“The cold seducer creates the wound and then becomes the cure” This quote right here really scared me. My heart dropped, like when your chest feels heavy whilst watching a horror movie. This is why when people say ‘oh, they triggered your wounds’ Nooooo!!!! Like the quote says; they create wounds that weren’t even there previously! At the very least, they re-open wounds that you healed a long time ago and then you’re left questioning if you did enough work on yourself cause it feels like you’re right back to where you were all those years ago in your life. And then your told that you need to forgive these Devils that shouldn’t even be walking the earth?! Madness!! No fucking way. You don’t need to forgive in order to move on. It’s utter injustice that I now have to heal from wounds that I didn’t even have to begin with. Life if for living, not a daily survival of having to piece yourself back together because a Devil that looks like a human, tore you life apart!
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Narsasistic parents program you the way cult leaders do, we should talk about that more because everyone expects the adult children who were raised by these people to just smile and be loyal and stay silent, but if the same thing happened to them in a cult setting we would be calling them brave for getting out instead of calling them a terrible child for going no contact. We would be getting them therapy instead of calling them ungrateful. Adult kids who leave their manipulative and toxic narcissistic parents are ridiculed and judged but adults who leave their manipulative toxic and narcissistic cult leaders are brave and strong and celebrated. Both people left the same kind of abuse. Make ot make sense.
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First! Thank you so much for being a strong role model ❤ as a teenage girl, i aim to be just as successful, amazing, and kind as you! Keep up the good work, and thank you always for the tips and new episodes
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I have never felt that with a person befor. It felt like a void. I was always hungry trying to fill up that empty space that i felt with the father of my daughter. Luckely i am out . Unfortunately my daughter is forced to be with her dad because of law.
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OMG These 3 are the dream team. Thank you Lisa for getting them together. 🎉
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If it always seems to be the way they want, if they avoid respecting your boundaries, if you get a scary feeling, you can bet, you are right.
1 week ago | 4
Omg Robert greene AND dr Ramani!!! My 2 favs.. need to listen to it now 😁
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Yes I have many times, recently also. 2 months ago or a bit less I went to a mandatory training to start a new job post. At that training everything seemingly was fine except the fact that i was extremely anxious, worried, stressed, unmotivated and itchy to leave the place for no apparent reason. The lady trainer was obnoxious and the 3rd day she told me she wants me to discontinue. I couldnt feep better. I dont know why all that happened but i could finally go back to normal and my nervous system calmed down immediately. A week later i took an offer on my current job and everything is fine.
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Im definitely watching this one! Reading Robert Greene again now my malignant narc husband has demanded a trial for divorce he initiated in order to help me better represent myself. Watching Dr. Ramani rn and have been listening for years. Also, LISA❤❤❤ I am intrigued by the SAD RAT. That's what I feel and look like😢
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I once turned a blind eye to the genocide in Gaza because I was afraid of losing Israel as an ally. But over time, that fear has turned to bitterness, sadness, and acceptance. We don't need Israel if they're going to drag us into pointless wars. Fun fact: netanyahu helped place Hamas into power in 2008. Even encouraged Qatar to find them because he wanted them to split with the moderate Fatah party.
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To someone who has only known manipulation as 'love' the real, genuine kind of love will feel like manipulation and a threat. I have been called 'scary' for pointing out severe ongoing decades-long malignant vulnerable narcissistic abuse within self-proclaimed 'loving family systems'
1 week ago | 1
Wow so great! Thank you so much for everything you do. You help so many people. ❤
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Lisa Bilyeu
Have you ever had that gut feeling that something was off about someone… but you convinced yourself you were overreacting?
In this episode of Women of Impact, I sat down with theeeee legend himself Robert Greene, CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and the #1 narcissist expert Dr Ramani to uncover how manipulators think, how they hook you emotionally, and how to finally take your power back!
These experts break down manipulation like a science, from the psychological tactics used in seduction, to the CIA methods of loyalty conversion, and the emotional traps narcissists use to keep you stuck.
In this episode, we'll cover these key insights:
Robert Greene reveals how manipulators create emotional “wounds” to gain control, and how to spot them on the first date!
Andrew Bustamante breaks down the CIA’s “SAD RAT” process, the same psychological playbook narcissists use to slowly take your independence.
Dr. Ramani exposes why fear keeps you loyal to toxic people, and the ONE question that will tell you if love is real or manipulation.
Don’t ignore your instincts again. Watch the full episode now and learn how to protect your heart and your power! bit.ly/42DWJN5
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