How to let go of someone: the trick to releasing someone from your heart

How to NEVER FIGHT with a woman: the greatest victory requires no battle

Why MEN end up with TRAIN WRECKS: understanding your contribution to the problem

How to make a CONNECTION with ANYONE: the master skill of human relationships

Men treat WOMEN the way women treat MONEY: how sex roles change the dating process

RESPECT means DIFFERENT things to MEN and WOMEN, or: where have all the real men gone?

How women make it difficult to love them: make it easy to get what you want

Women treat MEN the way men treat JOBS: how relationship goals change the dating process

Women are a roll of the dice: the fundamental rule of gambling

OVERPAYING is the cost of WINNING: why getting what you want is disappointing

The SERVANT takes the MONEY: the double-edge of hypergamy

With women, hire SLOW, fire FAST: understanding the selection process

"I don't want to WASTE MY TIME": responding to female timelines

The trap of understanding: considerations are concessions

Listen to YOURSELF: you likely already know the answer

It gets WORSE before it gets BETTER: understanding why change is so difficult

The biological clock DOESN'T EXIST: understanding women's felt sense of urgency

What should I DO with my LIFE?: why you can't think it out

DATING is an extended HIRING PROCESS: how to be more confident in the courtship process

You CAN'T HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP with anyone: understanding the importance of selection

Why MEN PAY on the FIRST DATE: the freedom of walking away

What you need to HEAL A BETRAYAL: do not attempt the process without these two things

Dating for SHARED INTERESTS: why this is a terrible idea

Be the person you can love: how to build self-esteem

PRODUCE MORE than you CONSUME: a general orientation to a non-terrible life

Hold people like sand: how to have a loving, respectful relationship

The myth of closure: how to take back your power and move on

The trap of why: how to break out of obsessive rumination

How to get what you want in life: the three keys to effective action

Why PRE-SCREENING dates is a BAD IDEA: how women shoot themselves in the foot

What is a deal breaker?: how to talk to your partner about relationship problems

How to keep your cool when someone makes you angry: Offense is taken not given

The right decision doesn't exist: Life is simply a series of choices

How to get less angry: Accept reality on its own terms

To hope is to wait: make sure you're standing in the right line

We'll see: how to guard against frustration and disappointment

Nothing ever ENDS, we just MOVE ON, or: The myth of completion

The practice of CONTENTMENT: how to be fully half-full

How to show your partner respect: The surprising wisdom of ESPN

Never want something for someone else more than they want it for themselves: How to care for others

The price of peace: how to keep your cool in more situations

Not everyone can be saved: therapy doesn't always work

We learn about ourselves in relationships: The shifting nature of self

"And" is expensive: how pickiness prices you out

You never really know what you give to others: The taker decides what is given

Values and decision making: How to choose better

The mind cannot decide: how to understand the limits of rational thought

The lie of anger: how to see through anger's seductive deception

Create the structure that you can surrender to: how to create meaning and purpose

Should and anger: how your thoughts control your reality

The gift of becoming: how to quickly increase your happiness and satisfaction

"Persona 5" and social stats: why certain opportunities are closed to you

"Need" versus "want": how your words may be making you anxious

Roads only go where they go: how to stop relapsing into bad habits

Theory of mind: how an unconscious process shapes our reality

The value of values: how to make better decisions