I would like another option: I don’t care xD I think if it’s not important (like if the ex is like a stalker or something) I don’t have to know. I do think transparency about your past relationship is great to know if you are compatible in the long run, to not make the same mistake that broke your past relationship
4 days ago | 9
I think what matters most is how your partner treated your ex. Like where they a good partner, did they cheat, did they lie. I don't care so much as for every detail, but I care if my partner has always treated a past partner with respect, love, and compassion.
4 days ago | 3
I know my husband's full history as we've been together for 29 years, lol. I'm grateful for those relationships as they helped form him into a wonderful man.
3 days ago | 1
I would want to know anything that would shock me if it came out later in our relationship, like don’t deny me spicy stuff that you willingly did with previous partners…cuz if you do and I find out later that you were somehow wild and spicy and now you’re not with me, then that’s gonna throw one hell of a wrench into the relationship
17 hours ago | 0
There's a middle ground. I don't want to know everything, but I want to know some things. Number of partners, general way they treated them, etc. Just like with my husband, I don't think he wants to know my ex's size, or who was better, but how I treated my ex and in general why we broke up he did want to know.
3 days ago | 0
Sometimes the gist of it is okay. My husband knows I was in somewhat abusive relationships in the past but not all of the details.
4 days ago | 4
Full transparency is toxic imo. I wouldn’t mind my partner saying “I did that in the past and would like to try with you”. But “my ex did that with me” would be bad. Name the experiences not the people. We could always get some inspiration from the partners’ past without also making it a comparison.
3 days ago | 0
i dont care but lieing about it is a red flag. like claiming you only had 1 partner your whole life and then years later found out you had over 100 one night rides. the lieing part would at least make me wounder what else is a lie
4 days ago | 1
I don't really care, but I think there are probably some things about past relationships you should know.
3 days ago | 0
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