Raw Motivations
He’s not throwing chaos at you because he’s winning.He’s throwing chaos at you because he’s losing.You’ve probably noticed it.The moment you pull away—he escalates.The moment you stop responding—he starts throwing everything he can.Court cases.False accusations.Guilt trips.Random texts that stir up fear.Why?Because he’s losing control.And for a narcissist, that’s the biggest threat of all.He doesn’t care if he looks insane.He just wants your attention.Because attention = control.Your reaction = power.And if he can still trigger you,If he can still make you spiral…Then in his mind, he still owns you.But here’s the truth:He only wins when you stop focusing on you.That’s the trap.He distracts you from healing by keeping you stuck in chaos.He gets you to focus on him instead of training for your own breakthrough.Healing is like training for a marathon—But you’re letting him knock your shoes off before you ever hit the track.Stop waiting for him to stop.Start training for who you’re becoming.Because this isn’t about justice.It’s not about fairness.It’s about freedom.Comment “breakthrough” if you’re ready to stop reacting and start reclaiming your life.#narcissist #liars #cheatinghusband #divorce #toxicperson
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Raw Motivations
He’s not throwing chaos at you because he’s winning.
He’s throwing chaos at you because he’s losing.
You’ve probably noticed it.
The moment you pull away—he escalates.
The moment you stop responding—he starts throwing everything he can.
Court cases.
False accusations.
Guilt trips.
Random texts that stir up fear.
Why?
Because he’s losing control.
And for a narcissist, that’s the biggest threat of all.
He doesn’t care if he looks insane.
He just wants your attention.
Because attention = control.
Your reaction = power.
And if he can still trigger you,
If he can still make you spiral…
Then in his mind, he still owns you.
But here’s the truth:
He only wins when you stop focusing on you.
That’s the trap.
He distracts you from healing by keeping you stuck in chaos.
He gets you to focus on him instead of training for your own breakthrough.
Healing is like training for a marathon—
But you’re letting him knock your shoes off before you ever hit the track.
Stop waiting for him to stop.
Start training for who you’re becoming.
Because this isn’t about justice.
It’s not about fairness.
It’s about freedom.
Comment “breakthrough” if you’re ready to stop reacting and start reclaiming your life.
#narcissist #liars #cheatinghusband #divorce #toxicperson
3 days ago | [YT] | 206