There’s Always a Reason to Leave a Marriage — Just Find More Reasons to Stay
This is one thing I have learnt in my over 14 years of couseling couples …..
Every marriage, no matter how beautiful, will present you with reasons to walk away. You’ll have moments when your spouse disappoints you. Days when you feel unseen. Seasons when love feels like hard labor instead of butterflies.
If you look for reasons to leave, you’ll always find them the tone of their voice, the unwashed dishes, the silence during an argument, the dreams that no longer align.
Marriage will give you enough excuses to quit.
But if you choose to look deeper, you’ll also find reasons to stay the shared laughter, the history you’ve built, the promises whispered on your wedding day, the small daily gestures that prove love is still alive beneath the chaos.
Love is not sustained by perfection. It’s sustained by perspective.
Leaving often seems easier because pain screams louder than peace. But staying requires you to listen to the quieter voice the one that says, “We can still fix this.”
You stay not because it’s easy, but because it’s worth it.
You stay because growth happens in the soil of struggle.
You stay because what you’re building is bigger than the momentary discomfort.
Every lasting marriage is a story of people who could have left, but didn’t. Not because they had no reason to go but because they found greater reasons to remain.
And that’s why being in a marriage community matters. When you surround yourself with other couples who are learning, growing, and fighting for their love, you realize you’re not alone. You get strength, wisdom, and accountability to keep choosing love — even when it’s hard.
That’s what Couples Conclave is about a family of couples who refuse to give up easily. If your marriage matters to you, don’t fight alone.
Join Couples Conclave where love is restored, wisdom is shared, and marriages are strengthened.
Send us a chat today: +234906 0639627
Photo: We enjoyed the company of Engr and Engr Mrs Ojo… Tolulope Ojo at the TIP summit 2025 in Birmingham ❤️❤️❤️
The Marriage Seal Academy by Kunle Ologe
There’s Always a Reason to Leave a Marriage — Just Find More Reasons to Stay
This is one thing I have learnt in my over 14 years of couseling couples …..
Every marriage, no matter how beautiful, will present you with reasons to walk away.
You’ll have moments when your spouse disappoints you.
Days when you feel unseen.
Seasons when love feels like hard labor instead of butterflies.
If you look for reasons to leave, you’ll always find them the tone of their voice, the unwashed dishes, the silence during an argument, the dreams that no longer align.
Marriage will give you enough excuses to quit.
But if you choose to look deeper, you’ll also find reasons to stay the shared laughter, the history you’ve built, the promises whispered on your wedding day, the small daily gestures that prove love is still alive beneath the chaos.
Love is not sustained by perfection. It’s sustained by perspective.
Leaving often seems easier because pain screams louder than peace. But staying requires you to listen to the quieter voice the one that says, “We can still fix this.”
You stay not because it’s easy, but because it’s worth it.
You stay because growth happens in the soil of struggle.
You stay because what you’re building is bigger than the momentary discomfort.
Every lasting marriage is a story of people who could have left, but didn’t.
Not because they had no reason to go but because they found greater reasons to remain.
And that’s why being in a marriage community matters.
When you surround yourself with other couples who are learning, growing, and fighting for their love, you realize you’re not alone. You get strength, wisdom, and accountability to keep choosing love — even when it’s hard.
That’s what Couples Conclave is about a family of couples who refuse to give up easily.
If your marriage matters to you, don’t fight alone.
Join Couples Conclave where love is restored, wisdom is shared, and marriages are strengthened.
Send us a chat today: +234906 0639627
Photo: We enjoyed the company of Engr and Engr Mrs Ojo… Tolulope Ojo at the TIP summit 2025 in Birmingham ❤️❤️❤️
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Marriage counselor & Founder The Marriage Seal Academy
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