Death by association is such a powerful thing in this community. As someone whos witnessed it and also experienced it (obviously) its also a very toxic and creepy thing that can happen. You are telling me just because I talk or interact to a "bad person" or someone you may not like, that just AUTOMATICALLY makes ME a bad person and the result is you cut me off? That is not at ALL how that should work.
How it should work is that if I talk to this "bad person" the opposing party realistically shouldnt care. A toxic thing that normally happens is If I do talk to this deemed "bad person" then the opposing party cuts me off and makes everyone else that I talk to cut me off. Thats not doing any justice thats just being weirdly controlling and parasocial. NO ONE can control who you are friends with or talk to except you and if this "friend" doesnt like it then they were really never your friend to begin with if they can drop you so easily.
Another thing is that people in this community care way too much about their social status or presence in this fanbase. Its going to take alot of people to realize that all of these "friends" you may have made is just parasocial and they notice more bad things you may do over good which is funny because I would say ive done a pretty decent but small amount of good things for people in this fanbase.
Ive helped people with some art stuff, animation, rigging, editing, even making scenes and those SAME people STILL use my stuff DEPSITE calling me a bad person now I wont say im the most nicest and attentive person in this fanbase not by a long slide, im very lazy and unresponsive alot of the times, I do put on this nice facade alot of the times because I know its mostly children in this community and people that are bad at receiving certain social things and I try to have moments like this where I try to speak out about things like this but no one seems to bat an eye at problems like these.
I know people go on my channel and go to posts and probably go like "oh my gosh hes still talking about all of this". Yes, I am still talking about this for these past 6 months I will never let this go because im the only one thats able to speak up upon this and IM the only one thats able to stand up for myself. Im not going to just go quiet and hide running from something that I know I was wronged in. Until the justice has been giving fairly to both parties I will never stop talking about this
TL;DR Death by association is slowly killing this fanbase
CheezeDibbles
Death by association is such a powerful thing in this community. As someone whos witnessed it and also experienced it (obviously) its also a very toxic and creepy thing that can happen. You are telling me just because I talk or interact to a "bad person" or someone you may not like, that just AUTOMATICALLY makes ME a bad person and the result is you cut me off? That is not at ALL how that should work.
How it should work is that if I talk to this "bad person" the opposing party realistically shouldnt care. A toxic thing that normally happens is If I do talk to this deemed "bad person" then the opposing party cuts me off and makes everyone else that I talk to cut me off. Thats not doing any justice thats just being weirdly controlling and parasocial. NO ONE can control who you are friends with or talk to except you and if this "friend" doesnt like it then they were really never your friend to begin with if they can drop you so easily.
Another thing is that people in this community care way too much about their social status or presence in this fanbase. Its going to take alot of people to realize that all of these "friends" you may have made is just parasocial and they notice more bad things you may do over good which is funny because I would say ive done a pretty decent but small amount of good things for people in this fanbase.
Ive helped people with some art stuff, animation, rigging, editing, even making scenes and those SAME people STILL use my stuff DEPSITE calling me a bad person now I wont say im the most nicest and attentive person in this fanbase not by a long slide, im very lazy and unresponsive alot of the times, I do put on this nice facade alot of the times because I know its mostly children in this community and people that are bad at receiving certain social things and I try to have moments like this where I try to speak out about things like this but no one seems to bat an eye at problems like these.
I know people go on my channel and go to posts and probably go like "oh my gosh hes still talking about all of this".
Yes, I am still talking about this for these past 6 months I will never let this go because im the only one thats able to speak up upon this and IM the only one thats able to stand up for myself. Im not going to just go quiet and hide running from something that I know I was wronged in. Until the justice has been giving fairly to both parties I will never stop talking about this
TL;DR
Death by association is slowly killing this fanbase
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