Someone left this on my “what to wear instead of tight denim shorts” video.
They saw the lace skirt I wore as an alternative to tight denim shorts & said it looked “cheap, tacky, and available.” Like I was advertising myself to men.
And honestly? I’m still sitting with that.
Because I’m tired. Tired of people policing women’s clothes through the lens of respectability. Of confidence being mistaken for desperation. Of sensuality being treated like it’s something we should apologize for.
What if lace isn’t an invitation? What if it’s just… lace?
🖤 I’d love to hear your story 🖤 Have you ever worn something you loved… then had someone made you feel small for it? If yes, what did they say?
And (here’s where we take back our power)… if you could go back… what would you say now?
Fashion Wizardry
Someone left this on my “what to wear instead of tight denim shorts” video.
They saw the lace skirt I wore as an alternative to tight denim shorts & said it looked “cheap, tacky, and available.” Like I was advertising myself to men.
And honestly? I’m still sitting with that.
Because I’m tired.
Tired of people policing women’s clothes through the lens of respectability.
Of confidence being mistaken for desperation.
Of sensuality being treated like it’s something we should apologize for.
What if lace isn’t an invitation?
What if it’s just… lace?
🖤 I’d love to hear your story 🖤
Have you ever worn something you loved… then had someone made you feel small for it? If yes, what did they say?
And (here’s where we take back our power)… if you could go back… what would you say now?
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