Jeremy Roadruck

In business, sales, marriage, parenting... What if there was no failure, just feedback?

In case you missed the memo: the frustrations you’re experiencing in ANY relationships are symptoms of something deeper that can be fixed, addressed, or resolved.

Mark used to believe his struggles were just part of life. The tension at home with his wife, the distance between him and his kids, and the stress of work were all things you have to simply suck up, grit your teeth, and white knuckle your way through your days.

His wife is just overly emotional.
His kids just don't listen.
His leadership at work was just short sighted and stupid.

And nothing he did about any of this stuff made any difference anyway, so might as well just give up, right? Stop caring. Stop trying.

But that attitude bothered him.
It wasn't who he really was.
It wasn't a way of operating that he could respect.
So he was left stuck.

We ended up crossing paths in a Facebook group where he posted, venting about his life, his wife, his kids and his career.

I asked him one, simple and direct question:
What if you were getting the EXACT right feedback to actually get to the results you claim to want?

Well, THAT sparked a bit of controversy in the group. Quite a few guys jumped in - some agreed, a LOT disagreed, but I stuck with the thread with Mark and helped him to realize:

The daily fights
The feeling of disconnection,
The seemingly endless frustrations were ACTUALLY signs of something deeper.

He was getting the exact feedback where he wasn't living at his highest values - he was trying to accommodate others instead of speaking up for himself, his wants, his needs.

His inaction was impacting everything.

Once he realized that, and took ownership of his actions and impact... that's when everything started to change and get better.

Working together, he learned how to step into his wife's emotions in a present and playful way. As she felt more safe with him, she opened up and their marriage became a sacred space for them.

He realized his kids were just being real and didn't know any better until he started to show them how to be better. His dad was distant, and Mark always blamed himself for that - but he was working so hard to prove he was a good man, he was just as distant. New awareness let him shift with his kids.

And he realized his career was a no-win game, so he made a career shift without getting angry about it. He came into a new company with a fresh sense of confident and was willing to speak up quicker.

Overall, his life became easier, happier, and more rewarding.

The same can happen for you.

Instead of staying stuck in frustration, how can you take that information as feedback and use it to grow, adapt, and adjust until you get to the goals that truly matter to you?

2 months ago | [YT] | 0

Jeremy Roadruck

This was feedback from a client "owning" an evening with his family is a fun, playful way... giving his kids what he WISHED his own parents had given to him.

I'm not a "coach," I'm a consultant. What's the difference?

Coaching empowers individuals to find their own solutions through guided self-discovery, while consulting provides expert advice and direct solutions to specific problems.

* Coaching is often a slow, discovery process and a lot of back-and-forth as you essentially do a guided DIY process to find your own clarity.

* Consulting is often a set of tools to deploy and deliver a result - cleaner, faster, quicker, more efficient.

My goal as a consultant is to get "fired" by my client as quickly as possible - in my world, leaders create more leaders, not followers. I empower my clients with clean, intelligent, and concise frameworks to "own" the moment inside himself, and with his family, as quickly, easily, and comfortably as possible. Results often guaranteed.

Not coaching, not therapy... just results.

The only question that matters when I work with my clients is:

Do you want to be right, or do you want to get results?

book a call at www.leadlikeaking.com/book-now/

4 months ago | [YT] | 0

Jeremy Roadruck

From the outside, he looks like he’s crushing it:
✅ 7-figure business
✅ High-impact marriage
✅ Beautiful family
✅ Big goals


But behind the scenes?


- He’s sleeping on the couch half the week.
- His son and daughter watch as their dad shut down, wears the mask, tries to hold it together but they can feel his hurt.
- He’s trying to have real conversations - but when he finally does open up, his wife erupts in public, humiliates him in front of everyone. Even their kids.


He’s called “insecure.”
He’s told it’s “all his fault.”
He’s done everything he can to provide - yet, somehow, it still feels like he’s failing.


This isn’t a midlife crisis.
It’s a moment of reckoning.
It's when the man you’ve HAD TO be
And the man everyone NEEDED YOU to be
No longer matches the man you TRULY ARE inside.


And here’s the hard truth:
You could spend YEARS stuck in that tunnel…
Wear the mask.
Go through the motions.
Lose your marriage.
Lose your edge.
Lose yourself.


But what if the tunnel isn’t the end?
What if it’s an inflection point?
A signal?


THE signal it’s time to
reclaim your power
and design your life on YOUR terms.


You can’t fix this with more business wins.
You can’t negotiate your way out of emotional depletion.


But you can walk through it - with the right guide on your side.


Because every break-through always begins with a break-down.
And what cracks no longer truly serves you.
It's actually the old "you" falling away to reveal what's real.


That light at the end of the tunnel? It could be a bigger, brighter, better future if you take new action... or, keep your head down and maybe it's an oncoming train.


If this lands for you - stop waiting. stop wishing. stop hoping. and stop praying. Let’s talk. Your break-through might be just around the corner but it's not going to interrupt you if you continue to stare at the ground in defeat.


And if the thought of an oncoming train feels like a welcome relief... we DEFINITELY need to talk sooner... your family and your kids need the biggest give you have - your presence in their lives.

You don't have to walk alone, my man.

7 months ago | [YT] | 0

Jeremy Roadruck

Blame is easier than accountability.
That’s why most people never truly change.


Because blaming FEELS like progress -
…it gives you something to push against.
…it gives you someone to correct.
…it gives you an excuse to avoid your own part.


But here’s the kicker:

Whatever you resist, persists.


And until you can accept your role in the chaos - you'll stay stuck in it.


That includes:

- Your kid’s resentment
- Your ex’s coldness
- Your son’s defiance
- Your daughter’s distance


You can’t lead without first truly owning your impact and power, and what truly created this "shituation."


You can’t fix what you’re still fighting against.
You can't lead when you're already judging and blaming others.


Think about it - when someone's judging you, making YOU wrong... that's when you're excited to follow their lead?
Or do you wish they'd just STFU?


Now, acceptance doesn’t automatically mean agreement.
It just means you’ve stopped pretending you’re blameless.


That’s when you start to truly recover your power to effect change and growth again.


💭 Where have you been stuck in blame because it felt easier than ownership?


And, please understand, I'm absolutely NOT judging you - I've been down the blame road a time or ten myself.


But I know two things:

1) with new awareness, we open the door to a new way of living and loving.

2) "the eye that sees cannot see itself" - we're often intimately aware of our problems but blind to how we're unconsciously co-creating them ... so a guide on the side can help increase our awareness in a way a DIY approach never will.


Food for thought.

What's been YOUR experience with blame?

How do you handle it when someone blames you?

Where have you stopped blaming someone else and made positive growth?

Is blame ever justified?

7 months ago | [YT] | 1

Jeremy Roadruck

Men feel the weight of leadership, but no one ever taught them how to carry it.

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❌ You provide, but you don’t feel fully respected.

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9 months ago | [YT] | 2

Jeremy Roadruck

Why Most Men Feel Powerless in Their Marriage (And How to Take It Back)


Every day, 10 divorced dads take their lives.
Successful men.
Business owners.
Fathers.
Men who look like they have it all together.


But behind closed doors?
They’re drowning.


And the worst part?

They don’t know how to fix it and they believe there's no one to talk to about it.

They hear it all the time - no one cares about men.


But, if you’re feeling the distance in your marriage or struggling, this is is for you. Because I care and I'm doing something about it.



If you’re feeling the distance in your marriage, this is for you.

9 months ago | [YT] | 0

Jeremy Roadruck

More a moment of gratitude than anything... - have a client, mid-30s pharmacist with some family troubles, and helped him to release fear from his childhood, scared and hiding under the bed back when his dad was drinking himself into oblivion...

replaced it with gratitude - they have a great relationship now, but my client didn't realize he'd been holding on to this fear for close to 30 years.... and now it's gone.

Plus, his kids aren't growing up with an alcoholic dad.

Brought the adult version of himself into the memory of his childhood, and let him close the loop from the past by letting that younger self know that it all works out, that his he and his daddy will have a great relationship and that he will NEVER scare his own sons like that.

Fantastic way to start a day!

1 year ago | [YT] | 0

Jeremy Roadruck

New video coming out later today! BONUS 👑 Check out the The #1 Mistake Men Make When Facing “The Silent Treatment” AND WHY IT'S DANGEROUS! Get it here >> www.leadlikeaking.com/lm/silent-treatment-guide/

2 years ago | [YT] | 1

Jeremy Roadruck

New video coming today at 1pm EST

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Jeremy Roadruck

What is 1 + 1

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