I've been through worse things than cheating. Family betraying you is a whole other level of hurt.
1 year ago | 48
"Forgive but never forget" isn't an option for me. Once you forgive, you're just basically telling your partner through your actions that it's okay to cheat. That you'll just forgive them in the end. Just break it off then and there because if your partner could cheat on you once, they can definitely do it twice🤷‍♀️ Edit: What I meant was don't forgive your significant other and take them back, not that you shouldn't forgive them and move on. Forgiveness is essential for yourself, but if you're just gonna take them back, why forgive them in the first place. They'll just do it again
1 year ago (edited) | 64
Forgiving and getting back together are 2 different things. If forgive but not forget and leave.
1 year ago | 31
Humility teaches us to forgive, but Wisdom teaches us not to trust that person again
1 year ago | 6
We may not be perfect,but cheating is no mistake, it's a choice. If you're married and your husband or wife is cheating, they committed adultery.
1 year ago | 13
I keep my life simple, I'm not forgiving or forgetting I'm going to keep it moving.
1 year ago | 10
My tolerance for someone who cheats on me is 0. No excuses or exceptions
1 year ago | 4
There's obviously a huge difference between forgiving and forgetting.
1 year ago | 5
Only once, giving them only 1 chance is conclusion jumping. You never know if it was an accident or they Changed. But giving them too much chances proves Low Self Esteem.
1 year ago (edited) | 4
There is no excuse for cheating; as soon as you do it you’ve basically said “I hate my relationship and I wanna be single again”. You could have easily talked to your significant other about whats bothering you and tried to work it out.
1 year ago (edited) | 27
One can forgive of course, but don't have to be with that person at all.
1 year ago (edited) | 3
I did forgive my husband for cheating but regretted it because he didn’t stop. Now he is my ex-husband.
1 year ago | 3
If you forgive somebody for cheating this tell him or her, it was okay, and they're going to do it again đź–•
1 year ago (edited) | 14
No, if they do it once, they'll probably do it again. Once trust is broken, it's hard to get it back.
1 year ago | 12
Forgiving is different than getting back together with them. You shouldn’t let something weigh you down like that. It’s better to forgive and clear the slate and move on.
1 year ago | 14
You can forgive but it doesn't mean that you can go back to someone that doesn't value you
1 year ago | 6
Forgive and then forget that they ever existed. Relationships are about trust, and once that trust is broken, it's time to go. You can't even begin to heal in a toxic environment, and there is no healing with that person.
1 year ago | 2
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