BY HEALING WITH NARP* (bit.ly/3qLkH6w), LOUISE GOT BACK ON HER FEET AND IS NOW THE PROVIDER IN EVERY REGARD FOR HERSELF AND HER SON
If you asked me how I felt this time last year, I would tell you, "alone and lost in the dark". This was before I even knew about NARP. This was my genuine Soul Truth and it's no wonder, after living in fear and pain for most of my life.
I had amazing parents but with narcissistic boyfriends and my ex husband who was abusive for 8 years, it amounted to me being in a lot of suffering.
I call my ex abusive because I don't really care if he was a covert or an overt narcissist or a Cluster B because what "he" is isn't important to me. It's what "I" am that is important to me and that's what being a Thriver is essentially about.
I am my own provider in every regard. I am leading the way for my son, who I know one day is going to Thrive as well, regardless of his father, or anyone else. I could never have said this 1 year ago and this is what NARP has done for me.
I met my ex at a vulnerable time. I wasn't looking for love but his friends and people around him said what a good man he was, he played cricket, was a wine merchant and drove a nice car and he was also older than me so I thought he might "look after me".
There were the odd red flags and looking back I can see that my intuition was screaming out to me, "get out", but I made the usual excuses because I thought I could pour love on him and he would change, but you cannot fix them.
So, I was just Alice going down the rabbit hole. My doctor diagnosed me with depression and for a while I seemed to improve as did the relationship. With my therapist's help the depression all but disappeared. Then my father passed away. Leaving my ex in full control, as he thought.
I closed down my father's company which, although I was grieving for the loss of my father so much at the time, empowered me greatly as I realised how much I could achieve. This uplift of spirits was a big clash with an abusive partner.
One day he was physically abusive and he had no apology or remorse, but blame and excuses, especially that he was "only joking". I met with the local Domestic Abuse Team and I opened up to my mum. They told me to make a safe exit plan and go.
For a month I planned my exit, took all the documents I needed and my boy's things. My ex was so shocked when he came home and found I had gone. He texted me, "Is this a joke?" – so I guess I was the one that had the last laugh!
I knew all along that I needed to be there for "me" and more compassionately and lovingly than I ever had been. Then I learned about "feelings" and "validation". Then I found out "how" to do that and "how" to heal myself. That's when I found Mel!
With NARP I can now locate, recognise and release (shift) all the trauma out of inside me, to set myself free – as well as being with and connecting to "myself" in that compassionate and loving place.
Not only am I free from fear, I am connected to myself and healed from it. NARP helps me connect to myself and a higher Source that loves me, nourishes me and protects and guides me infinitely, that my Soul was so badly in need of.
You can't think your way out of trauma, you have to be with yourself and locate the wound, recognise it, draw it out and give yourself that love to start with and then bring in more healing.
But you must be brave. Healing is not always easy and it can take a lot of inner "work". The bravest thing you can do is turn inside, but compared to how my life "was" I know that's what I'd decide, every time.
The miraculous thing that happens is the more we heal, the more we connect, the easier healing becomes and you can go through life, rather than life happening to you. Good results miraculously start showing up for you as well.
Now I have re-built my own Massage and Beauty Therapy Business, even after the ex tried to destroy it and it's doing even better than before, even my old clients have been able to find me again.
I go to Pilates and have made lovely acquaintances, warm and friendly. I meet more and more lovely, warm people and don't actually even come across the other sort very much. When I occasionally do, I can sense them from a mile off and completely detach, without even thinking. I don't need to look for "red flags".
The healings don't just heal one wound, they heal many, that's the miracle of them. So life is coming through more and more in abundance. Yes, my life has ups and downs like the Mountains, but "that's life". That is the way of the light in harmony together and I am not lost and alone and in the dark anymore and never will be again.
Don't be in the dark, there is a way out. Be at one with the Light and Stars, like me.
*Let NARP work it's magic on you too. Click on this link to discover what it can do for you - bit.ly/3qLkH6w.
Melanie Tonia Evans
BY HEALING WITH NARP* (bit.ly/3qLkH6w), LOUISE GOT BACK ON HER FEET AND IS NOW THE PROVIDER IN EVERY REGARD FOR HERSELF AND HER SON
If you asked me how I felt this time last year, I would tell you, "alone and lost in the dark". This was before I even knew about NARP. This was my genuine Soul Truth and it's no wonder, after living in fear and pain for most of my life.
I had amazing parents but with narcissistic boyfriends and my ex husband who was abusive for 8 years, it amounted to me being in a lot of suffering.
I call my ex abusive because I don't really care if he was a covert or an overt narcissist or a Cluster B because what "he" is isn't important to me. It's what "I" am that is important to me and that's what being a Thriver is essentially about.
I am my own provider in every regard. I am leading the way for my son, who I know one day is going to Thrive as well, regardless of his father, or anyone else. I could never have said this 1 year ago and this is what NARP has done for me.
I met my ex at a vulnerable time. I wasn't looking for love but his friends and people around him said what a good man he was, he played cricket, was a wine merchant and drove a nice car and he was also older than me so I thought he might "look after me".
There were the odd red flags and looking back I can see that my intuition was screaming out to me, "get out", but I made the usual excuses because I thought I could pour love on him and he would change, but you cannot fix them.
So, I was just Alice going down the rabbit hole. My doctor diagnosed me with depression and for a while I seemed to improve as did the relationship. With my therapist's help the depression all but disappeared. Then my father passed away. Leaving my ex in full control, as he thought.
I closed down my father's company which, although I was grieving for the loss of my father so much at the time, empowered me greatly as I realised how much I could achieve. This uplift of spirits was a big clash with an abusive partner.
One day he was physically abusive and he had no apology or remorse, but blame and excuses, especially that he was "only joking". I met with the local Domestic Abuse Team and I opened up to my mum. They told me to make a safe exit plan and go.
For a month I planned my exit, took all the documents I needed and my boy's things. My ex was so shocked when he came home and found I had gone. He texted me, "Is this a joke?" – so I guess I was the one that had the last laugh!
I knew all along that I needed to be there for "me" and more compassionately and lovingly than I ever had been. Then I learned about "feelings" and "validation". Then I found out "how" to do that and "how" to heal myself. That's when I found Mel!
With NARP I can now locate, recognise and release (shift) all the trauma out of inside me, to set myself free – as well as being with and connecting to "myself" in that compassionate and loving place.
Not only am I free from fear, I am connected to myself and healed from it. NARP helps me connect to myself and a higher Source that loves me, nourishes me and protects and guides me infinitely, that my Soul was so badly in need of.
You can't think your way out of trauma, you have to be with yourself and locate the wound, recognise it, draw it out and give yourself that love to start with and then bring in more healing.
But you must be brave. Healing is not always easy and it can take a lot of inner "work". The bravest thing you can do is turn inside, but compared to how my life "was" I know that's what I'd decide, every time.
The miraculous thing that happens is the more we heal, the more we connect, the easier healing becomes and you can go through life, rather than life happening to you. Good results miraculously start showing up for you as well.
Now I have re-built my own Massage and Beauty Therapy Business, even after the ex tried to destroy it and it's doing even better than before, even my old clients have been able to find me again.
I go to Pilates and have made lovely acquaintances, warm and friendly. I meet more and more lovely, warm people and don't actually even come across the other sort very much. When I occasionally do, I can sense them from a mile off and completely detach, without even thinking. I don't need to look for "red flags".
The healings don't just heal one wound, they heal many, that's the miracle of them. So life is coming through more and more in abundance. Yes, my life has ups and downs like the Mountains, but "that's life". That is the way of the light in harmony together and I am not lost and alone and in the dark anymore and never will be again.
Don't be in the dark, there is a way out. Be at one with the Light and Stars, like me.
*Let NARP work it's magic on you too. Click on this link to discover what it can do for you - bit.ly/3qLkH6w.
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