“What we often don’t admit is this… We’re not actually in love with the person right in front of us. We’re in love with the version of them we’re hoping they become. ... And so we stay. We wait. We explain. We manage them. We coach them. But love is not an intervention. ... Because the reality is… when you stay in a relationship hoping someone becomes a different version of themselves, you’re not relating to who they are. You’re relating to who you need them to be. And that creates pressure. It creates resentment..." -Jillian On Love
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“What we often don’t admit is this…
We’re not actually in love with the person right in front of us.
We’re in love with the version of them we’re hoping they become.
...
And so we stay.
We wait.
We explain.
We manage them.
We coach them.
But love is not an intervention.
...
Because the reality is…
when you stay in a relationship hoping someone becomes a different version of themselves,
you’re not relating to who they are.
You’re relating to who you need them to be.
And that creates pressure.
It creates resentment..." -Jillian On Love
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