Maybe you're holding on because you don't trust yourself to let go.
Letting go is more than just deciding to walk away; it's making a decision to know that you CAN walk away and trusting that you'll be alright without them.
It's knowing that you can find happiness again, that you'll heal eventually, and losing that person doesn't mean you also have to lose part of yourself.
See, when you think you need a person to be happy, you'll think that letting go means your life falling apart, when in reality it's not.
I used to make the same mistake of worrying about whether I could "find someone again" or if this was "as good as it gets," and I just had to figure it out.
But, in reality, I was just settling into a space that brought nothing but suffering.
And the truth is that you'll never truly trust yourself to let go until after you do it.
Until you start seeing that you don't need them to be happy, until you start building a life without them, and until you start building new relationships and realize the previous one didn't complete you.
Letting go isn't something you do when you finally feel "ready"; it's something you do when you realize you can't afford to keep staying where you're at and trust that you'll be okay when you stop holding on.
But I get it, that trust can be hard to build, especially while you're still dealing with the pain, and that's exactly why I have my 1-on-1 Letting Go To Grow Coaching Program.
To be a coach to those who have no idea what steps to take after letting go, to find that peace and happiness again.
So if you're somebody who's finally ready to let go, but you're struggling to know or trust your steps moving forward, then this is something that's for you.
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Maybe you're holding on because you don't trust yourself to let go.
Letting go is more than just deciding to walk away; it's making a decision to know that you CAN walk away and trusting that you'll be alright without them.
It's knowing that you can find happiness again, that you'll heal eventually, and losing that person doesn't mean you also have to lose part of yourself.
See, when you think you need a person to be happy, you'll think that letting go means your life falling apart, when in reality it's not.
I used to make the same mistake of worrying about whether I could "find someone again" or if this was "as good as it gets," and I just had to figure it out.
But, in reality, I was just settling into a space that brought nothing but suffering.
And the truth is that you'll never truly trust yourself to let go until after you do it.
Until you start seeing that you don't need them to be happy, until you start building a life without them, and until you start building new relationships and realize the previous one didn't complete you.
Letting go isn't something you do when you finally feel "ready"; it's something you do when you realize you can't afford to keep staying where you're at and trust that you'll be okay when you stop holding on.
But I get it, that trust can be hard to build, especially while you're still dealing with the pain, and that's exactly why I have my 1-on-1 Letting Go To Grow Coaching Program.
To be a coach to those who have no idea what steps to take after letting go, to find that peace and happiness again.
So if you're somebody who's finally ready to let go, but you're struggling to know or trust your steps moving forward, then this is something that's for you.
So, if this message spoke to you and your situation, you can schedule a free call with me here
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