No contact works depending on your situations. Should you get back together? Probably not. People break up for a reason
1 year ago | 0
It is interesting how no one considers the scenario in which the dumper returns with the tail between the legs and then they are all.distant and how to handle that. No contact also helps here. It is an absolute necessity to get your heart and mind together and get yourself in a state of emotional control. If you can't manage that nothing will save the relationship.
1 year ago | 0
I just hope it isn’t people basically only trying to help people move on but marketing it as a way to get an ex back. that’s always my concern, I would rather see content orientated towards a mixture of both, even if it’s less healthy, if that is what you are searching for. I understand the use in resetting, but i do question when some say to never reach out again and let them.
1 year ago (edited) | 2
I honestly don’t understand why you’re so against no contact. My husband of 10 years, 17 years together broke up with me. I stayed in contact for a year which unfortunately led to bouts of pleading etc. The positive contact also did not lead to us reconciling. It’s now been 14 months separated and I’ve had yo go as no contact as possible to regain some pride and strength. It doesn’t mean ignoring them just not initiating anything. I’ve now made more progress in almost 2 months of no contact than in the previous year. I don’t know what will happen in the end but I feel better about it all now. And I feel much better about myself. Especially since he has found himself a ‘friend’. I wish I had taken this approach from the start.
1 year ago (edited) | 0
Just my opinion, but no contact just gives both parties time and space to let the emotions calm and reevaluate things. If the dumper is truly done, there’s nothing that will change that. You’ve got to stop trying to control an outcome.
1 year ago | 4
She blocked me during no contact so yeah it sucked for me cause it made her more upset as I wasn’t talking to her
1 year ago | 1
I thought that me and her were still friends, I played a prank on her (and others) I changed their Snapchat passwords… guess she didn’t like that so her friends told her to block me. Haven’t talked in 46 days
1 year ago | 0
I’m in no contact just because we’re not friends and it seems she already moved on (1 month post break up she already talking to someone else) it’s been two months since the break and two weeks since I lasted talked to her. It hurts a lot but she seem happy without me so there’s no point in talking to her
1 year ago (edited) | 0
Clay Andrews
Out of curiosity, how do you feel about the No Contact Rule?
1 year ago | [YT] | 12