Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy

Welcome to Narc Free Living®, a bold, biblically-based coaching & ministry, helping men and women break free from narcissistic abuse and walk fully in their God-given identity, authority, and purpose. We're not just here to talk about narcissists. We build, mentor, and equip disciples of Christ. 
Shannon empowers survivors to break demonic cycles and reclaim their Kingdom identity so they can live healed, whole, and on assignment.

Shannon is a pastoral counselor & certified narcissistic abuse recovery coach, prophetic mentor, coach, speaker, and trauma-informed leader.

If you're ready for clarity, healing, and breakthrough, you're in the right place. Services:
• 1:1 Coaching & Group Discipleship
• Mentorship
• DV Awareness & Trauma Training
• Courses, Speaking, Podcasts, Business Coaching
🔔 Subscribe for Kingdom truth, healing strategies, and prophetic insight.
📖 John 8:36 - Whom the Son sets free is free indeed.
NFL was founded in 2020 & began uploading to YT in Oct 2020.


Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy

The era of sweeping trauma and abuse under the rug is over.
God is not hiding what He intends to heal.
He is exposing to cleanse.
Revealing to restore.
Turning the lights on so freedom can finally enter.

This is not judgment.
This is mercy in motion.
And healing is no longer optional for those who are ready to break the chains.

If you’ve felt the stirring, the discomfort, the awakening, you’re not crazy. You’re being invited higher.

See you today at Soul Care Sunday, January 18 | 3 PM CST
Come rested. Come ready. Come honest.

Sometimes God doesn’t remove the rug.
He removes the lies underneath it.

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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy

You cannot date your way out of trauma.
You cannot pray your way around it either.

At some point, healing must go deeper than learning about the five ways and ten signs of a narcissist.

If narcissistic abuse altered:
• your attachment
• your boundaries
• your discernment
• your nervous system
then surface solutions will not work.

If you keep attracting the same kind of person,
it is not a coincidence. It is a soul wound.

Trauma shapes:
• who you date
• who you marry
• who you trust
• who you ignore
• who feels familiar

And “familiar” is not the same as “safe.”

This Sunday we go below behavior and deal with the subconscious root.

💝 Soul Care Sundays | Narcissistic Abuse, the Subconscious & the Seer:
How Trauma Shapes Dating, Marriage, and Relationships

📅 Sunday, January 18
🚨 2 seats left

👉 Claim your seat now or catch it later in regret.

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They thought your “downfall” was permanent.
They thought your silence was retreat.
They thought your healing was temporary.

But God.

And now your story is rewriting itself.

👉 It’s your season for SOUL CARE.
👉 It’s your season for deeper healing.
👉 It’s your season to rise with clarity, strength, and freedom.

💜 Join us for Soul Care Sundays – January Session.
Healing the subconscious after narcissistic abuse - from pain to power.

Soul Care Sundays: How Trauma Shapes Dating, Marriage, and the Relationships We Choose

Sunday January 18th
3-6pm CST
Register now 👇
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❤️‍🔥 You’re not behind. You’re being built.

Let’s go.

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ARE YOU IN A CULT…OR UNDER A FALSE TEACHER? Have you ever been?

If that question made you caused you to pause-good. That’s discernment knocking.

Join Joseph Bachota & Shannon Savoy
Monday, January 12th at 8:00 AM CST
Or catch the replay! https://youtu.be/Cr5iyNTJwhU?si=HuntN...

This is not surface-level church talk. We’re going where most won’t.

We cover:
• How to identify false prophets and teachers by their fruit (not their following)
• Red flags people excuse because “they’re anointed”
• Syncretism (and why mixing truth with error is still error)
• Why discernment matters for the Remnant in this hour
• Signs of a counterfeit church hiding in plain sight

We also break down key chapters from The Imposters, exposing the counterfeit church system many are sitting in without realizing it.

Remember:
Charisma is not covering.
Crowds are not confirmation.
And gifting without character is a trap.

If you’ve ever felt confused, silenced, pressured, spiritually drained in a “church environment,” or a narcissistic system. this conversation is for you.

Watch. Listen. Discern.
Let’s stop calling manipulation “honor” & “submission.”

📘 Get your copy today:
👉🏽 The Imposters: The Counterfeit Church: From Counterfeit Altars To Kingdom Authority In Christ
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My Story: Prophetic Witchcraft: Surviving A Cult

Join the conversation and leave a comment 🔥🔥
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One word survivors almost always use to describe narcissists: charming.

Charm is not character. It’s a strategy.

Narcissists are masters of illusion. Image managers. Public saints. Private saboteurs.
They can be “nice” in public and absolute hell behind closed doors.

Those gifts.
Those favors.
That generosity.
That’s not love.
That’s a little “narc insurance” - a cover policy to confuse you, disarm others, and silence your intuition. It guarantees you chaos and confusion while giving you a pseudo, false, counterfeit “love.”

And here’s the part most people don’t want to hear:

If you were trained to mistake charm for safety, your soul learned that somewhere.
That’s not a flaw.
That’s a soul wound.


If you’re ready to stop decoding narcissists and start healing the part of you that tolerated the illusion, Soul Care is for you.

Soul Care helps you:
• Retrain discernment so charm no longer fools you
• Heal the nervous system that learned to override red flags
• Rebuild boundaries from the inside out
• Separate kindness from manipulation without guilt or confusion

You don’t need another explanation. You need restoration.

Join Soul Care and let God heal what charm tried to counterfeit.

Soul Care Sundays is a monthly healing experience for women recovering from narcissistic abuse, spiritual abuse, and trauma.
This is not a motivational talk.This is soul surgery.
Sunday January 18th
3-6pm
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Register today.

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It’s been said that no one falls in love faster than a narcissist who needs a place to stay.
That’s not romance. That’s housing insecurity wrapped in manipulation.

Many narcissists are functionally homeless. They float from couch to couch, relationship to relationship, situation to situation looking for stability they refuse to build themselves.

This is where serial squatting comes in.

A serial squatter is someone who fraudulently occupies properties, fails to pay rent, and strategically moves on to the next victim once eviction is unavoidable. They don’t just “fall on hard times.” They plan the move.

Here’s how squatting commonly happens:

• Someone breaks into a vacant or renovated property with utilities on and starts living there
• An authorized roommate or illegal subtenant refuses to leave after the lease ends
• A well-meaning renter falls for a fake landlord rental scam
• A “temporary stay” turns permanent once the narcissist starts receiving mail

That last one is where many helpers get trapped.

Once mail is established, the narcissist can be legally considered a tenant.
And now guess what? You can’t just “kick them out.”
You’re forced into a formal eviction process in your own home.

Read that again.

This is why discernment matters.
This is why boundaries matter.
This is why being kind without wisdom is dangerous.

If you have roommates, do your due diligence.
Run background checks.
Put agreements in writing, even for “just a few weeks.”

Love doesn’t rush your space.
Healing doesn’t hijack your home.
And safety always beats sympathy.

If you’re ready to understand why you keep attracting these dynamics and how trauma, soul wounds, and subconscious patterns play a role, it’s time to go deeper.

Join me for Soul Care Sunday
🗓️ Sunday, January 18th
⏰ 3 PM – 6 PM
🎟️ Register here: SoulCareCBU.eventbrite.com/

Because awareness is step one.
Healing is the exit plan.

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If you keep attracting the same type of person, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because something in your soul learned how to survive.
And survival patterns don’t disappear just because you recognize red flags.

Binge-watching narcissism content does not heal your soul. It keeps you informed.
You don’t need more information after you have awakened. You need integration, safety, and healing.

If you’re ready to move beyond awareness and into wholeness, nervous-system repair, spiritual, emotional, physical and financial restoration - then Soul Care is for you.

If narcissism content made you smarter but not freer, it’s time to level up. We’re addressing the root, not the symptoms, in Soul Care Sundays.

Who is Soul Care for? For women who are ready to move beyond learning into wholeness and restoration.
When: Sunday, January 18 - 3pm-6pm CST
Where: Virtual via Zoom
Seats are limited!
Register here 👉 SoulCareCBU.eventbrite.com/

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😭They have that Lia-bet-es. Leviathan and pathological liars go together like peanut butter and jelly.

Unholy Altars: How Narcissists Steal Your Destiny and How To Reclaim It!
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Ready to go deeper in your healing journey?
Soul Care Sundays is a monthly healing experience for women recovering from narcissistic abuse, spiritual abuse, and trauma stored in the subconscious.
This is not a motivational talk.This is soul surgery.

Date & Time
* Sunday, January 18
* 3:00 PM – 6:00 PM CST
* Time zone: Central Time (US & Canada)

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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy

I want to personally invite you into something I’m deeply proud of.
Soul Care Sundays is officially open. This is not just another Zoom event.
It’s a monthly healing space for those who are ready to stop surviving and start addressing what trauma actually touched.

This space was created for you. Soul Care is not deliverance hype. It goes far beyond learning the five ways and ten signs of recognizing a narcissist.
It’s soul healing that restores sanity, safety, clarity, and wholeness over time.

And if you attended our last session, and it blessed you, thank you.
Your messages, your reflections, reviews, and your willingness to show up are why this community exists.

Our next session is titled: Soul Care Sundays: Narcissistic Abuse, the Subconscious & the Prophetic

This one goes deeper.

We’re talking about:
• why discerning people still choose harmful relationships
• how trauma lives in the subconscious and nervous system
• how unhealed wounds distort discernment and delay calling
• why healing is essential, not optional, for the prophetic

This is not about blame. It’s about patterns, beliefs, and restoration.

If you are sick and tired of being sick and tired. Soul Care is for YOU.

📅 Sunday, January 18, 2026
⏰ 3:00–6:00 PM CST
💳 $67 per session
🎥 Replay available for 14 days

👉 Register here:
SoulCareCBU.eventbrite.com/

If you’ve ever asked yourself:
“Why do I keep choosing the same type of person?”
“Why am I discerning spiritually but stuck relationally?”
“Why do I know better but still struggle?”

Yes, you look good. But now we’re tending to the soul, sis.

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May you understand this from the depths of your soul. 🔥🔥🔥

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