I WILL be reading ts💔. But anyway, if you did want to improve general persuasion skills you could read up on it or just watch how other people do it although that takes a while and I'm pretty sure you don't read, plus it's not that efficient anyway. I switch from listener to yapper depending on the convo although usually other people speak often enough. It depends on the person if they should be in dark situations alone or not but I'm general people should have support systems but being independent is a good trait to have. Anyway that was my basic thoughts on it goodnight Bebo (っ.❛ ᴗ ❛.)
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Bebo Senpai YT
Random 3AM — YAP POST. . .
Not gonna lie, my persuading and convincing skills are so bad. . .
I can't convince Or persuade anyone. . .
So most of times, I always end up being in trouble for no reasons. . .
Or people end up thinking I'm lying all the time. . .
And another fact is that no one ever listens to me. . .
I try to tell them something, and they just ignore. . .
That's why I stopped talking because I realized no one ever listened to me. . .
Even in online, i often get ignored when I'm trying to talk. . .
So yeah, I just stopped talking and it wasn't really a bad choice. . .
Even now, talking to people feel bothersome. . .
At same time, it's feels really great to talk depending on the person. . .
Either I feel like I'm stuck with you because you are just having some boring talk with me. . .
Or I just want time to slow down so I can talk with you more. . .
The first one mostly happenes when I'm talking to someone new for some reason. . .
Being completely, it's happens with everyone. . .
Since it's just straight talk and boring, if it's been freaky talk. . .
Then sure you piqued my interest, but just some boring hi, hello type shi. . .
Then yeah, it's definitely one of the most boring thing I will encounter in my day. . .
But ofc, mostly those who contacted it's been always about pfp. . .
So ofc rarely anyones talk to me, and since I stopped doing pfps. . .
Numbers drops to 1-3 per day, fair enough since I don't want people who just use me for their own benefit. . .
Idc wheter it's business, you should just contact me in YT instead. . .
But not all are like this, some are actually stayed with me till now. . .
Even though we contact very less, it's still better than nothing. . .
And by the way, I'm not doing this for some attention or smtg. . .
Idc if you talk with me or not, I'm not a interesting person now anyways. . .
I won't be sharing any of my privacy, nor I have any interesting story to tell. . .
So it will be just awkward, but if you able to make me work up then we probably Hold up a good convo. . .
And btw I'm mostly a listener, I will listen wha u say but i wont be able to response better. . .
Maybe you feel like you're just bother me, although could be depending on the convo. . .
But mostly I don't feel bored or bothered by someone since I'm a good listener. . .
Although, my talks not suggest this fact. . .
But trust on me, I'm the one who listened to teacher while everyone's talking. . .
And I will be the one listen to you, while you are yapping. . .
Sounds kinda romantic, something I would say to my gf. . .
But then again even though I have a gf, she rarely talks to me. . .
Like once in a 1-2 months, and yk what we talk even after meeting for so long?. . .
Hi, hello, hru fine blah blah blah, that's all. . .
So technically, she's not a gf rather than just a stranger who u will say hi to. . .
But ofc she thinks I'm a boring person, that's why she appear rarely. . .
But ofc I won't be the one putting all the efforts, she should at least start talking about something. . .
So I might be able to at least carry it, but whatever it's her thinking. . .
Not willing to talk it's alright, no one around is begging to talk you. . .
I also wonder, why I'm sounding so rude rn?. . .
Honestly yeah, I did having lots of issues and kinda becoming a red flag. . .
I used to be kind, gentle and caring person. . .
Not bragging about it btw, but now I'm just someone who bothered by anything And hav anger issues. . .
All because of these traumatic events I had in the past few months. . .
But I'm stil not toxic, I'm still the same person. . .
It's just when I needed little care, everyone just showed me distance. . .
No one understand what was going on with me, nor I told anyone. . .
Although I did tried showing it, but yeah in the end no one is truly a good person. . .
Not me, nor anyone..... It's okay to be like this. . .
U should let the suffering person endure and Cope on his own. . .
So he/she won't need anyone, when he/she suffering again in the future. . .
And that's is the right choice, although sometimes it's okay to help. . .
Not okay but crucial, since who knows if that person could be able to endure that. . .
So you either see that person thanking you or either hating you. . .
Both cases requires understanding, mutual understanding between both. . .
I know I'm sounding like some psychological Dr. . .
Or maybe not, who knows for me I think I am. . .
I think I understand peoples, not fully but maybe at some point. . .
Ik who is real and who is fake, who to trust and who to not. . .
I understand this, the more I talk the more I understand. . .
Maybe I'm not talentless after all, and ofc I'm not being narcissistic. . .
But being honest, yeah I'm a narcissistic person. . .
Something I think I'm the only right person in the room full of wrong person. . .
And sometimes it's true, only if they listened to me that time. . .
You wouldn't have suffering this wit me now. . .
Although, there was risk but there is no bigger reward if there isn't risk. . .
But the in the end and as always idc. . .
Wish I could say that, I think Idc but I'm always the one who cared. . .
And the only one who got hurted, i hate bow God made me like this. . .
Although, I don't hate because I think. . .
If I wasn't there on that day of that person life. . .
That person life would have been harder. . .
And vice versa, I also made someone life harder as well by doing nothing. . .
Anyways, I yapped too much today. . ..
But it's all to cover up the missing yapped post. . .
Well anyways friends, hav a sweet dreams ~ ✨
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