Telling the person I like them has never worked for me ever. Even in occasions where there was initial interest from the man, it instantly died the moment I said it. So that one is 100% true.
1 month ago | 28
They're all so bad it's hard to choose but I picked the first one
1 month ago | 40
You should never have to give up your values for someone else!
1 month ago | 23
The list looks good to me. I'd never tell a man that I liked him first. And yes, it does look desperate. If he's interested, he should initiate . Next, I would never be available all of the time for a man because there will be times when he can't be available. He may need some time to himself. It's good to be aloof sometimes. I don't quite understand what that compromise part means.
4 weeks ago (edited) | 3
Definitely don’t do the third one. Women who are too available have no life and are needy clingy desperate and immature insecure. Never be too available and give up your life for him. He’s dessert not main meal. The other two do the opposite. Always tell him how you feel. Healthy masculine men like that and feel safe to open up. And always compromise. All relationships are about compromise inc with family. So the first two are terrible advice. The third one is good. But don’t tell him immediately only after a few months of dating.
3 weeks ago (edited) | 1
First of all if you are playing games not by being available and being unreachable it's honestly it's playing it's not love or it's not true feelings it's just manipulation . in love or in any bonding are any kind of relationship we all have to compromise even when I look at my parents they are married for 28 years which is pretty common in India they both compromise a lot for both of them and of course for me also and this is how every relation works we compromise for the person we love . if being available for the person I love is making him distant from me then it's not love. True love choose the person always..
1 month ago (edited) | 8
Literally all are so bad its hard choosing one but still going with 2nd one
1 month ago | 7
The worst dating opinion: choose another man. The worst dating opinion: don’t choose spark. 😂😂😂🙈🙈🙈I think many women are willing to pay a lot of money if you help them get the man they want. However, love experts often advise them to choose someone
1 month ago (edited) | 4
All this shows is that most guys prefer to play games and have a dynamic of control than looking for real love like they claim. Dating them is an exercise in self harm and idc what anyone says
1 month ago | 1
1. if you don't like him, why do you want to be around him? I think playing hard to get or silly psychological games could turn him off. So I think there's nothing wrong with telling him you 'like', him. Like is not the same as 'love'! If you telling him that you Love him too early on, then you look like you're infatuated.
3 weeks ago | 0
The 3rd one is true actually, it's not fake. It's the idea to not ALWAYS be available even if you are, fake it to seem like you aren't.
1 month ago | 5
As a millenial autistic woman; That advice of not telling a man you like him, for sure. On Reddit, I'm answering 'does he actually like me or not?' kind of questions on that one WAY too often. 🤣 And it's not exactly neurodivergent-friendly either. Nor is it helping bridge the pre-existing communication gap between neurodivergent flirting and neurotypical flirting; if anything, it's turning that proverbial gap into more of a downright chasm. 🙄 I mean, there are both neurotypical men and women out there completely fine with dating someone of a different neurotype, and vice versa on the autistic side of things. But it so often just goes wrong early on in the flirting process BECAUSE NOBODY ACTUALLY F*CKING SAYS THEY'RE INTO YOU on that one. Like, the NT's think they have to be indirect, and the autistic people are too socially anxious trying to both go along in that AND making sure they're not misreading that AT THE SAME TIME to make a move at all. Like, people don't even drop hints on that one anymore, lol (and that already wasn't working out for the autistic people either; we don't even actually catch onto that 90% of the time). Advice-wise, I'm usually shouting something at the neurotypical folks along the lines of 'Just ask him out for coffee already, sis!' or 'Just ask her out for coffee already, bro!' , lol. Because often, they're asking stuff like 'He bought me flowers, he's always inviting himself along to social stuff, and he's finding excuses to generally be near me; does he actually like me, or is he just being friendly?' For pete's sake; you just know this whole 'indirect flirting' thing isn't really working here if PERFECTLY NEUROTYPICAL PEOPLE are genuinely wondering if they misreading THAT. 🙄 I mean, 90% of the time, I'm just silently thinking 'Hey, NT people; a little bit of directness sure wouldn't k*ll ya!' 🙄 It's not ALWAYS the right answer, mind you. But just a tiny bit more of directness (and honesty of intentions, because not EVERYONE is only looking for NSA hookups as well, lol) would honestly solve A LOT of issues on the current dating scene,
1 month ago | 1
Ismael Gomez III
In your opinion, which of these 3 is the worst dating advice online today?
1 month ago | [YT] | 186