This channel is my safe space where I document my healing journey after trauma
Using Psychology + Spirituality to evolve and break generational curses
Not a guru. I'm a student of life, sharing what I learn along the way
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Nu Mindframe
Hi everyoneš
In case you missed it, I re-opened my Patreon last weekš„³Patreon is where Iāll be uploading all my upcoming videos first (as early releases) so we can watch and discuss together before I post them publicly on YouTube.Ā
Itāll also be where I upload any videos that I donāt feel comfortable sharing publicly (because the subjects may be too sensitive or too controversial).Ā
So far, Iāve already uploaded a video there titled:
Ā āHow I Reprogram My Negative Beliefs Using ChatGPTā
In the video, I break down how I used ChatGPT to turn life into a video game and reprogram my negative subconscious beliefs. Itās not a substitute for therapy of course. Itās moreso an interactive journaling method that also gives you real world challenges/missions to complete.
I developed this method while I was in isolation and wanted a fun way to recover / do healing work.Ā
Iāve definitely been seeing great results so I wanted to share the video for anybody who wants to use the method themselvesāŗļø
Especially since weāre entering a new year and changing your negative beliefs is CRUCIAL if you donāt want to be stagnant next year.Ā
Not sure if Iāll be making the video public in the near future or if Iāll keep it as an exclusive Patreon video. But either way, itās up and hereās the linkš: www.patreon.com/posts/how-i-reprogram-145941648
If the link doesnāt work for any reason, go to Patreon.com/numindframe to join.
Also note: Apple charges extra for the Patreon app for some reason. So if you have an iPhone and want to save money, join through the Patreon website instead of the appš
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Just wanted to say hello and send positive energy to anybody reading this. Still trying to recover from severe burn out and chronic freeze but will be returning as soon as I can. Thank you to everybody who still continues to support my channel and reach out to ask me how Iām doing. I truly appreciate itš
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I recently learned about something called the "Law of Divine Compensation" which states that anything you lost due to years of trauma/abuse (energy, confidence, money, opportunities, etc) aren't actually lost. They've just been stored away for you and you'll receive ALL of it back once you get in alignment. I just uploaded a full post about this in my financial shadow work group and I made it free. You can access it with the link below. Happy 10/10šš
www.patreon.com/posts/law-of-divine-is-113776828
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Pretty much got the same answers/results on Twitter too lol. The actual answer is 2. Yes TWO YEARS OLD. If you were raised by a narcissist, you were raised by a person who is emotionally 2 years old. This info came directly from Professor Sam Vaknin and I was honestly shocked and disturbed when I learned it
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I asked this question on Twitter already but Iām wondering if you guys can guess the answer. (Emotionally) how old is a narcissist? Meaning, after what age do narcissists stop emotionally maturing?Iāll be back later with another post to give you the answerš
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Posted a thread on Twitter yesterday that a lot of people found helpful so I wanted to post it here as well for anybody who needs itā¤ļø
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A lot of people donāt know that their toxic mother is the very reason theyāre struggling financially and have a hard time manifesting. Mother wounds cause money blockages (psychologically and energetically)
By now, most of us know about attachment styles (the way you attach and behave in relationships). But did you know that knowing someoneās attachment style can help predict their finances and their level of happiness?
āØPeople with secure attachment style tend to have high income and high happiness.
āØPeople with dismissive avoidant attachment style tend to have high income and low happiness.
āØPeople with anxious preoccupied attachment style tend to have low income and low happiness.
I want to quickly explain why people with anxious preoccupied attachment style are predicted to have the lowest income. This is because people with this attachment style tend to not think highly of themselves, so they rarely pursue opportunities that will help them elevate financially. And they spend so much time stressed and anxious over relationships, they barely have time or energy to pursue financial abundance.
And do NOT read this and feel ashamed of yourself. Shame spiraling is something anxious preoccupied people do a lotš We donāt choose our attachment style so thereās literally no reason to feel ashamed. This info is just to make you self aware so we can find solutions and change it
So anyway, back to the point. We now know that attachment style indicates how much money you make. And who is the primary person that forms your attachment style? Your mother.
So you see why I say that mother wounds = money wounds. You not being able to attach to her securely (which is NOT your fault and can be healed so donāt worryš«¶š¾) directly impacts not only your level of happiness but also your finances.
So thatās the psychology side of it. Now letās talk manifestation and how your mother wounds block you in that area. We all know by now that you manifest from your subconscious mind. Thatās where the expression āyou donāt manifest what you want, you manifest who you areā comes from. So if you have negative messages programmed in your subconscious mind, itāll interfere with what youāre trying to manifest.
Because who is mainly responsible for programming your subconscious mind? Your mother! So if you have a toxic mother who verbally, emotionally, or even physically abused you (abandoned you, rejected you, neglected you, etc)⦠that mistreatment sent a strong message to your subconscious mind saying āI am worthless. I am unloveable. I donāt deserve good things.ā
Now image youāre trying to manifest a new condo. Your conscious mind is saying āI want this condo. I deserve this condo.ā But your subconscious mind is literally fighting you on it. Your subconscious is saying āNo, you canāt have it. You donāt deserve good things. Youāre not worthy of good things.ā And remember, we manifest from our subconscious so the manifestation will be blocked by the subconscious programming that you mother instilled in you.
And again, do NOT get discouraged after reading this because this CAN be fixed.
So letās talk solutions now. Logically the best solution to this is to remove those negative messages that your toxic mother programmed into your subconscious, and replace them with messages that the loving/healthy mother that you deserved wouldāve programmed there.
And the best way to reprogram your subconscious is through repetition. You have to repeatedly affirm āI am worthy. I am deserving. I am lovableā until it sticks. The best times to do this so that the affirmations actually stick to your subconscious mind are:
āØwhile youāre asleep
āØwhile youāre looking in a mirror
āØwhile youāre meditating
So basically you should listen to affirmations while you sleep, repeat them while you look in the mirror, and repeat them while youāre in a meditative state. You have to be very consistent with this for it to work. Eventually youāll start to see that youāre manifesting much more easily, especially when it comes to financesš
If you found this thread helpful and want more depth info about healing your mother wounds to clear your money blockages, I created a 45 minute deep dive videoš
Initially I made the video for my Patreon group. But if you arenāt a member of the group and you have no interest in joining another membership (which I completely understand lol) I wanted to still give you the option to watch it. Hereās the linkš www.patreon.com/numindframe/shop/heal-your-mother-ā¦
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Realized today that my fear of commitment is actually a fear of confinement. Makes perfect sense why I struggle with the thought of getting married, having kids and buying a home. The thought of even choosing a specific city to live in longterm terrifies meš Turns out itās yet another trauma response
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Trying to get back active on this channel so make sure you check this community tab more often. Iāll be posting alot on hereš
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For anybody who has went through a narcissistic discard, I invite you to watch this video. It has amazing tips on how to grieve properlyā¤ļø https://youtu.be/BlIdZSul34M?si=2wyBN...
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Hey guys! I just uploaded a video but I think I accidently left some information in it that discloses somebody's identity. I like to keep people anonymous when I share stories from my past. So I have to edit that part out and re-upload. Sorry about that!
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