Meet your Neurodivergent Neighbour 🌻🌙

Hi, I'm Hayley! I make videos about finding your way back to yourself.

Here you'll find gentle reflections on friendship, neurodivergence, slow living, creativity, and building a life that feels like home. Sometimes that looks like deleting social media, wandering through forests, moving across the world, or learning how to belong exactly as you are.

If you've ever felt a little different, a little lost, or like you're searching for your people, you might like it here.

☁️ New videos whenever inspiration strikes (but mostly on sundays lol)

Connect with Hayley through the links below or through busybeewithadhd@gmail.com
linktr.ee/hayleyhoneyman


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HYPERFIXATION ALERT 🚨

Join me as I show you insanely well priced Italian villas… and who knows? Maybe I’m moving 😂✈️

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Picture this - your neurodivergent bestie from across the world sends you a monthly envelope with a neurodivergent theme to it with tips and tricks, journal prompts, a vulnerable and heartfelt letter and cutie stickers 💌✨

I miss the magic of receiving letters and connecting to people more personally!! 🌱 And as I connect to my creative practice, I am more and more drawn to finding ways to connect to people through it.

So I had an idea…. What if I started a snail mail club for our little neurodivergent crew? 🌷🐝

This is very much in the PLANNING stage haha so I wanted to know if you’d be interested!

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JOIN ME IN COSTA RICA in 2027 🌴✈️✨

I am hosting my third Women’s Neurodivergent Retreat in March 2027 and I want you to come with me!

Connection is a core part of learning about ourselves and I’ve seen first hand that being surrounded by women who share your experience is an INCREDIBLE way to enhance your journey 🌷

If this sounds of interest, join my WhatsApp group to get all of the updates and get more details!

chat.whatsapp.com/HOnRsA0Xi22046Vq8js1y6?s=cl&p=i&…

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If there is an accessible solution to your suffering but you choose not to do it, then your suffering is your own doing whether you like it or not.

This was a truth I struggled to accept. As I’ve matured I’ve been able to look back at just how many choices I used to make to keep me in my own suffering.

I think what stopped me so frequently was that the solutions themselves felt (emphasis on felt) sometimes impossible to grasp because of the discomfort caused by reaching them. For example, therapy has been a huge support in managing my depressive spells throughout the years. Was it comfortable? Was it instant? Absolutely not. And when it’s not, my ADHD brain can struggle to grasp that solution as an option.

Reflect for a moment - what suffering are you avoidant to solve because the solution itself is uncomfortable, a time commitment or a challenge?



Suffering: the conscious, endured experience of physical or mental pain, distress, or misery. It is a broad term that encompasses everything from mild discomfort to severe agony.


ft. The house cat at the place I stayed in Italy lol she was purring aggressively I swear, this is just an awkward picture of her 😂😂

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I’m nannying for millionaires right now - no that’s not an exaggeration. I was super lucky to meet this incredible family 14 years ago. But with that, I have learnt a lot of very valuable lessons! ✨🌱

1. You don’t always need to try and help everyone all the time. People often need to get things wrong in their own time (even if you have a clear solution). Sometimes staying quiet is the more helpful option.

2. There is so much power in not being judgemental. Allowing people to do and say as they please (so long as it’s not harming other people) is powerful. I don’t need to control people. I don’t need to ‘save’ people with different values. I simply witness them and it’s so much more enjoyable.

3. Money cannot buy you everything (though it certainly helps). Throwing money at internal problems will do nothing if you’re not willing to do the work yourself. (Not a slight to the family, they know this and work fairly hard on the internal things too).

xoxo Hayley

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I am so excited to finally share that I have a new March 2027 Women’s Neurodivergent Trip planned for Costa Rica!! 🌴✨

With my last two trips being such incredible successes and with a high demand for another one, I booked one in! I wanted to make sure y’all had enough time to responsibly save for the trip and I made it as inexpensive as I possibly could 💛

If you want more details - join the WhatsApp group here!
chat.whatsapp.com/HOnRsA0Xi22046Vq8js1y6?s=cl&p=i&…

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I am back on the road (well on a boat) heading to the airport! ✈️👏🏼 I’m travelling to Italy again! It was a weird coincidence to have a work trip immediately after my Italy retreat but hard to complain?? Haha It’s going to be a very different trip as I am nannying for a family I’ve known since I was 14! ✨🌱 it’ll be fun! Wish me luck!

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Surprise! New Body Doubling Session coming to Youtube Live TODAY at 1:00pm PST 🌷✨🌱

You've been asking for more and so here you go my dears!

youtube.com/live/xfYT3nHWz-s

(also here are some tiny phone pics from moments I have felt pretty)

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Calling all doom scrolling ADHDers - I can’t wait to tell you the many things I have done to cut my screen time scrolling from 5+ hours a day to 0!!!

That’s right! I’m scroll free! Here’s how I made that happen 🌷🥰💗

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Alright, buckos! ✨For the first time ever... you're deciding my next YouTube video! 😮

Vote in the poll below, and EVEN BETTER, the top comment on my Patreon post will decide the video after that. 🤯I want you to push me as a creator. What's a video you'd love to watch that might be genuinely challenging to make?

No idea is too ambitious. I'm ready. 💛 Leave your video idea in the comments! And find my patreon here: patreon.com/HayleyHoneyman?utm_medium=unknown&utm_…

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