In this week's YouTube video release, you may have noticed Blaire's debut on this channel.
I have seen a lot of positive comments praising her but also some critiques as well. And I wanted to thank you all for both.
Regarding the critique towards Blaire being too quiet, shy, or even disruptive at the wrong moments--they're all valid. These are not just her issues as a "reactor" these are at the crux of her own personal struggles. I will spare you the details as it is her own story to tell.
But the biggest reason for Blaire joining FORM OF THERAPY is this:
Something I believed to be true, and still believe, is that reacting made me a better person. I truly believe that reacting is something that you can only do with a pure of heart. I say "pure of heart" but what that means is up to the individual. But for me, it means being Brave.
For me, it meant being Brave enough to show my truth to people. I was ashamed of my autism and my IQ because I was beaten and tortured by my own family for it, I was ashamed of being Korean because I was bullied as a kid, and then as a teenager it put a target on my back. But I am not ashamed. I never have been. Only through the consistent beatings was I made to "believe" that shit.
I have been "reacting" for 7 years now but it really feels like I'm only just getting started. I was headed down a certain career path in film production and severely cut my ties when I saw how limiting and controlling the space was.
I plan to tell you all more about me and my journey here over the coming months as I prepare to launch and announce my 3-year and 10-year plans.
Blaire is here because she wants to change. She wants to make healing content. But she also knows that she cannot heal others and inspire others unless she becomes the change she wants to see in the world. So she is here despite her shyness or whatever else it may be--because none of these are actually her.
I have seen her true face, not this mask she wears on camera. Blaire is here because I believe in her. From the moment I met her I believed in her. From the moment I met her, I knew her potential. Blaire is actually an extrovert but her trauma has made her mask as an introvert. She holds a lot of fear in her heart and so she is here to release that fear, and in turn she hopes that her journey can inspire anyone else who may be like her.
She wants to heal the world, and I want to save it. I can't find a better partner than that.
I waited 3 long years to bring her in. There are many reasons for it but the biggest one was that she just wasn't ready. Blaire needed to get to a point where she has done everything she possibly can on her own, before reacting. She is ready now.
I know not everyone may jive with her at first or for a while, especially given that I am the world's greatest reactor, it's natural that comparisons will be drawn. But I did not become the world's greatest reactor overnight. I didn't even make MYSELF this way.
You all did.
So when we say all critique is welcome, we truly mean it. We are both confident that both the praise and the critique will help her in the way that you have all helped me.
Form of Therapy
Hello everyone, it's ya boi PD.
In this week's YouTube video release, you may have noticed Blaire's debut on this channel.
I have seen a lot of positive comments praising her but also some critiques as well. And I wanted to thank you all for both.
Regarding the critique towards Blaire being too quiet, shy, or even disruptive at the wrong moments--they're all valid. These are not just her issues as a "reactor" these are at the crux of her own personal struggles. I will spare you the details as it is her own story to tell.
But the biggest reason for Blaire joining FORM OF THERAPY is this:
Something I believed to be true, and still believe, is that reacting made me a better person. I truly believe that reacting is something that you can only do with a pure of heart. I say "pure of heart" but what that means is up to the individual. But for me, it means being Brave.
For me, it meant being Brave enough to show my truth to people. I was ashamed of my autism and my IQ because I was beaten and tortured by my own family for it, I was ashamed of being Korean because I was bullied as a kid, and then as a teenager it put a target on my back. But I am not ashamed. I never have been. Only through the consistent beatings was I made to "believe" that shit.
I have been "reacting" for 7 years now but it really feels like I'm only just getting started. I was headed down a certain career path in film production and severely cut my ties when I saw how limiting and controlling the space was.
I plan to tell you all more about me and my journey here over the coming months as I prepare to launch and announce my 3-year and 10-year plans.
Blaire is here because she wants to change. She wants to make healing content. But she also knows that she cannot heal others and inspire others unless she becomes the change she wants to see in the world. So she is here despite her shyness or whatever else it may be--because none of these are actually her.
I have seen her true face, not this mask she wears on camera. Blaire is here because I believe in her. From the moment I met her I believed in her. From the moment I met her, I knew her potential. Blaire is actually an extrovert but her trauma has made her mask as an introvert. She holds a lot of fear in her heart and so she is here to release that fear, and in turn she hopes that her journey can inspire anyone else who may be like her.
She wants to heal the world, and I want to save it. I can't find a better partner than that.
I waited 3 long years to bring her in. There are many reasons for it but the biggest one was that she just wasn't ready. Blaire needed to get to a point where she has done everything she possibly can on her own, before reacting. She is ready now.
I know not everyone may jive with her at first or for a while, especially given that I am the world's greatest reactor, it's natural that comparisons will be drawn. But I did not become the world's greatest reactor overnight. I didn't even make MYSELF this way.
You all did.
So when we say all critique is welcome, we truly mean it. We are both confident that both the praise and the critique will help her in the way that you have all helped me.
I hope you are all inspired by her journey.
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