Stoic With You

đź’¬ After marriage, what do you think a woman should change to keep a happy family?
📢 Pick the most important one! 👇

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@StoicWithYou

As a man, I am speaking from my own experience. I have made mistakes, but I was lucky enough to turn things around. For that, I am truly grateful. Watching videos about marriage and family has opened my eyes, and I finally understand what it really means to be a husband and a father. Before I built a family, I had little knowledge about what it takes to maintain one. Today, I want to share my thoughts with those who come across this message. From the bottom of my heart, I hope it reaches the right people—especially men. I’m not here to judge or criticize anyone. That is not my place. Everyone has their own struggles, and if we could truly put ourselves in each other’s shoes, we might understand things differently. But I want to say this: as men, we are often greedy. Yes, greedy is the right word. We want everything. It’s in our nature. We were born as hunters, conquerors, always chasing something new. That’s why so many men cheat—especially when they have everything. That is the reality. But here’s the truth that many don’t realize: after cheating, we lose almost everything. And by the time we understand the damage we’ve done, it’s too late. We think we are making ourselves happy, but in reality, we are destroying ourselves. We are slowly killing the best parts of who we are, all while refusing to admit it. We give out bitterness and expect to taste sweetness in return. And then, when regret finally sets in, we realize we have already hurt the woman who stood by us. We have damaged our family. We have caused pain to our innocent children—children who never asked for any of this. It’s only when we grow old that we see how much we have lost. To the women reading this: love your husbands. Give them respect. Tell them you appreciate them for working hard to provide for you. Ask them, Do you still love me? every day. Take care of yourself—dress up, feel beautiful. Encourage your husband to succeed, but also remind him that home is his safe place. Hug him when he comes home. Make it a habit. And yes—embrace your curves. Trust me on this. One last thing I want to share: Build a happy home first. Then focus on business. And remember, those who don’t practice gratitude every day will become ungrateful without even realizing it. I love you all. ❤

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