Masha don’t forget your female audience. Your videos about healing from a break up have helped me a lot! I really think we have similar experiences and I can totally relate to everything you say! Thank you! 🙏
2 months ago | 2
deep in my art and career and bad at following up with women, meet a ton of women just need like a way to remember to re-engage in a reasonable amount of time after
2 months ago | 0
It’s many factors. I would say my standards are high, not in a shallow sense but in a deep way. I have things to work on in myself and I don’t want to be with anyone just to be with them. I don’t want something surface level. It’s not fun, takes a lot of energy, and overall meaningless. A break up from a long term relationship can change you but it also teaches you what to look for and challenges you to better yourself. Sorry for the paragraph but this question struck a chord, and I thank you for it.
2 months ago | 0
I overthink everything, but historically I've been proven right every single time. So thats going to be a lot to unpack when the right one does come along.
2 months ago | 0
Emotionally, I'm a mess, but I also feel like I have nothing to lose and a lot to learn.
1 month ago | 0
Hi, I've been following your content for a while, but I know it's something not many people have the time to read, so I'll be brief. In the ASMRs I watch, I only seek to silence my subconscious, which harasses me for being alone. Despite all my mistakes, I know I can be better. Despite what I may or may not have suffered, I have to improve because my light has helped others, and I can't give up. I don't want others to feel that loneliness. Even if it's pathetic for being like this, it's who I am, and I will be proud to be that. And that's why I thank people like you, women like you who respect their audience. Thank you for your channel and helping many men broken by such a sick and cold society. And sorry, por el largo del mensaje y el tiempo perdido. saludos de chile.
2 months ago | 0
I literally just don’t have an ounce of confidence. I’m nowhere near where I want to be in life as a man so I don’t feel like I have anything to offer, so it’s hard for me to even accept I can have love
2 months ago | 0
Deeper Topics like those to talk about will always be so highly appreciated for me. Even when I ended up "embracing" the thing that I wanna be alone and doing most of the things by my own... It'll be so welcome any suggestion you want to share with us about that ❤
2 months ago (edited) | 0
I’m not single and have social ties, but I do wish I had more close friends in my area. My strongest friend groups an hour drive or in a different country currently so it’s a little lonely feeling tho not too bad
2 months ago | 0
I've been avoiding relationships. And, as a result, in 2 and a half years, I've taught myself 7 instruments and have written more than enough music across multiple genres to pump out a few albums. So, I suppose my problem with intimacy is that I see it as a waste of time nowadays? Idk, but I know for a fact I never would've done any of this if I were in a relationship, and I'm happier than I've ever been in my life regardless of if I spend the rest of it alone (parents are probably ashamed cuz they want grandkids but oh well)
2 months ago | 0
I dont go out, people at bars are usually not there to meet new people. I don't use apps, I'm not attractive enough and ask the good options found love long ago, leaving only the dysfunctional, the needy, the incompatible. I don't hit on my coworkers, it invites drama and i don't need that. When i hang out with friends, I'm not meeting new people. Life simply does not afford me the opportunity to show myself off to potential partners.
2 months ago | 0
I'm in an interesting spot, one that I have been thinking about lately XD I actually meet a lot of women that I connect well with, most of my friends are women. But I find myself not really seeing any of those friendships as able to turn into anything romantic. Not necessarily a bad thing, to me that just means it's not time yet.
2 months ago | 0
I just don't put myself out there because dating is so garbage these days. I just stay in my lane and don't try.
2 months ago | 0
Personally, Theres one girl I will always love, she was my first and the love of my life, it’s all thats ever really mattered & being so pure , hers our spirits, thats all I could of ever asked for, being hers forever, thats it, as simple as it gets & thats life ,
2 months ago | 0
My mindset is really stuck in a transactional trap. I feel like I have to have the entire world to offer to a potential partner, but at the same time I'm the sort of person who gets really motivated by having a partner near me in the first place. So alone, I'm too comfortable to build up what I want to offer. But together I haven't built up enough to be an improvement in her life.
2 months ago | 0
The MashaKata
I've been thinking about the people who find my content...
If you've been following my content, you know I talk about relationships and human connection a lot. The messy, beautiful, complicated parts of how we love and how we want to be loved. But I'm interested in the deeper stuff... the kind of connection that happens when you actually know yourself and aren't afraid to be seen for who you really are.
I'm exploring something new and I want to understand where you are with all of this first. So I'm going to ask some questions over the next few days. Simple ones about intimacy, connection, what role all of that plays in your life. Just... what's honest for you right now.
Your answers are just between us. Answer what feels real, not what sounds right.
What's the biggest challenge you're facing right now when it comes to love or connection?
2 months ago | [YT] | 307