They do. They will literally run away. Flee the scene... After this drama, you are expected to forget about it, or "get over it"....and if you don't - you're the problem. Again. It's a truly insideous psychopathy.
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I told my Narc Ex at one point his patterns of Abuse and Hoovering. I told him he was contacting me because his other Supply had let him down, and he thought he'd try his luck with me. You would have thought he would have defended himself at least, but all I got was complete silence. No rage, no nothing. I took that as a sign that I was right in my accusation. What do people think?? 🍒
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The only one thing I have ever found to protect one’s peace is no contact I read that after 90 days of no contact true healing begins to really set in I know that in some cases one needs to keep some contact with them, work for example or when kids are involved; but I have learned (the hard way) that only no contact works I also have one in my life with whom I work - so I had to learn some strategic coping mechanisms, flattery to keep them in the belief that I find them wonderful etc / but you do what you have to to keep the peace
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Wow❤😮Well said. ❤That has been my exact experience. Demanding accountability threatens their sense of superiority and is too humiliating for them to bear😮Thanks for reminding us that their crazy reactions and intimidation belong to them and are further proof of the need to walk away and/or pursue legal accountability, if necessar
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Yes. When I confronted my late stepfather about some things he did, reacted with anger and brought up my flaws. I could not talk to him.
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If and when I ever confronted him about something, maybe I'd get angry because of his denying the truth, usually with proof of truth. He'd tell people I attacked him!
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Record their abuse and put them on blast on social media and send them to law enforcement agencies. They don't like it when their bullying behaviour get exposed
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They personalise country!? And waist budget on reality!
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I feel like I’ve experienced narcissism - and know I have in certain people. Is it common for people to wonder if they’re the narcissist after being abused by one?
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Yup. my ex's mother. Tell her to do adulting and she claims you are abusing her.
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So do they succumb to the fact they will not not peace…pride and prejudice
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Understanding Narcissism, by Elizabeth Shaw.
To a narcissist, accountability feels like an attack. That’s why they lie, deflect, rage, cry, or disappear the moment you confront the truth.
Narcissists don’t fear the truth — they fear being held responsible for it. Accountability threatens the fragile ego they work so hard to protect. The moment you point out something they’ve done, the mask slips, and their behaviour becomes reactive, dramatic, or downright explosive.
Instead of listening, they lie to rewrite the story.
Instead of owning their actions, they deflect and bring up your flaws.
Instead of staying calm, they rage to intimidate you.
If rage doesn’t work, they switch to crying or playing the victim, hoping your empathy will rescue them.
If none of that gets them control, they disappear — the silent treatment becomes their punishment.
To them, accountability isn’t a conversation. It’s a threat. A challenge. A reminder that they are not the flawless, superior figure they believe themselves to be. Admitting they were wrong feels like humiliation, and taking responsibility feels like surrender.
But here’s the truth: their reaction has nothing to do with your approach and everything to do with their inability to self-reflect.
You didn’t do anything wrong by speaking up.
Their behaviour simply confirms why you needed to.
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