I once rode a bus and developed feelings of limerence towards the bus conductor. I felt he cared for me, because he remembered where I was supposed to alight. Thoughts of him consumed me to the point that I lied to my family to try to see him in the terminal. I ended up taking a bus to cover up the lie. Then last weekend, I also took an impulsive trip in the hopes of seeing him. I ended up getting drunk, and he wasn't in any of the buses I rode. I felt so ashamed wasting my weekend on long bus trips and blowing away money I borrowed from my mom (as I was on medical leave at work). I feel so ashamed and more than ever I wanna work on managing the limerence
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Crappy Childhood Fairy
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“Limerence” is an obsessive state that begins with normal feelings of falling in love, then morphs into an addiction that blocks you from genuine relationships with people who love you back. Limerence usually starts as a coping mechanism in childhood, but if you don't recognize it and address it, it can drain your happiness and leave you isolated.
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