Its Also called PIED ( Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction)....thanks for spreading the awareness Shwetabh bhai
1 year ago | 187
Could you please make a video on how to build meaningful friendships. I don't have friends and don't know how to make and later sustain them.
1 year ago | 90
Another thing I think that happens is you lose the ability to become patient in every aspect of life, aapko sab tabhi chahiye jab aap chahe, because porn me aapko apne hisab se sab milta hai, this behavioural pattern of not being patient and all applications of patience in life suffer from this habit, you will lose out a lot on a lot of things in life, you will also have very weak resolve in everything you do, because you are not patient enough to keep going in putting effort in anything. Trust me guys every behavioural pattern is like a muscle the more you do it the stronger it gets the less you do it the weaker it gets.
1 year ago | 193
whenever you have a thought in your mind about doing something, don't just rush into it. wait for 2 minutes or more if you feel like. let everything settle and then you're free to do whatever you like whether it's the right or the wrong thing. please do this for a while, do this every time. you could think about why you want to do what you want to do and how you're actually going to do it. but the important part is to wait, and let things settle in your mind before doing something. don't just act on a whim. when you wait and stop to think or just observe, that's when you become more conscious. it is hard to be conscious if you keep doing one thing after another without a break or talk endlessly without pauses. when there's a gap, i guess your brain processes things better. so create that gap between your repetitive behaviors, otherwise your brain just needs to send an impulse, and you're on a new mission. we've conditioned our brain to function all ADHD like. doesn't matter if it seems like the right thing, if you're getting that sudden motivation, for eg. you want to write a new song. wait 2 minutes and actually think about why and how you're going to do it. you don't even have to think, your brain will handle the thinking for you. you just need to pause. and soon enough you'll learn that you can pause WHILE doing things, without actually pausing what you're doing, but you're in pause and the doing continues(maybe the brain is handling it). and it logically follows that you can create this gap in every part of your life, perhaps it would help you become much more conscious. and I've haven't gotten there yet but I feel it's possible. so good luck. and even if you've laid down your weapons and have been beaten by your impulses and look like a pathetic loser, be a hero and wait 2 minutes before you give up. so that even if you fail, your impulses will slowly lose their grip on you and you will decondition yourself over time.
1 year ago (edited) | 12
Have been in this phase....and seen the worst of it in corona time .... Almost standing at the gate of hell...point of no return....but thanks to the universe...apan ne comeback kar liya .... 🔱
1 year ago | 8
Recently came across your original song wasted smile, i truly wished if you created more music. Such a beautiful song.
1 year ago | 1
Shwetabh I agree with you on various topics, but where I'm totally disagree with you is P*rn and Masturbation. Bhai me 6th standard se hila raha hoon aur mene p"nrnographic content extreme level tak explore kia h, par ab bhi mujhe iska koi khaas nuksan nahi dikha fayde to kai hue, jese mere andar gf bagera banane ke thoughts bohot kum aaye aur me learning and skills pe acche se focus kar paya aur rahi baat ki normal cheejo se satisfaction nahi milta, to mere saath to esa kuch bhi nahi h, mujhe normal(ethical) p*nrnographic content jayda pasand h, and attraction bhi mujhe normal ladkiyon se jyada hoti h, me aaj tak kisi actress ya p*rn star se deeply attract nahi hua
1 year ago | 12
What about the cause i.e bad situations that makes you more prone to fall for these, and the behavior pattern develops which is not good, What to do Or how to deal with feelings, ego when they are bruised and are finding to grasp anything to feel good. How do you break this pattern?
1 year ago (edited) | 14
@shwetabh bhai it's good to see influencers like you spreading awareness about PIED and would love to see you making video(s) on solutions regarding this. For I'm aware there are millions of people suffering from PIED but won't come forward and accept it.may be because of society or their own personal guilt and shame
1 year ago | 5
Realised this a few months back, so I'm not using insta for about 3 months ( deleted in November end), reddit, and last week twitter (whole lot of porn in these two platforms), but after uninstalling insta I'm feeling good now.
1 year ago | 22
Thank u so much for uploading this.. I was clueless at the end of the last video..
1 year ago | 0
My phone is the device I have used to access 1000s of hours worth of skill learning content for free(on YouTube not pirated shit) . It's crazy how much education can be gained from this device that most youngsters use only for self destructive things. I literally learned entire stock market by just watching hours of free content on YouTube both Indian and foreign. Ive given hours of my time backtesting various trading systems at different risk reward ratios.
1 year ago | 17
Maano chahe na mano but one should have a girl- friend . By understanding the opposite gender things will become easy for oneselves.
1 year ago | 6
WAAH BADE BHAI KYA BAAT BATAYI HAI ..I AM REALLY MOTIVATED TO IT 😊
1 year ago | 0
Man even thou I got over the sexual lust I still lust towards useless entertainment shorts and waste lots of productive time and delay my responsibilities. It's like you said "your mind will keep trying to escape to easy paths." And even thou I finish my work it could be lot faster. And I know you have made many videos on procrastination and I watch you since before 2018 even before you went to Abhinav mahajan podcast for 1st time. But there is always that lack of discipline makes us procrastinate.
1 year ago | 23
Shwetabh Gangwar
stimuli = anything jisko dekh ke sex drive, sexual thougths trigger hote hain
phone = ocean of sexual stimuli
sexual stimuli ko aap repeat karte ho by opening such content, sone se pehle, uthe ke baad, masturbate karke... after repeating this in long term, ye brain mein almost permanent behavior ki tarah wire ho jata hai.
Is stimuli se aap program kar rahe ho dimaag ko and apne aap turn on (khada karna) karne ke liye.
jab aap aise programmed ho jate ho, to natural cheezo se (wife, girlfriend, normal human body, reality) apka khada hona band ho jata hai
this is psychologically induced erectile dysfunction
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