Parents have got to follow the Sunnah and stop assuming authority over their children when they’re way past their age of maturity. I see this in the subcontinent often, where parents simply want to dictate all the things their children do 🤦♂️ when they’re financially independent, taking care of all their obligations and yet still, the parents don’t let go, I genuinely don’t fully understand why
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Or simply just have an honest adult conversation with your parents so they start seeing you as the fully grown married man that you are now, rather than the kid you used to be. If you don’t set those boundaries now, later on they’ll keep on being controlling from far away, with your kids, other decisions and so on. It’ll never stop until you’re willing to have uncomfortable conversations, start behaving as an adult to be treated like one.
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Sheikh really said "get a good job"😂😂 in the nicest way posib
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the subcontinent people lives in their own shariah May Allah Almighty guide these ignorants.
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Part of the challenge of being a son and a husband is learning how to manage everyone's rights in a respectful manner. You need to start changing the relationship dynamics with your parents in a respectful way to show them that you are responsible for your wife's rights as well as the parental rights. It takes time and effort, but you'll be able to succeed in this.
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She’s not even allowed to visited her family without permission? What kind of abusive nonsense is this? It’s crazy that this guy has the ability to move out, but is afraid of offending his parents if he moves out so he doesn’t. He allows them to dictate his and his wives life. Why did he get married then? If he wants to live under his parent’s rules then he should have just stayed as their single son forever.
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Assalam-o-Alaikum, I pray this message finds you in good health and strong iman. There is someone I love sincerely and want to do Nikkah as soon as possible but facing issues. I humbly ask you to keep us in your duas, that Allah makes her my naseeb and grants us the blessing of nikkah, inshallah. May Allah forgive all your sins, shower you with His mercy, and accept your prayers. Your sincere duas, even if small, can make a big difference. Allah alone is the Best of Planners and the Most Generous. Please remember us in your prayers. Jazakallah khair.
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Wanting a separate accommodation is within the wife's right. The in-laws need to understand this and accept it. The husband needs to have a mature and respectful conversation with his parents. If they still get offended, that is their problem.
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Salam Alaykum, this is a case of the husband not being able to stand up as a man and decide on the necessary things he has to do. No disrespect to the parents but he should take actions and get a new home as quickly as possible because this looks like he is being treated as a child who doesn't know or understands making good decisions. Would his parents have to leave this dunya before he can act as a man? I dont stand with lying but however one should fight for his rights Almighty Allah has bestowed onto him and be dutiful as Almighty Allah has commanded.
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If they don't care about offending their daughter-in-law or you, then who cares if they get offended?😒 keep your duty as a compassionate son to them and go live your own life. They'll get over it..
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I've tried that whole Fake job lie, it's not worth it. Sheikhs advice is good. Just actually get a real job and move out without lying
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They are very loving to her but restrict her...wow, I don't see the love anywhere near this relationship...before it becomes too much of a toxic relationship better move out, coz in the end its you that gonna get hurt badly, coz the toxic relationship between your parents and your wife increasing daily n one day your parents won't be there n her mind will be fully loaded with the things they said n they did to her n she is gonna hate you at very core for not helping her at the time she wanted you the most...then no love nor respect you will receive from her...
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Beleiver Parents, Men Or Women Shouldn't Interfare In The Permissible Matters Of Childrens Which Allah SWT Allow For Them, Don't Prohibit For Them , Also Beleiver Children Shouldn't Interfare in The Permissible Matters Of The Parents. May Allah Guide Us To The Straight Path, Make Us Steadfast. Aameen
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Narrated Abu Mas`ud: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'One of the sayings of the early Prophets which the people have got is: If you don't feel ashamed (from Haya': pious shyness from committing religeous indiscretions) do whatever you like." (See Hadith No 690, 691, Vol 4)
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Or stop being a coward and tell them you want to move. Allah only gave you one life so stop trying to please everyone
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