TIFFYCOOKS

To my amazing dad, my best friend, my idol, the person who makes me laugh the most, the person who made me love food like no one else, and the person I love so much that my heart aches so much just thinking about him. 

My dad passed away peacefully on 8/22 in Taiwan. It was the most challenging day of my life. He was surrounded by family; as we held his hand, he took his final breath and fell asleep. I’d be lying if I said I was ready - I would never be ready. If it were up to me, I would want to spend the rest of my life with my dad. 

My dad never let cancer define him. He was so much more than that. He was kind, funny, smart, thoughtful, and the best dad I could have ever asked for. He was my inspiration and the reason why I love food so much. There isn’t a day that goes by where I don’t think about him. 

My dad was a fighter. No one would have ever guessed that he has been battling stage 4 cancer for the past five years. Having chemo every other week, endless treatments…  But somehow, he always had a smile on … because, for him, he could endure anything as long as he was with the people he loved. My dad was so brave and so selfless. 

The truth is that we were always living on borrowed time. Deep down, we always knew we were racing with time… so we traveled, ate, laughed, cried, loved, and most of all, we lived the best five years we could have asked for, appreciating every little moment. 

There is still so much more I wish my dad could have seen and spent with me. But I know he’s always by my side. There are days when it feels like I’m living in my worst nightmare, but I know grief is the price we pay for love …  it only hurts so much because he loved us so much, and we loved him so much. 

I love you, Dad. I miss you so much. Words can’t describe how much I miss you. But I know one day, we will be reunited again. Until then, do everything you always wanted to do, eat all the yummy food, and once in a while, visit us in our dreams and tell me about all your fun adventures. 

I can’t wait to see you again, and I love you so much.

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@avonire

"Grief is the price we pay for love" This is such a good line. What a moving tribute this was

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@HiddenFace7808

I am so sorry for your loss, we truly lost a fun and entertaining gem 💎 ❤️ Sending love and prayers to you and your family! ❤️❤️❤️

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@bethanylalala

Oh Tiffy I’m so sorry :((( the way you wrote about him is so beautiful, you can feel the love for him that will live on in your family, your videos, and your recipes. I hope you and your family are taking this time to take care of each other. Your dad looked like the kindest of souls.

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@jadenw1840

Tiff, my mom also battled stage 4 cancer for five years before passing last fall. Strength to you as you navigate life going forward. Your food videos have been such a source of hope as I navigate Asian cooking without the guidance of my mom. Much love ❤️

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@floormee

Oh Tiff, I am crying for your loss, for your family’s pain. I am so sorry. I can’t imagine what you’ve been going through. I loved watching you show selfless love through making him food. It was a privilege to have that part of your lives shared with us. Sending you so many hugs.

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@petitdumie3406

HE just left his body but his soul exists forever. It might comfort you he is not in pain anymore . Sending you so much luv and blessings.

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@ilohmeyer

This saying helped me a lot when my father was stolen from me due to cancer. I hope it helps you one day too. “It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness”

7 months ago | 7

@amaama0714

I am so sorry for your loss. You perfectly encapsulated what it feels like to lose such a beloved parent. Prayers to you and your family

7 months ago | 5

@maytale.7184

No one is ever ready to lose a parent you love. I’m so sorry for your loss. I loved the videos of you making his favorite foods. The beautiful bond you two have lives forever. Your family will be in my prayers tonight 🫂

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@Queenmoller

You have gained an amazing guardian angel. When you find yourself weighed down with grief close your eyes tilt your head up to the sky and talk to him. He will show you he is still with you. It may not be clear at first but keep your eyes and heart open to receive. Those of us who have lost one or both parents completely understand what you are going through. I wish I could say it gets better….it just shifts over time. In my family we say “See you soon, but not too soon” Thank you for sharing this with us and take all the time you need. 💕

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@withlovemom2021

💜Beautiful tribute to your dad. This year was 30 Fathers Day's without my dad and I still get teary sharing my memories of him even though I was young at the time. Praise our Father in Heaven for the gift of our parents. May the peace of our Lord Jesus that surpasses all understanding comfort and embrace you and your family always...

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@ailignadenuar4670

The whole paragraph made me tear up. Beautifully written Tiffy. I am sorry for your loss. It surprised me to read about his passing too. Just from a few vlogs and last shorts video that your dad was in can already tell he must be a breezy, funny and lovely soul. "Grief is the price we pay for love" no doubt it hits right on the spot. I'm glad you and your family spend the best years and appreciate the present life serving you, without taking anything for granted. It makes me happy that you all truly know how to appreciate the time that offers; every moment, every minute and second. Time is indeed a precious gift of all. May he rest well and live in peace. In the after life, you'll be sure he's in a better place;heaven. Where he deserves and spends with no worries.

7 months ago | 10

@Freebritney911

Crying reading this and sending you all the love and hugs. I’m so, so sorry Tiffy 💔

7 months ago | 6

I've never written down any comments before but I watched some of your videos and I saw your father too. He was always smiling and he looked so happy. Rest in peace, my condolences for everyone. I keep your father in my prayer

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@Sacha_03

Beautiful! Well said! If I could hug you in person, I would! Thinking of you Tiffy! Sending all my love and prayers to you & your family! ❤️

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@shuchihsu2232

I’m so sorry for your loss. “Grief is the price we pay for love.” I love that line. You have so much wisdom and you don’t deserve this. Cry it out but also be happy for your lovely father as he is not in pain or burden anymore. I understand these words could heal you but really time lets you learn how to breathe. He will always be by your side from the ups and downs. Sending lots of hugs and love.

7 months ago | 1

@JoyShefali

I'm so sorry for your loss. "My dad's Chemo Cravings" series is my favourite. Stay strong Tiffy. Sending lot's of Love 💖

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@manysng

Je suis choquée d'apprendre pour ton père 🥺. En lisant, j'en avais les larmes aux yeux! J'ai perdu mon père a 25ans , un beau-frère de 40ans atteint de leucémie rare & 1 frère qui a 45ans qui se bat actuellement atteint du cancer du pancréas, alors je compatis avec toi de toutes mes forces!!! Je te souhaite de surmonter au mieux avec tes proches, pleins de courage et prenez soin de vous 🙏🏻💫

7 months ago | 3

@maggieb7914

I’m so sorry for your loss, Tiffy!! Sending lots of love 💚

7 months ago | 24

@janetruong9284

Beautifully written and admired. Sending you kind thoughts🩷

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