What if failing was a sign that you’re exactly where you need to be?
Failing is not failure.
Failing is physical, it’s when life objectively takes a turn beyond your expectations - and nothing more.
There is an awful lot of space here to learn, reflect, and refine your pursuit.
Failure is mental, it’s the story we loop in our headspace that is purely subjective. It’s a belief, and it uses outside evidence to support it’s own existence.
But anything that needs evidence is not your highest self - its purely illusory.
The art of failing is this:
To experience the circumstance live presents you, objectively.
To not misconstrue this circumstance to mean something about who you are.
Failing does not make you a failure.
There is a choice there, despite how unconscious it may be.
Whenever I fully embrace the act of failing, exactly as it is, it ALWAYS leads to the next breakthrough.
If I can learn to feel freedom with the fail, then I am creating a solid foundation to grow into the next *thing.*
Be it a:
- responsibility or commitment
- project
- collaboration or business venture
The more freedom I allow myself to fail, the more I embody the state of being necessary to achieve the next level of impact, income, greatness, or whatever one wishes to achieve.
So next time you experience a moment of a failing, remember that circumstance does not need to belittle your self-story.
kev vanderzel
What if failing was a sign that you’re exactly where you need to be?
Failing is not failure.
Failing is physical, it’s when life objectively takes a turn beyond your expectations - and nothing more.
There is an awful lot of space here to learn, reflect, and refine your pursuit.
Failure is mental, it’s the story we loop in our headspace that is purely subjective. It’s a belief, and it uses outside evidence to support it’s own existence.
But anything that needs evidence is not your highest self - its purely illusory.
The art of failing is this:
To experience the circumstance live presents you, objectively.
To not misconstrue this circumstance to mean something about who you are.
Failing does not make you a failure.
There is a choice there, despite how unconscious it may be.
Whenever I fully embrace the act of failing, exactly as it is, it ALWAYS leads to the next breakthrough.
If I can learn to feel freedom with the fail, then I am creating a solid foundation to grow into the next *thing.*
Be it a:
- responsibility or commitment
- project
- collaboration or business venture
The more freedom I allow myself to fail, the more I embody the state of being necessary to achieve the next level of impact, income, greatness, or whatever one wishes to achieve.
So next time you experience a moment of a failing, remember that circumstance does not need to belittle your self-story.
You can fail and feel free.
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