I've had people ask me “How do you talk to girls” before, but I think that's actually the wrong question. The real thing to ask yourself is “Why do I want to talk to girls?” And the answer to that should explain any issues you may have with the first one. If someone's motivation is purely $€xual or they “just want to be with someone,” that goes against the purpose of a relationship in the first place. They're supposed to be reciprocal and not based on material things like looks or wealth. (Also this is the same for boys but like 99% of my audience is male) Genuinely just ask yourself why do you want to talk to this girl? Do you guys have a similar interest, or does she do something you want to learn more about? Find out what it is that makes you value her and start conversations based on that. If you are truly interested in this person and you let it shine through, it will make them feel really special. It makes me sad when people try to game-ify talking to girls with pickup lines and stuff when really it's just about genuine connection. Theres no strategy or optimal thing to say to any certain topic, it's up to you to be yourself and let them know who you are. Everyone loves having their talent and strong suits recognized, and you can really make someone's day by doing it. And who knows where it could go from there.
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I've had people ask me “How do you talk to girls” before, but I think that's actually the wrong question. The real thing to ask yourself is “Why do I want to talk to girls?” And the answer to that should explain any issues you may have with the first one. If someone's motivation is purely $€xual or they “just want to be with someone,” that goes against the purpose of a relationship in the first place. They're supposed to be reciprocal and not based on material things like looks or wealth. (Also this is the same for boys but like 99% of my audience is male) Genuinely just ask yourself why do you want to talk to this girl? Do you guys have a similar interest, or does she do something you want to learn more about? Find out what it is that makes you value her and start conversations based on that. If you are truly interested in this person and you let it shine through, it will make them feel really special. It makes me sad when people try to game-ify talking to girls with pickup lines and stuff when really it's just about genuine connection. Theres no strategy or optimal thing to say to any certain topic, it's up to you to be yourself and let them know who you are. Everyone loves having their talent and strong suits recognized, and you can really make someone's day by doing it. And who knows where it could go from there.
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