Welcome to Narc Free Living® – a bold, biblically-based ministry and coaching movement helping men and women break free from narcissistic abuse and walk fully in their God-given identity, authority, and purpose. We're not just here to talk about narcissists—I'm here to discern what happens in the spirit.
I help survivors break demonic cycles and reclaim their Kingdom identity so they can live healed, whole, and on assignment.
Shannon Savoy is a certified narcissistic abuse recovery coach, prophetic mentor, Kingdom coach, speaker, and trauma-informed leader.
If you're ready for clarity, healing, and breakthrough—you're in the right place.
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• 1:1 Coaching & Group Discipleship
• Prophetic Purpose Mentorship
• DV Awareness & Trauma Training
• Courses, Speaking, Podcasts, Business Coaching
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📖 John 8:36 – Whom the Son sets free is free indeed.
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
Dangerous influence doesn’t announce itself.
It studies you.
Narcissists don’t just abuse.
Clout chasers don’t just admire.
Opportunists don’t just watch.
They gain access.
They extract networks.
They attempt replacement.
And when the hijack fails, they expose themselves.
This livestream is not gossip.
It’s discernment.
We’re breaking down:
• How clout chasers move
• Why opportunists bypass process
• How destiny hijacking works
• Why some people cover ungodly systems with God
• How dangerous influence forms in groups
• Why silence enables abuse
• And how to shut it all down without chaos or fear
If you’ve ever felt something was “off” but couldn’t name it, this conversation is for you.
You’re not crazy.
You’re discerning.
👉🏽 Join the livestream: Narcissists, Clout Chasers & Opportunists: Come with wisdom. Leave with clarity.
👉🏽 Save your seat and be in the room.
This is not for spectators. It’s for people ready to see clearly.
👉🏽 Tag someone who keeps second-guessing themselves. Discernment is caught as much as it’s taught.
Wednesday December 24, 6pm CST: set your reminder now:
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
Abuse gets normalized in families because silence gets spiritualized, minimized, and overlooked.
How many survivors have heard:
“But that’s still your mother.”
“But that’s still your father.”
“But that’s still your family.”
Pause right there.
When you hear that, you’re not hearing wisdom.
You’re hearing the voice of an enabler, a flying monkey, or a narcissist sympathizer.
That person is y & not safe. Anyone who understands trauma and abuse will never minimize harm with titles.
Love does not require you to tolerate abuse.
Blood does not excuse betrayal.
Familiarity does not equal safety.
Abusers don’t always look abusive.
Some are charming.
Some are popular.
Some are “pillars” in the family or the church.
Some smile in public and terrorize in private.
Yes, mothers can abuse.
Yes, fathers can abuse.
Yes, siblings can abuse.
Yes, children can abuse.
Abuse doesn’t stop being abuse because the person looks “normal” or “loving” on the surface. Healing requires safe people, not people who coddle dysfunction or gaslight your discernment.
Safe people understand power, patterns, and trauma dynamics. Safe people don’t rush you back into harm for the sake of appearances.
If you’re ready to stop normalizing what nearly destroyed you, it’s time to heal.
✨ Join Soul Care Sundays. Our next session is January 18th.
🎥 Join the livestream Thursday on YouTube.
You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. You’re not the only one. You’re waking up.
#NarcFreeLiving #AbuseAwareness #FamilyAbuse #TraumaHealing #NarcissisticAbuse
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In less than 24 hours, we gather for something deeper than awareness.Deeper than talk.Deeper than survival.
Way deeper than the 5 signs and 10 ways of how to identify a narcissist.
The Virtual Experience on Soul Care After Narcissistic Abuse begins tomorrow.
Let me be clear.You can know what narcissistic abuse is and still be bound by it.You can go to therapy and still feel spiritually fragmented.You can pray and still feel stuck.
You can go through 50-11 deliverance sessions and still be stagnant.
That’s because information doesn’t restore the soul. Soul healing, trauma processing and transformation does.
This is not a webinar.
This is not another Zoom call.This is not a lecture.This is sacred, strategic soul surgery.
We are addressing:• Soul wounds left after narcissistic abuse• Spiritual ties that linger after toxic relationships• Trauma stored in the body and soul• Why therapy and deliverance alone can leave you incomplete• How God restores identity, peace, and authority
Soul Care is where healing becomes whole.Where deliverance is paired with wisdom.Where therapy meets spiritual truth.Where God restores what abuse fractured.
If you’ve left the narcissist physically but your mind, emotions, or spirit still feel tangled this experience was created for you. You may be contemplating leaving, or are no contact or low contact. You may be trying to figure it all out. And that's ok. This is your safe space.
🗓 Tomorrow - Sunday, December 21🎥 Virtual Experience⏳ Two seats remaining
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
They may have the numbers.
We have the TRUTH.
Narcissists often win popularity contests.
They’re charming, charismatic, convincing, and protected by enablers who benefit from the lie.
But here?
We stand with survivors.
We believe patterns, not performances.
We believe facts, not facades.
We believe people who had everything to lose by speaking up.
If you’ve ever been silenced, doubted, or told to “just move on” while carrying the wreckage of someone else’s pathology…
you belong here.
This is not a sympathy club.
This is a healing space.
A truth space.
A restoration space.
CTA:
🛑 Stop surviving in silence.
🔥 Start healing in community.
➡️ Join Soul Care: Deliverance After Narcissistic Abuse
📅 Sunday, December 21
Because numbers don’t determine truth.
And popularity doesn’t make abuse holy.
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
Do you know why so many are still not prospering after they leave narcissistic abuse? Still seeking deliverance after deliverance and still bound…
Because soul healing is needed. ❤️🩹
You need Soul Care when:
• You need to process unresolved trauma and heal from past soul wounds
• God starts nudging you and you keep ignoring it
• You left the narcissist but the nightmares, triggers, and guilt stayed
• You escaped a toxic relationship or family system but still feel bound
• You’re coming out of a cult, secret society, or spiritually abusive environment
• Trauma touched your body but wounded your soul
• You’re tired of healing alone and need a safe, discerning community
Here’s the truth most people won’t tell you
👉 You can leave a narcissist physically and still be tied spiritually.
That’s why awareness isn’t enough.
That’s why therapy alone doesn’t always break the chains.
That’s why deliverance and soul care matter.
Soul Care: Deliverance After Narcissistic Abuse | The Virtual Experience
🗓 December 21st
⏰ Limited seats remaining
Join Kimberly Weeks, Kimora Booker, and me for a powerful virtual experience focused on healing soul wounds, breaking spiritual ties, and restoring your God-given authority.
This is not a podcast.
This is not a lecture.
This is soul work.
🎟 Register here
www.eventbrite.com/e/the-virtual-experience-on-sou…
Learn more
narcfreeliving.com/soul-care-deliverance-after-nar…
If God has been tapping you on the shoulder, this is your confirmation.
Stop surviving. Start healing.
#SoulCare #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #SpiritualHealing #Deliverance #TraumaHealing #NarcFreeLiving #BreakingChains
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
A whole calculated effort to take out lil ole you…
Let that sink in.
Ready to recover?
Join me in Soul Care: Deliverance After Narcissistic Abuse | The Virtual Experience
🗓 December 21st
⏰ Limited seats remaining
Join me for a powerful virtual experience focused on healing soul wounds, breaking spiritual ties, and restoring your God-given authority.
This is not a podcast.
This is not a lecture.
This is soul work.
🎟 Register here
www.eventbrite.com/e/the-virtual-experience-on-sou…
Learn more
narcfreeliving.com/soul-care-deliverance-after-nar…
soulcarebyshannon.com/soulcare
If God has been tapping you on the shoulder, this is your confirmation.
Stop surviving. Start healing.
#SoulCare #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaHealing #NarcFreeLiving #BreakingChains
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Narc Free Living® | Shannon Savoy
Empathetic people are some of the most compassionate, kindest people alive. We carry the light.
You didn’t turn mean. The people who benefitted from your “niceness” just never expected you to grow a backbone.
They still expect you to be the “bigger person.”
Translation: Hush your mouth and keep taking the abuse.
Not anymore. Here’s why you might suddenly be called “mean”:
1. You stopped being endlessly available.
When access is no longer automatic, entitled people get offended.
2. You started saying “no” without a 30-minute explanation. Healthy boundaries feel like rejection to those who thrived on your lack of them.
3. You no longer carry emotions that don’t belong to you. When you stop absorbing other people’s chaos, they call it “attitude.”
4. You stopped rescuing adults who refuse to rescue themselves. Accountability feels like cruelty to the unhealed.
5. You corrected the false narratives about you.
Truth sounds harsh to people who depended on your silence.
You’re not mean.
You’re maturing.
You’re healing.
You’re finally choosing you.
Here’s the kicker:
The people-pleasers who see you finally doing the work may be the first to call you “mean” and tell you to “just keep the peace.”
But let’s be honest-they’re not peacekeepers…
they’re peace avoiders who stay silent because it’s safer for THEM.
If you’re ready to stop feeling guilty for having boundaries and start healing the parts of you trauma tried to silence…
🔥 Attend SOUL CARE: DELIVERANCE AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE | The Virtual Experience
Sunday, December 21st at 4 PM CST. Link 🔗 in bio: www.eventbrite.com/e/the-virtual-experience-on-sou…
This is where emotional healing meets soul & spiritual deliverance. This is where you learn to protect the soul God gave you.
👉 Register now. Your peace deserves this.
You didn’t get mean. You got boundaries. Stand on them. 🔥💪🏽
#NarcFreeLiving #SoulCare #EmpathHealing #ChristianHealing #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #EmotionalHealingJourney #BoundariesAreBiblical
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When a man partners with darkness, destruction becomes his covering. And when a generation applauds it, they inherit the fallout. Let’s talk about why some people walk around unprotected… and why God’s justice still stands.
Join me on YouTube for Diddy & Death! Why Some People Are Not Protected!
Thursday, December 11th at 6pm CST | 7pm EST
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We’re taking what the culture celebrates and extracting the Kingdom lessons they refuse to see.
This isn’t gossip. It’s discernment. This isn’t tea. It’s truth.
We’re diving into:
• Diddy & his mindset
• Contracts - spiritual, psychological, emotional
• Spiritual warfare and how demons disguise themselves in influence & entertainment
• The victims, trauma, narcissistic abuse, and soul entanglements
• The spiritual perspective they never want to talk about
At Narc Free Living:
We’re not here to coddle narcissists or recite symptom checklists like it’s psychology karaoke.
This is equipping for survivors who are done bleeding and ready to take their power back.
Darkness doesn’t get negotiated with here-it gets exposed, evicted, and demolished.
The mind games, manipulation, and spiritual parasites masquerading as “people” get decoded so you stop doubting yourself and start discerning the enemy.
You’ll walk out with strategies that shield your soul, guard your destiny gates, and break every generational curse and demonic cycle that thought it owned your bloodline.
This is not self-help.
This is soul war - and we win here.
Let’s break some chains.
#Diddy #Narcfreeliving #SpiritualWarfare #HealingJourney #ShannonSavoy
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