merksmirs

To my lovely Arohas:
So I TRIED to film a reaction to Fly. I have it, it exists, but I won‘t lie to you it‘s literally just me crying.
Putting it on youtube feels weird to me and I also don‘t know what seeing that would add to anyone‘s lives, but I wanted to give you all the option to choose what I do with it.
The YouTube option specifically is the one that feels almost exploitative or Truma porn-y to me which is why I thought I could put it on Patreon but for free and then make another community post about it.
What do you all think?

1 year ago | [YT] | 5



@Gem57108

Honestly that was me too - as I've said before it's somewhat comforting to have others to grieve with even thru a screen! It can be really isolating grieving as a fan when you know absolutely no-one in your life understands so you just keep it to yourself. So my vote is Patreon - you don't then have to share with anyone that doesn't understand but Aroha who do can find it there.

1 year ago | 1  

@Tiaamaira

I would love if you uploaded it to YouTube as normal becuase like another comment it can be very comforting being able to grieve with others through a screen and also since I don’t have patreon but you should do what you thinks best and are more comfortable doing! As a fellow Aroha ❤️‍🩹

1 year ago | 1