I fell in love with a guy after my husband died. I thought I had found the second love of my life, but that didn’t happen and I took it extremely hard. I let it effect my own sense of worth. I am slowly getting balanced.
2 years ago | 1
I was a widow and very lonely when I started listening to you. Your advice was so helpful to me as I went forward to look for another relationship. I have shared you with many of my friends. And I still enjoy listening. Your advice is great for those looking for relationships - and even just for living a better life!! Thankyou!!
2 years ago | 2
Id say committed and happy but also, I know if this is going to last, he'll need to take a step forward. No rush, it'll happen when the time is right and if it doesn't, I'm ok with moving forward to someone who's already in that place.
2 years ago | 3
I am a widow of 3 years. My kids are fully grown and have long ago been out on their own. I am on a dating site. I have only had one coffee date. We looked just right on paper. Turns out we actually had a different expectations for a relationship. That's fine. We happily went on our way. I am becoming "single and fed up" although I admit that currently I'm still seeking someone. Following great advice from you Mat. When the timing is right, I will meet a man who is right for me. Gina Hetlage
2 years ago | 2
Single and loving it! Why isn’t that an option. Some people do like being single
2 years ago | 8
I'm in a committed relationship and very happy. It does point out how awful my past relationships were. Thankfully this is the complete opposite. I never imagined I could be part of something this great. This man is so kind, thoughtful and generous. We can talk and laugh for hours. When he has off and I have to work I hate to leave because it is such fun to be around him or just talk. I think he may be surprised that things are going so well.
2 years ago | 4
I’m in a category known as Beyond Single. I’m happy being single. No cats. Just happy.
2 years ago | 12
I DNT know if TS committed but im loving t with a healthy heart . My past has been awful like I DNT wanna go back there myt spoil my mood . Thnx to u Mat learning a lot with u
2 years ago | 1
Working on myself and enjoying myself but open to meeting someone to share life with
2 years ago | 2
In a happy relationship, just finding it hard to be the one who is ready to move forward in the relationship when the other one isn't.
2 years ago | 1
I prefer to say we need to work on things rather than saying he has to do the work.
2 years ago | 1
Happily single, not seeking, but open to a good thing if it comes along.
2 years ago | 0
@MatBoggs In a relationship, happy but there’s an issue… We work well with the kids from the first wife. They live here 50-50. The not-happy area is that he changed his mind since we were married about wanting more children. He changed when his ex wife took my husband to court and tried to take the kids (she failed). Now he is afraid of parenting with me, his second wife. That’s the gist. I want and feel I deserve to be a mother, and I’m reasonable with him that I would adopt older or have a baby if he doesn’t want to go through the sleepless nights and diapers, etc. definitely more so than his ex. Her actions should not give me negative consequences. I don’t know how to motivate him. And I don’t know how to turn him around into earning my trust as a husband by holding to our previous commitment to have children before the ex-wife scared him. @MatBoggs How can the “new wife” help motivate a man that it’s safe and worth it to have another child when the ex-wife is giving him hell and stealing his energy and sense of safety?
1 year ago | 0
Mat Boggs
How would you describe your relationship status?
2 years ago | [YT] | 166