and we haven't even covered other childcare expenses. It's not an issue for me.
1 year ago (edited) | 33
Hell no!. Who does that?. Once we’re done, and child support is finalized, we’re done. She’s on to the next person or single. That’s her choice. Any judge that allows that is trippin, & any man who pays that is a fool!.
1 year ago | 27
Nope and i grew up in this situation. This is why I got with a man who has no kids. Only have to worry about our family.
1 year ago | 97
If she can’t pay her rent, the child should go live with the father until if, and when she gets her act together and can pay her own bills. That’s as far as any extra help should go.
1 year ago | 31
Nope. Because I dont date men with kids, ex wives or baby mamas. I dont submit to men that make catastrophic life decisions. And I suggest females without kids do the same. (I feel the same way about childfree/childless men dating single moms, so gender is irrelevant).
1 year ago | 6
Yes, I would allow my husband or boyfriend to pay the exes bills or whatever the case maybe, and then I become his ex he's grown and I'm not stupid I would move around and move on 😉
1 year ago | 9
Ill never date a guy with kids ever again. I always find out the real reason they split up.
1 year ago | 13
Any man still doing all that for an ex is a damn fool and obviously still wants her.
1 year ago | 10
If she good people (no problems) and it doesnt put me in a bad spot to help, then of course i’d help her, anyway i can. And any woman im with has to understand that. That shih cuts both ways too. Just want my kids to be in a good place and that includes their mother, even though we are no longer together. Actually had a cousin who stayed with his daughters mother and her husband while he (cuz) was in a rough spot. Cuz back on his feet and doin well for himself now.
1 year ago | 3
If the Ex does all of that, then they need to just be together. The ex is not about to help our household and then help the Ex household too! Now child support is one thing, but child support AND the Ex rent/mortgage, car insurance/car note, and/or cell phone bill?! Helllllllllllll nawl!!!
1 year ago (edited) | 4
Wow! I’m assuming any man voluntarily doing this is trying to get his ex back! Well, I’ll grab a snack and see what our sisters have to say, lol!
1 year ago | 9
No problem if he got it like that, as long as everything is secure on the home front. Edit... Now if she has a man, HE should have a problem with that. I know mine would most definitely.
1 year ago (edited) | 6
On special occasions only if its for the benefit the child. i.e helping the ex pay a bill to allow funds for the child soccer gear, dance recital, birthday party, etc...
1 year ago | 3
I mean if he's court ordered he pretty much doesn't have a choice
1 year ago | 11
The Phillip Scott Show
Ladies
Would you allow your husband or boyfriend to pay his ex-wife or baby moms car insurance, cell phone bill and rent if the woman needs it. In addition to court ordered child support at $1700 per month.
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