GROUNDED CRINGE

Hello everyone, I just thought I’d come on here to share a life story of mine which some may relate to, and also use this space for you to open up as well.
A few months ago, I met this girl. She was really nice and we had a good conversation. I go home and think nothing of it, the next week I see her again and she comes up to me and asks for my socials which I give to her. She then started messaging me throughout the day and I was doing the same. I thought we would just end up being friends however a few weeks later I caught feelings and she said she had feelings for me. We start getting to know each other more, sharing deep and personal stuff about our lives which made me feel a connection I hadn’t had in ages. I then decided to ask her out on a date. She said yes and we went out. It was a great date, we were sitting on a bench, she went in for a cuddle and we just talked about our lives. After that everything was amazing, she was this really amazing girl I dreamed of having in my life, she talked about plans for the future, what we’d do for Christmas and all that stuff, and she made me feel good about myself, supported me with things such as my YouTube channel and the Gym and even said “I love you”.However, she slowly starts to become distant, I ask her if she’s okay but she just replies that she’s busy and is stressed. I think nothing of it, I just think to myself we all get like that sometimes she’ll go back to being her usual self soon. I even think about asking her to be my girlfriend and even her friends said I should. So I decide, wait til she’s in a good mood and then go ask her. But then, her texts get dryer and dryer, to the point where it’s one sided. I feel like I’d been love bombed, but I still had that bit of hope that she’d go back to being her usual self around me. And then a week later, she posted something on her Instagram story, and it was her with another guy. But the thing is, even tho she was being dry the past week, she was still texting me, she knew I had genuine feelings for her. She even called me the night before I looked at the story, but the phone call didn’t last as I had no signal where I was. I felt betrayed, belittled, and humiliated finding out the way I did. I wished she would’ve at least told me that she didn’t have feelings rather than drag it out. In fact, I wished she would’ve just left me alone and never bothered talking to me, but I can’t change that. Even though we never actually got past the talking stage, it still hurt me, because I was promised great things and was willing to give the same back but it was just words.
TL;DR I was in a talking stage with a girl, it was going really great, she even said “I love you” she gives me the cold shoulder, found out a week later it was because she chose another guy over me

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@Mgluver481

Relatable. I tried to ask a girl out in a traffic light since she recorded me, the minute I was gonna trade instagrams, my rental Mercedes-Benz stalled and the safety features kicked in and she rejected me and sped off. But I've had been in a situation where the girl who I was interested in already had a boyfriend, but in hindsight it was pretty insulting. The boyfriend was a friend of mine but he knew about it. Relationships you should put expectations down. I haven't been in a relationship and don't intend to have plans to date anytime soon. I prefer to start as friends and develop, but you need common interests i feel.

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@weatherstormlordstudioss

I am so sorry you had to go through that, it always sucks when something like that happens. I didn’t have a severe of a situation, i.e., the girl I had problems with didn’t ghost me for another person as far as I know, but I kind of had the same situation where she became more and more distant, and wasn’t communicating at all, and then mine also became one-sided. It was a different situation, but it certainly looks kind of similar to what you ended up with it always sucks when somebody has to go through that though

2 weeks ago | 3  

@Aryantastic-27-63

having a bf/gf can have a bigger rise or a massive downfall

2 weeks ago (edited) | 4

@MathBoy1173

Ouch, you'll find better though

2 weeks ago | 2  

@SUPERMIIBRO

I'm so sorry for you man I've been through the same way if she lied trust me man you deserve better a better female will come for you soon I been through the same way a very toxic relationship

2 weeks ago | 2  

@DanielZ-nv2zg

I feel your pain. I was dating this girl for nearly a year only to find out she cheated on me 1 month before she broke up with me. Love is painful.

2 weeks ago | 5  

@Maria-rl5bl

I feel your pain I'm playing on my mom's phone and kinda had the same conflict as you maybe not all of it but I see what you mean.

2 weeks ago | 4  

@Maria-rl5bl

Feel bad for you.

2 weeks ago | 5  

@isitworthit2912

Sorry to hear that if you need anything let me know

2 weeks ago | 2  

@tinyman07

sorry about that man, that really sucks

2 weeks ago | 2  

@TokyoFoxStudios

Totally not fair, but that's part of life on getting a girlfriend. Sorry to hear about that. 😔

2 weeks ago | 3  

@ToluwaniAgboola-hv4jv

I feel your pain bro. I feel your pain

2 weeks ago | 2  

@EEI_6236

I’m ngl, I’m not even close to opening a relationship because I lost my girlfriend 2 1/2 ago & I have been talking to other girls but I never actually get taken!, I just can’t wait to go to college & I can finally be man! People at my school sucks!

2 weeks ago | 2

@JaniceOwusu-j4p

l feel your pain the same exact thing happened to me my boyfriend was cheating behind my back l found out 3 months after

2 weeks ago | 2  

@jaedeneastendersfan9373

I feel so sorry for you man😢

2 weeks ago | 2  

@josueaburto984

youtube.com/post/UgkxpRNuuzSU4oQt9AADEKqu_mp_938AL… her parents will falsely believe it was bullying at school when it not

2 weeks ago | 2

@ulovemisshollyberry

i’m so sorry

2 weeks ago | 3  

@g0dfear1ng

Something similar happened in my freshman year of high school, it’s wtv tho I don’t really care much for it anymore 🤷🏾‍

2 weeks ago | 1  

@filmshoot472

Damn Bro. I've only Been in two relationships before and none of them were like that. Sorry that happened to you Bro. I Hope You'll Feel Better Soon.😔😔😔😔😔

2 weeks ago | 4  

@TheArtWizard99

Cool story bro

2 weeks ago | 3