The Attractive Man

A high value man blames NOBODY.

If women reject him now, he doesn’t give up.

If he’s out of shape now, he has a plan he works toward.

If he has insecurities, he works on them.

He finds mentors.

Hires coaches.

He has a “growth mindset”

Because men, listen…

All guys start out at the bottom

Elon Musk knew nothing about Spaceships before starting SpaceX

I sucked with women before getting into game

So even if your results with women suck now…

Don’t become bitter

Don’t start reading up about how “modern women are trash”

Be an optimist

If you curl up in a ball and become negative…

Your dating life will stay the same

If you'd like in-depth help with your dating life, book a 1on1 call, link in my bio 🙌

3 days ago | [YT] | 168

The Attractive Man

If you're over 40 and think the dating game has passed you by, read this.

Here's what most older guys get wrong.

They go straight to the apps. And the apps are brutal for an older man, because a 25-year-old sets her age filter to 35 and you never even show up.

So you decide you're too old, and you quit before you start.

But here's the part almost nobody is tapping into.

When she meets you in real life, she doesn't see a number. She just feels the way you make her feel.

That's how you bypass her logical filter. Because 99% of the time, a woman dates a guy for how he made her feel, not the year on his license.

In person you can make her feel special, sexy, and safe. You can't fake that on a profile.

And your age? It's not the handicap you think it is. Studies show women mature faster than men and want a partner on their level.

They want stability. They want a man in his calm, grounded, provider energy, not a boy still figuring himself out.

That's something a 25-year-old guy simply can't give her.

Quick story. I once approached my ex while she was shopping. She lit up. Later I found out every guy she'd dated before me was a bodybuilder over six feet tall.

I'm not a bodybuilder. I'm not over six feet.

But she made an exception for me. We dated four years, all because of how I made her feel.

Some women won't be into the age gap. That's fine. Some will, some won't.

You don't need all of them. You need the ones who light up when you walk over.

For help with that, I’m currently doing consultations, click the link in bio.

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5 days ago | [YT] | 208

The Attractive Man

Here’s why women don’t like you👇

1) Not being courageous

If you’re waiting for women to talk to you

For them to make a move

You’re screwed

The guy who’s willing to risk rejection and go talk to her will destroy you

Start striking up more conversations with women

2) You look unkept

If your clothes are old

The colors don’t match at all

They don’t fit you well

Your beard hasn’t been maintained in a while

Your haircut is scruffy

The list goes on…

This will effect how people perceive you

So if you’re struggling with women but you’re also overweight and haven’t had a haircut in 2 years…

That might be something you want to work on.

3) You’re a lone wolf

As a guy we need:

Coaches

Wingmen

Like-minded friends

So I recommend you get a coach

You get a wingman

You hang around people that are also killing it with dating

For me, that’s been extremely impactful

In the military I met a guy who was really good with women

That had a huge impact on me

Being a lone wolf means nobody calls you out on your BS

Or exposes you to what you should improve

Or demonstrates to you that there’s a higher level to get to…

Hope this helps

To summarize

-> Be bold and courageous (make a move)

-> Groom yourself properly

-> Stop being a lone wolf

So go out there and date beautiful women.

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1 week ago | [YT] | 124

The Attractive Man

Neediness REPELS women…

Some of you guys are triple texting

Telling her you love her after just meeting

Trying to spoil her with gifts

Expensive items

And it turns her off

So guys should instead pull away

Especially guys struggling with neediness

And start controlling yourself.

Don’t be the guy sending 100 messages to women

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1 week ago | [YT] | 163

The Attractive Man

Here’s why women don’t like you👇

1) Not being courageous

If you’re waiting for women to talk to you

For them to make a move

You’re screwed

The guy who’s willing to risk rejection and go talk to her will destroy you

Start striking up more conversations with women

2) You look unkept

If your clothes are old

The colors don’t match at all

They don’t fit you well

Your beard hasn’t been maintained in a while

Your haircut is scruffy

The list goes on…

This will effect how people perceive you

So if you’re struggling with women but you’re also overweight and haven’t had a haircut in 2 years…

That might be something you want to work on.

3) You’re a lone wolf

As a guy we need:

Coaches

Wingmen

Like-minded friends

So I recommend you get a coach

You get a wingman

You hang around people that are also killing it with dating

For me, that’s been extremely impactful

In the military I met a guy who was really good with women

That had a huge impact on me

Being a lone wolf means nobody calls you out on your BS

Or exposes you to what you should improve

Or demonstrates to you that there’s a higher level to get to…

Hope this helps

To summarize

-> Be bold and courageous (make a move)

-> Groom yourself properly

-> Stop being a lone wolf

So go out there and date beautiful women.

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 193

The Attractive Man

Most men aren't stuck because they're unlucky.

They're stuck because they're waiting.

Waiting until they're more confident.

Waiting until they have the perfect words.

Waiting until they feel ready.

The problem is that "ready" never comes.

While you're waiting, life keeps moving.

The woman you could have met today walks away.

The connection that could have changed everything never happens.

The memories, adventures, and relationships you want remain imaginary.

Not because they're impossible.

Because you never gave them a chance to exist.

Ask yourself this:

How many opportunities have you missed simply because you stayed silent?

Not because she rejected you.

Not because you failed.

Because you never started.

Most men spend years trying to avoid rejection.

And in the process, they guarantee regret.

The truth is simple:

Your future isn't decided by the women who say no.

It's decided by whether you have the courage to hear the answer.

Every relationship you've ever admired started with a moment that could have easily never happened.

A hello.

A smile.

A conversation.

A risk.

And while everyone else is searching for shortcuts, tactics, and secret formulas, the biggest difference-maker is still the same thing it's always been:

Taking action when you're scared.

Because the life you want isn't hiding on the other side of perfection.

It's hiding on the other side of participation.

If you are ready to take action then schedule a free consultation and my team and I will see how we can help you become the man you deserve to be: attractyourdreamgirl.com/book-your-call

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 67

The Attractive Man

Here’s the habit I’m talking about…

And you might think I’m overreacting.

But MILLIONS of men are affected by this…

Most men these days (60-98%).

I’m talking about p*rn.

It will rob your motivation to approach women.

It will give you erectile dysfunction.

And overall will NOT help your dating life.

You should strive for REAL connections.

REAL women.

Stop being a creepy voyeur watching people fvck on your computer.

Hope that was motivational.

It’s an important message I must give.

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 122

The Attractive Man

Being a “nice guy” and a nice person is DIFFERENT

A “nice guy” lets women treat him like trash

She can hurl insults at him

Receive significant favors whenever she wants (even if she’s been misbehaving)

A nice guy is unsure of himself (and everyone can feel it)

A nice person on the other hand…

Everyone likes nice people

Positive people

A guy who smiles

High energy

But this guy doesn’t let women treat him like garbage

He has personal boundaries

He’s assured with himself

This should be a goal of all us men.

If you aren’t there now, keep moving forward

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 385

The Attractive Man

Guys let women treat them like sh*t (and she hates it)

Well, some guys…

“Nice guys”...

And women will never respect a guy like that.

So remember, gents…

There’s a fine line between being a nice person.

(Which all people want to be around)

And being a people-pleaser

A pushover

A man who lacks a backbone

A man who is unsure of himself

This must be avoided

If this is you…

First recognize the problem

And next understand that fixing it should be the goal

Men will respect you more

Women will want you more

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