The Attractive Man

New year. New standard.

This isn’t the year you chase women harder.
It’s the year you become the man women naturally notice.

Less seeking approval.
More self-respect.
More calm confidence.
More intentional living.

Attraction follows who you become, not what you try to say.

Let’s make this the year you actually level up.

Happy New Year!

6 hours ago | [YT] | 33

The Attractive Man

Men ruin their dating lives without realizing it.

Men have a superpower 💫
Most don’t know it exists.

They think women have dating on easy mode.
Not realizing men can too.

Men’s attractiveness is not fixed. It can be built.

No dates. Getting brushed off. Feeling invisible.
That can change.

I’ve seen it thousands of times and lived it myself.

Grooming, style, confidence, presence. Small tweaks. Big results.

Dating improves like fitness with the right system.


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3 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 210

The Attractive Man

Dan Bilzerian Says He Discovered The Truth After Having Sex With Thousands Of Women...

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6 days ago | [YT] | 160

The Attractive Man

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. Relax your body. Slow your voice. Use pauses. Confidence is felt, not explained.

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1 week ago | [YT] | 101

The Attractive Man

You can “work on yourself” AND date women.

But guys seem to go to the extreme.

Ditching dating completely.

What’s worse is when guys never speak to women for YEARS thinking once they have…

-Money
-Muscles

Then they will magically have stunning women flocking all over them.

But the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

And after coaching guys at dating for over a decade,

I’ve discovered exactly how a guy should approach dating in 2025 to have amazing success.

And I’m giving away a key course on it

I’m giving away a free approach blueprint showing men how to confidently meet and attract women ANYWHERE they go

DM me 'APPROACH' on IG: @mattartisan and I'll send you a copy

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The Attractive Man

If you show her too much interest too soon… when she didn’t have to earn it, she won’t appreciate and value you.

By qualifying her and being a challenge, you give her the opportunity to work for your attention and earn your affection.

2 weeks ago (edited) | [YT] | 104

The Attractive Man

Beautiful women WANT to be approached.

They’ve fantasized about meeting a charming confident man in a random encounter since they were little.

You can be that man, if you stop making excuses and get out of your comfort zone.

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The Attractive Man

Getting ghosted sucks.

And the first thing I want to make clear is…

Don’t take getting ghosted personally.

Most likely it isn’t your fault anyway!

She might have met someone else before you…

Her ex might be trying to get her back…

Heck, she might be just tied up with work and feeling super overwhelmed right now.

And you have two choices: 
1. Reengage her 
2. Meet more women
I say do both. 

If you reengage her…

It’s super important that you don’t send a butthurt message accusing her of ghosting you.

That’ll only reaffirm to her that she made the right choice. 

Instead, give her value. I usually send a cute dog pic. And there are tons of examples to get her to reply after being ghosted in my free texting cheat sheet which you can find in my instagram bio. 

When she replies, just carry on as normal and ask her out when the timing is right. 

Now, if you choose to meet more women…

That’s where all the opportunities are.

Why get hung up on one woman that has ghosted you when other women are more excited to spend time with you?

Go out and meet more women!

And send me a DM me on IG: @mattartisan to get my free texting cheat sheet.

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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 57

The Attractive Man

🙅 Discover 8 Fashion Mistakes You MUST Avoid! 🕴️

Also, want us to help you get more dates with women that you ACTUALLY like?

Click the link in the bio to schedule a free consultation:

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If you want to make a good 1st impression…

It's essential to have attractive style. 

But what exactly are women turned off by? 

No more outdated patterns or questionable accessories.

Remember to always approach her looking your best.

Agree with our 8 choices? 

Let us know in the comments!

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 56

The Attractive Man

Your bad habits are destroying your dating life… 💔
Here’s what I mean.
There are 2 sets of bad habits guys have regarding dating:
Mindset Habits 🧠
👉 “I need a new car”.
👉 “Approaching is weird”.
👉 “I’m just not rich enough”.
👉 “I just need bigger muscles”.

2. Action-based Habits
👉 Watching p*rn.
👉 Not approaching women.
👉 Not creating a life they’re happy with.
👉 Watching Redpill content from creators that hate women & dating.

Here’s the thing…
Dating is something that makes your life BETTER. 💑
Also, it’s something you can do at ANY POINT in your life.
Not only once you’re “successful enough”.
Not only once you’ve built muscle. 💪
That’s all wrong. ❌
All you need is the willingness to learn.
And the desire to improve your dating life. 💖
If you have both of those 2 things and you’re serious about having a plan laid out in front of you to GUARANTEE your dating life will transform…
Comment “DATE” below and I’ll reach out. 💬📆

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