True. Normal days about 4 hours in the kitchen.Birthdays, Anniversaries, festivals upto 10 hours in the kitchen cooking, serving and cleaning up
4 days ago | 236
That's why I prefer that we all go out to dinner or lunch. Give the women an actual rest on holidays.
4 days ago | 218
It’s wild how cooking is typically considered women’s work until it comes to making money at it (e.g. as a chef), then suddenly it’s usually men’s work
4 days ago | 349
Not just sundays. All birthdays, festivities, holidays. The menu is always a luxury for others, list of chores for us. Something special for our birthday? Of course, if you're ready to cook.
4 days ago | 151
The Biggest Scam. Sasural Ladki ka Asli Ghar Hota Hai. No. Its Shelter Home only. No Property Rights.
4 days ago | 164
My mother used to say she hates sundays, I was confused as it was the best day of the week, when I grew I realised why she said that🙁
4 days ago | 83
I cooked on Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year...no help from any of them, not even a "thank you". Easter came and they were all expecting a nice ham dinner with all the sides and sweets. We had burgers from the nearest fast food establishment. I'M DONE
4 days ago | 53
I feel so bad for those women whose life is dedicated to kitchen only. More power to all hardworking housewives.
4 days ago | 132
idk if its just unique to my family, but it’s usually my dad who does all the cooking while everyone rests and socialises lmao
2 days ago | 1
The truth is household works continue even on Saturday, Sundays even if you are a single person. I never got married and have a good job. So it's fine and manageable.
4 days ago | 18
My dad is a head chief, so he's the one that usually does the cooking. Cooking in my household has always been a "do you want to cook tonight?" "No I've had enough for today" "how about tonight?" "You know what, if you don't want to, I can" it was kinda like a coin toss, unless everyone agreed on a certain meal, and then the one that could do that meal best would be the one to cook. Neither my dad nor what used to be step dad where even decent people, at least they had this down. (For context, for what was my stepdad had purposely, and indecently shown himself to me, which had traumatized me, so now they are divorced. My dad however, wasn't that big of a deal towards me, but I hold a little bit of resentment, for what he did to my mum, and how much of a terrible dad he actually is. He had hit my mum, cheated on her, and still my mum allowed us to visit them, such a champ, Strong woman, love her, though I would never actually say it to her face, she's incredible, but my dad was kinda abusive to us, when we misbehaved he would hit us, just with the hand, nothing like hitting us with a belt or pipe or anything obscure like that, but he also yelled at us for everything, over all not the best dad, but I knew he would protect me if I ever needed it, he has immense anger issues, which make me scared to tell him things, but I knew he cared, I could tell, because when I was younger, I had acted similarly towords others, despite still caring for them, sure my dad was heavy handed, but, so was I, I can't forgive myself, but I can forgive him. Just realized I trauma dumped, woopsie, would delete, but can't be arsed)
2 days ago (edited) | 1
cooking is fun and should be done by everyone who’s eating!! all who contribute add up to an amazing feast for all to enjoy and is balanced in efforts 😌
4 days ago | 8
Scam #3 : "Don't work baby, I'll provide for both of us..." Anyone who will very lovingly say - "Baby, i love you so much, I'll keep you like a queen. please don't Work." .....He doesn't love you. He wants to keep you at home, giving your full time and energy for taking care of him (and probably his family too). And within a few years after you leave job, you'll realise HE is making all financial decisions of the house. Where to invest, what to buy, Which school for your child, which restaurant to go to, how much you can spend on salone, where to go on vacation.... everything. Because he is the one supplying money for all these expenses. Remember, A person who loves you will respect your work. He will be happy that you have achieved something in life.
4 days ago | 44
New Lullaby of Mothers for Sons--- 🎵🎵🎶🎶🎵🎵 Kab bada hoga tu beta? Kab tu khud se bana ke khayega aur khilayega? Zindgi bhar under developed, dependent to nahi reh jayega na , kisi na kisi aurat ka mohtaj 🤗🤗😭
4 days ago | 10
My daddy cooks on sunday...he love enjoying time with us this way and mom get some rest also but then she engages herself doing other chores out of nowhere😂
3 days ago | 2
Even the holidays that I don’t cook on I’m still highly stressed since it’s just wired into me that way. I also often will tell my husband to help the clean up since I helped with the cooking. We don’t do the bulk by any means but we still try to pitch in and I still get stressed. People need to take turns on that shit.
2 days ago | 0
I don't think there is anything wrong with cooking at parties if u enjoy it . I find it enjoyable to cook with my fellow aunt's and sisters while we gossip and all of that . But I also do understand that some people grow up in toxic households that only views women as machines for cooking and cleaning so
4 days ago | 4
It’s not a scam if he works to provide or does some other thing to compensate that you consider equal or fair. The problem is that nowadays us, the same women who complain about these men are the same women who want to take the lead in everything; paying for the dates, pursuing the men, pampering men like they are the trophy, solving their problems, sacrificing everything for the man including our emotional health and sanity, fighting other women for a man, we literally want to do everything but, receive and live gracefully. I’m sure He would be okay with us just resting and socializing if only we let them be the clown instead. Yes, I have to call myself a clown, too. It’s time we actually get tired of the whole feminist movement. But, we’re just too desperate to get married, what for? (I’m not but, you get what I mean) Men are great, the problem is they are not desperate to enslave anybody either. If you only see the amount of women speaking about attracting an SP or kingdom spouse instead of just living their lives. For God’s sake, that slave mentality is in women, too. Just be free and happy! And marry but, stay free and happy!!
4 days ago | 8
Now in my home i work or not .i stay or not no night dinner plans at my place n on special occasion we go restaurant.. sundy means sundy i dnt visit other people home its there holiday too nor i invite anyone 😊
3 days ago | 1
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