Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you always end up right back where you started?
â You start getting in shape⌠Then sabotage it. â You make more money⌠Then somehow lose it. â You work on yourself⌠But deep down, nothing changes.
Itâs like thereâs an invisible force pulling you back.
đ¨ Thatâs NOT a coincidence... đ¨
Itâs because youâre trapped inside an invisible prison.
You think you have free will?
To a certain extent, you do:
You can turn left. You can turn right. You can make small changes within your comfort zone.
But the second you try to step outside of it?
Resistance kicks in and self-sabotage pulls you back!
Your mind protects whatâs familiar... Even if whatâs familiar is keeping you small.
Thatâs why, if you look back at the last five years...
Youâll probably notice:
Your income stays within the same range.
Your fitness fluctuates but always settles back to a baseline.
And your relationships follow the same cycle, over and over again.
Itâs like your life has a thermostat.
Go too far above what feels ânormal,â and self-sabotage pulls you back.
Go too far below, and "survival mode" kicks in to force you back up.
And unless you break this pattern⌠NOTHING will ever change.
Most people try to break free by relying on:
â DISCIPLINE: âI just need to push harder.â â WILLPOWER: âI have to force myself through this.â â ACCOUNTABILITY: âI need someone to keep me on track.â
And while these can help temporarily, they donât last.
Because youâre just fighting the guards at the door... But the prison still exists.
And eventually?
You get tired and slide right back into your old patterns.
Thatâs why the only way out isnât to fight harder... Itâs to deactivate the prison itself!
Which is held together by three "generators":
1ď¸âŁ TRAUMA: Past experiences that created deep emotional blocks. 2ď¸âŁ CORE BELIEFS: The hidden assumptions shaping what you think is âpossibleâ for you. 3ď¸âŁ CORE IDENTITY: The version of yourself youâre unconsciously committed to staying.
Shut them down (by LETTING GO) and the prison collapses.
đĽ You no longer have to fight for success... It just becomes your new normal. đĽ You donât have to force confidence... It naturally flows from you. đĽ You donât have to push through resistance... Because thereâs nothing left to resist.
JulienHimself
Why transformation feels IMPOSSIBLE... đ
And how to break free!
Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you always end up right back where you started?
â You start getting in shape⌠Then sabotage it.
â You make more money⌠Then somehow lose it.
â You work on yourself⌠But deep down, nothing changes.
Itâs like thereâs an invisible force pulling you back.
đ¨ Thatâs NOT a coincidence... đ¨
Itâs because youâre trapped inside an invisible prison.
You think you have free will?
To a certain extent, you do:
You can turn left. You can turn right. You can make small changes within your comfort zone.
But the second you try to step outside of it?
Resistance kicks in and self-sabotage pulls you back!
Your mind protects whatâs familiar... Even if whatâs familiar is keeping you small.
Thatâs why, if you look back at the last five years...
Youâll probably notice:
Your income stays within the same range.
Your fitness fluctuates but always settles back to a baseline.
And your relationships follow the same cycle, over and over again.
Itâs like your life has a thermostat.
Go too far above what feels ânormal,â and self-sabotage pulls you back.
Go too far below, and "survival mode" kicks in to force you back up.
And unless you break this pattern⌠NOTHING will ever change.
Most people try to break free by relying on:
â DISCIPLINE: âI just need to push harder.â
â WILLPOWER: âI have to force myself through this.â
â ACCOUNTABILITY: âI need someone to keep me on track.â
And while these can help temporarily, they donât last.
Because youâre just fighting the guards at the door... But the prison still exists.
And eventually?
You get tired and slide right back into your old patterns.
Thatâs why the only way out isnât to fight harder... Itâs to deactivate the prison itself!
Which is held together by three "generators":
1ď¸âŁ TRAUMA: Past experiences that created deep emotional blocks.
2ď¸âŁ CORE BELIEFS: The hidden assumptions shaping what you think is âpossibleâ for you.
3ď¸âŁ CORE IDENTITY: The version of yourself youâre unconsciously committed to staying.
Shut them down (by LETTING GO) and the prison collapses.
đĽ You no longer have to fight for success... It just becomes your new normal.
đĽ You donât have to force confidence... It naturally flows from you.
đĽ You donât have to push through resistance... Because thereâs nothing left to resist.
Thatâs real transformation.
Not discipline.
Not willpower.
Not another battle with yourself.
But finally setting yourself free!
- Julien
PS: Want my help with this? đ application.julienhimself.com/
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