Right now, you're a version of yourself that, believe it or not, you're not proud to be.
But, to be fair, that isn't always your fault. Because sometimes you have good intentions behind the person that you are, until you see how badly it affects you.
It's not that you're a "bad person", but who you are is a danger to yourself.
When you try so hard to be the right person for someone, giving them your all, people pleasing them, and trying to be who you think they want you to be, it's easy to lose yourself in the process.
It's crazy because you can literally go from someone who knew what they wanted for themselves, was at peace and happy in life, focused on their goals, to somebody who just feels completely lost and stuck, all because of one person coming into your life.
I know that because I did the same exact thing, I lost myself trying to be enough for somebody who didn't even deserve me, honestly.
Believe it or not, most of you aren't even stuck on the person; you're just stuck on the version of yourself that tried so hard to be enough for them, but still, in the end, got rejected.
So it feels like a part of you is missing, because you're waiting for someone else's validation to feel confident in yourself.
I know because again, I did the same thing, but I also know how easy it is to get stuck there for years and maybe even the rest of your life.
Unfortunately, the feeling doesn't go away just by learning to stop reaching out, or going no contact, or finally moving on, because it still feels like you need somebody to choose you in order to feel like you're enough.
The feeling, the desire, the urge to keep chasing people who don't want you only goes away when you become a version of yourself that doesn't need them to choose you to feel confident and good about yourself.
It only happens when you finally rebuild your self-worth so that you stop performing and losing yourself in relationships.
Again, I get it because I've been there before, and it's exactly why I started coaching people to help them get the transformation that I did.
So if you're ready to stop feeling stuck or like you lost a part of you trying to keep other people, check out my private 1:1 coaching and see if it's something that's for you.
Remember, none of this changes until YOU change who you are as a person.
WillKeepItReal
Nothing changes until you change.
Right now, you're a version of yourself that, believe it or not, you're not proud to be.
But, to be fair, that isn't always your fault. Because sometimes you have good intentions behind the person that you are, until you see how badly it affects you.
It's not that you're a "bad person", but who you are is a danger to yourself.
When you try so hard to be the right person for someone, giving them your all, people pleasing them, and trying to be who you think they want you to be, it's easy to lose yourself in the process.
It's crazy because you can literally go from someone who knew what they wanted for themselves, was at peace and happy in life, focused on their goals, to somebody who just feels completely lost and stuck, all because of one person coming into your life.
I know that because I did the same exact thing, I lost myself trying to be enough for somebody who didn't even deserve me, honestly.
Believe it or not, most of you aren't even stuck on the person; you're just stuck on the version of yourself that tried so hard to be enough for them, but still, in the end, got rejected.
So it feels like a part of you is missing, because you're waiting for someone else's validation to feel confident in yourself.
I know because again, I did the same thing, but I also know how easy it is to get stuck there for years and maybe even the rest of your life.
Unfortunately, the feeling doesn't go away just by learning to stop reaching out, or going no contact, or finally moving on, because it still feels like you need somebody to choose you in order to feel like you're enough.
The feeling, the desire, the urge to keep chasing people who don't want you only goes away when you become a version of yourself that doesn't need them to choose you to feel confident and good about yourself.
It only happens when you finally rebuild your self-worth so that you stop performing and losing yourself in relationships.
Again, I get it because I've been there before, and it's exactly why I started coaching people to help them get the transformation that I did.
So if you're ready to stop feeling stuck or like you lost a part of you trying to keep other people, check out my private 1:1 coaching and see if it's something that's for you.
Remember, none of this changes until YOU change who you are as a person.
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