One of the silent destroyers of many relationships and marriages is comparison. Sometimes we do it without even knowing — comparing how another person’s partner behaves, dresses, provides, or even expresses love.
But the truth is, no two relationships are the same. The person you’re comparing your partner to has their own flaws you don’t see. What you see online or outside is never the full story.
When we compare, we blind ourselves to the good in our own partner. Instead of growing together, we start feeling ungrateful, unsatisfied, and unhappy.
So, instead of saying “I wish you were like…”, start saying “I appreciate you for…” ❤️ Focus on understanding, communication, and gratitude. When you nurture what you have, it grows.
Let’s learn to protect our relationships from unnecessary comparison love thrives better when we water our own garden. 🌿💞
I attended a Christian women’s meeting, and my soul was fed. We prayed, shared testimonies, encouraged one another, and reminded ourselves of our identity and strength in Christ. It was powerful.
By the time I got home, I was tired. Spiritually uplifted, yes, but my body? Completely worn out.
I opened the door and was met with the comforting aroma of food. Yam and sauce. My husband had cooked.
I didn’t even make it to the bedroom to change. I dropped my bag, headed straight to the kitchen, and served myself with a grateful heart.
Each bite felt like God’s love expressed through the hands of a caring, intentional man.
This is what it means to have an intentional man, one who doesn’t wait for you to ask, one who observes and responds. One who covers you while you’re out building, healing, learning and growing.
Happy birthday my treasure Happy birthday my first born Happy birthday the most prettiest Today makes you 1 years I am so grateful to God for protecting , preserving you from evil eyes I am thankful to Abbah that through out the time you were born to now You have never had severe illness You are healthy and strong 💪 it can only be God not man. I love you 😍 I cherish you my world most prettiest 💓 Happy birthday to you 🎂 baby You live long in good health You achieve great things that I never did I bless you Today that Your light will never off You will grow with God wisdom and guidance
We were three good Friends, we went out, do almost everything together. Life happened and we all went different places.
We met new people, also made new friends , our friendship wasn't that strong again We became so busy that we no longer talked to each other often.
As time went on, everyone moved on with their lives.
No one tells the other their personal stuffs again, Just hello, hi. The friends we made in those places we moved to became our close friends and our old friends became strangers . That's life for you. You might still be taking your childhood friend to be your best friend, While she sees you as just a friend.
Like it is said, your Best friend has a Best friend that is likely not you🤣 Your Best friend has another Best friend Na so life dey sha👌 Distance, lack of communication affect friendship. As we grow, progress in life, we will definitely leave some friends and make new friends that align with our goals.
On this day, as I celebrate the anniversary of my birth, I come before You with a heart overflowing with gratitude Lord.I offer a Thanksgiving birthday prayer for myself, acknowledging Your faithfulness, provision, and unwavering love. Thank You, dear Lord, for the precious gift of life. Thank You for knitting me together in my mother’s womb and breathing into me the breath of life. Every day is a testament to Your grace and mercy, and I am grateful for each moment You have granted me. Lord, I am thankful for the countless blessings You have bestowed upon me throughout the years. You have provided for my needs, protected me from harm, and surrounded me with Your goodness. I am grateful for the roof over my head, the food on my table, and the love of family and friends who have supported and encouraged me. As I look back on the past year, I am filled with gratitude for the lessons learned, the growth experienced, and the victories won. You have been my guide, strength, and comfort through every trial and triumph. Your presence has brought me peace in times of chaos and hope in times of despair. Thank you, Lord, for life and for allowing me to see another year of my life! Lord, as I celebrate another year of life, I pray for wisdom and discernment. Guide me in the decisions I make, so they may align with Your perfect will. Help me to prioritize what truly matters and to use my time, talents, and resources for Your glory. Open doors of opportunity for me to serve You and make a difference in the lives of others, in Jesus’ name, Amen.
When i was 36 weeks pregnant, i had a scan to check how my baby was doing and her position. The sonographer looked at me and said, Baby is fine, the only problem is that she is breech. The sonographer looked at me, seeing how worried i was said "there is still time, hopefully she will change position".
I was worried, i couldn't sleep because i knew what was at hand. I made Declarations, i prayed . I tried everything to conquer fear But my fear increased day by day as i could still feel my baby's head up.
My midwife at the maternity told me she would try ECV. She assured me Baby will turn but as days passed the baby head was still up in a sitting position. Chai what will i do? I started browsing, watching videos on Exercises i can do to change my baby position. I tried them, but nothing happened, In fact my baby seemed to be enjoying the position she was in .
My midwife tried ECV, it was so painful, Omg, i tried to endure but it was too much by this time i was 36 week and two days Time was running , by now i have done like three scans still showing the same thing. I increased my Exercise but nothing happened I knew that This could lead to CS that was what i never wanted I watched several videos and saw how people look down on CS mom. Apart from the pain i knew i will feel, the expense wasnt here. We were not prepared for this.
My Loving Husband was so sad, the fact He was seeing me worried really bothered him But we had to make up our minds to save my life and the life of our unborn baby
Had appointment with my Doctor , by now i was in my 38 weeks. Had done a scan a day before the appointment day. My Doctor encourange me to not fear that Everything will be fine. She told me the risk of me having a vavagina birth for a Breech baby but i still had my faith Baby would turn. I was later scheduled for a CS. During this period, it seemed God wasnt hearing my prayers.
I sat at home and a voice said to me, "Are you saying those who have gone through C_section, i dont love them? Are they not also Gods children? " I answered God loves them Again i heard, What if this the only way to have your baby healthy without complication and not loosing your jewel, remember what you've been through this pregnancy. At that moment i realize God knows what's best and He sees beyond what we see.
Weather vagina delivery or C-section, mom you are strong . What matters, you and your baby are alive and healthy
I started preparing my mind for the C_Section, yes i was so scared.But i confessed positive words to make me strong and overcome fear . I watched several videos about the C_section, how it is done, the recovery and so on... It was scary ooo but i said to myself Let the will of God be done.
In my 38th week, Labour started, i never had the idea it was labour at first. Like i said Earlier, i was scheduled for C_Section on a Monday .and on Sunday by 4:am i started having Contractions(i didn't know sha). I was to be admitted that sunday, so everything was set, since the pains were coming at some interval ,Hubby said it could be labour. (Na when I reached the hospital i realized i was in labour ooo) Hubby was right 😁
I was 7Cm dilated when i arrived at the hospital, the contraction really progressed so fast but baby was still breech,it was her bumbum that was down. The nurses said to me, "your labour is so fast, you can give birth in no time but because its her Bumbum that's down and this is your first time, we don't want to take the risk, if you had given birth before we would deliver your baby but since you've already been booked,an Urgent CS will be done",From that moment strength came, all that matters what's to have my baby healthy and come out alive.
I had the C-section and when i saw my baby, i said to myself, it was worth it. My baby came out looking so Beautiful, no complications Glory to God.
Loveth Maawanger
Loveth Maawanger
One of the silent destroyers of many relationships and marriages is comparison. Sometimes we do it without even knowing — comparing how another person’s partner behaves, dresses, provides, or even expresses love.
But the truth is, no two relationships are the same. The person you’re comparing your partner to has their own flaws you don’t see. What you see online or outside is never the full story.
When we compare, we blind ourselves to the good in our own partner. Instead of growing together, we start feeling ungrateful, unsatisfied, and unhappy.
So, instead of saying “I wish you were like…”, start saying “I appreciate you for…” ❤️
Focus on understanding, communication, and gratitude. When you nurture what you have, it grows.
Let’s learn to protect our relationships from unnecessary comparison
love thrives better when we water our own garden. 🌿💞
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Loveth Maawanger
Today was deeply refreshing
I attended a Christian women’s meeting, and my soul was fed.
We prayed, shared testimonies, encouraged one another, and reminded ourselves of our identity and strength in Christ.
It was powerful.
By the time I got home, I was tired. Spiritually uplifted, yes, but my body? Completely worn out.
I opened the door and was met with the comforting aroma of food. Yam and sauce. My husband had cooked.
I didn’t even make it to the bedroom to change. I dropped my bag, headed straight to the kitchen, and served myself with a grateful heart.
Each bite felt like God’s love expressed through the hands of a caring, intentional man.
This is what it means to have an intentional man, one who doesn’t wait for you to ask, one who observes and responds. One who covers you while you’re out building, healing, learning and growing.
It’s the little things that speak the loudest.
And tonight, yam and sauce said everything.
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Happy birthday my treasure
Happy birthday my first born
Happy birthday the most prettiest
Today makes you 1 years
I am so grateful to God for protecting , preserving you from evil eyes
I am thankful to Abbah that through out the time you were born to now
You have never had severe illness
You are healthy and strong 💪 it can only be God not man.
I love you 😍
I cherish you my world most prettiest 💓
Happy birthday to you 🎂 baby
You live long in good health
You achieve great things that I never did
I bless you Today that
Your light will never off
You will grow with God wisdom and guidance
Happy birthday my daughter Denisa Ephraim Bright
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Loveth Maawanger
We were three good Friends, we went out, do almost everything together.
Life happened and we all went different places.
We met new people, also made new friends ,
our friendship wasn't that strong again
We became so busy that we no longer talked to each other often.
As time went on, everyone moved on with their lives.
No one tells the other their personal stuffs again,
Just hello, hi.
The friends we made in those places we moved to became our close friends and our old friends became strangers .
That's life for you.
You might still be taking your childhood friend to be your best friend,
While she sees you as just a friend.
Like it is said, your Best friend has a Best friend that is likely not you🤣
Your Best friend has another Best friend
Na so life dey sha👌
Distance, lack of communication affect friendship.
As we grow, progress in life, we will definitely leave some friends and make new friends that align with our goals.
Loveth Maawanger BrightEphraim
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Loveth Maawanger
On this day, as I celebrate the anniversary of my birth, I come before You with a heart overflowing with gratitude Lord.I offer a Thanksgiving birthday prayer for myself, acknowledging Your faithfulness, provision, and unwavering love.
Thank You, dear Lord, for the precious gift of life. Thank You for knitting me together in my mother’s womb and breathing into me the breath of life.
Every day is a testament to Your grace and mercy, and I am grateful for each moment You have granted me.
Lord, I am thankful for the countless blessings You have bestowed upon me throughout the years. You have provided for my needs, protected me from harm, and surrounded me with Your goodness. I am grateful for the roof over my head, the food on my table, and the love of family and friends who have supported and encouraged me.
As I look back on the past year, I am filled with gratitude for the lessons learned, the growth experienced, and the victories won. You have been my guide, strength, and comfort through every trial and triumph. Your presence has brought me peace in times of chaos and hope in times of despair. Thank you, Lord, for life and for allowing me to see another year of my life!
Lord, as I celebrate another year of life, I pray for wisdom and discernment. Guide me in the decisions I make, so they may align with Your perfect will. Help me to prioritize what truly matters and to use my time, talents, and resources for Your glory. Open doors of opportunity for me to serve You and make a difference in the lives of others, in Jesus’ name, Amen.
Happy Birthday celebration Loveth Maawanger BrightEphraim
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Loveth Maawanger
Keep believing in your dream. Keep working hard, do not stop untill you achieve your goal.
Let me tell you, in this life you will make it.
All you need to make it; is consistency, hardwork and prayer . Boom you are there.
Say this when you wake up"MY TOMMORROW MUST BE GREATER THAN TODAY"
Be positive, keep trying. 🥰😍
My name is Loveth Maawanger Bright Ephraim
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When i was 36 weeks pregnant, i had a scan to check how my baby was doing and her position.
The sonographer looked at me and said, Baby is fine, the only problem is that she is breech.
The sonographer looked at me, seeing how worried i was said "there is still time, hopefully she will change position".
I was worried, i couldn't sleep because i knew what was at hand.
I made Declarations, i prayed . I tried everything to conquer fear But my fear increased day by day as i could still feel my baby's head up.
My midwife at the maternity told me she would try ECV. She assured me Baby will turn but as days passed the baby head was still up in a sitting position. Chai what will i do? I started browsing, watching videos on Exercises i can do to change my baby position. I tried them, but nothing happened, In fact my baby seemed to be enjoying the position she was in .
My midwife tried ECV, it was so painful, Omg, i tried to endure but it was too much by this time i was 36 week and two days
Time was running , by now i have done like three scans still showing the same thing.
I increased my Exercise but nothing happened
I knew that This could lead to CS that was what i never wanted
I watched several videos and saw how people look down on CS mom.
Apart from the pain i knew i will feel, the expense wasnt here. We were not prepared for this.
My Loving Husband was so sad, the fact He was seeing me worried really bothered him
But we had to make up our minds to save my life and the life of our unborn baby
Had appointment with my Doctor , by now i was in my 38 weeks. Had done a scan a day before the appointment day. My Doctor encourange me to not fear that Everything will be fine. She told me the risk of me having a vavagina birth for a Breech baby but i still had my faith Baby would turn.
I was later scheduled for a CS.
During this period, it seemed God wasnt hearing my prayers.
I sat at home and a voice said to me, "Are you saying those who have gone through C_section, i dont love them? Are they not also Gods children? " I answered God loves them
Again i heard, What if this the only way to have your baby healthy without complication and not loosing your jewel, remember what you've been through this pregnancy. At that moment i realize God knows what's best and He sees beyond what we see.
Weather vagina delivery or C-section, mom you are strong . What matters, you and your baby are alive and healthy
I started preparing my mind for the C_Section, yes i was so scared.But i confessed positive words to make me strong and overcome fear .
I watched several videos about the C_section, how it is done, the recovery and so on...
It was scary ooo but i said to myself Let the will of God be done.
In my 38th week, Labour started, i never had the idea it was labour at first.
Like i said Earlier, i was scheduled for C_Section on a Monday .and on Sunday by 4:am i started having Contractions(i didn't know sha).
I was to be admitted that sunday, so everything was set, since the pains were coming at some interval ,Hubby said it could be labour. (Na when I reached the hospital i realized i was in labour ooo) Hubby was right 😁
I was 7Cm dilated when i arrived at the hospital, the contraction really progressed so fast but baby was still breech,it was her bumbum that was down.
The nurses said to me, "your labour is so fast, you can give birth in no time but because its her Bumbum that's down and this is your first time, we don't want to take the risk, if you had given birth before we would deliver your baby but since you've already been booked,an Urgent CS will be done",From that moment strength came, all that matters what's to have my baby healthy and come out alive.
I had the C-section and when i saw my baby, i said to myself, it was worth it.
My baby came out looking so Beautiful, no complications Glory to God.
Thur 30 March 2024
Loveth Maawanger Ephraim ❤
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