Become the man she wants to fall in love with again.
Most men search for tactics to save their relationship because they don't realize understanding is the real solution.
I teach men to step outside their own perspective to understand their partner's emotional experience — and their own — so they can become the man she wants to fall in love with again.
Through my Love Communication Reset™ program, men learn what's happening beneath the surface of their relationship, identify the unhealthy patterns that have been unintentionally pushing her away, and begin making relationship decisions that rebuild trust, strengthen emotional connection, and create the opportunity for her to fall in love again.
Understanding one another—and ourselves—is the foundation of every healthy relationship. Without truly understanding the emotional experience you're both having, you'll keep searching for tactics while missing what your relationship actually needs to flourish.
Mindy Pickel
Do you think you know the root cause of why the relationship is struggling/ending?
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Mindy Pickel
One thing to remember is to make it matter. Which means. If it matters to them - as ridiculous as it may seem or be to you - make it matter to you as well. This simple concept goes a long way - especially during rough times when you each feel unseen and unheard.
So start implementing making it matter - if it matters to them - make it matter to you!
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Mindy Pickel
Many times when you're trying to save your marriage you focus on trying to make all these "changes" for her. Woman don't believe "changes. To them, you're not doing it because it's who you really are - you're only doing it to try and get her to change her mind. Thats why all the effort you're putting in isn't resonating.
Instead of trying to change, I challenge you to look at it this way. Look at it as making different choices every day. If you wake up and usually you're moody before coffee, make the choice to start the day being grateful of something. This may seem cliche, but mindset shifts are really important and everything when you're trying to rebuild a reltionship.
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Mindy Pickel
When you're trying to rebuild your relationship the goal isn't to try to push your partner to feel something they don't currently feel. The goal is to respect how they are feeling (as much as it hurts) and ask yourself - what were they experiencing that caused them to feel this way?
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Mindy Pickel
Happy 4th of July! Stay safe today!
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Mindy Pickel
Hey Guys! I'm thinking of doing a free, live once a month Relationship Clinic where you can ask me anything about your situation. Any interest?
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When woman are having feelings that don't seem logical - usually the first instinct is to explain why what she feels is wrong. Its important to remember that feelings stem from something and that she just wants to feel understood and validated in how she is feeling. So before explaining why the feeling is wrong - just listen and ask questions. Be curious. This doesn't mean admitting fault. It just means trying to meet her where she is. Once she feels understood she is more open to realizing the feeling was illogical - but she needs to be able to express herself and feel its ok to do so before she can get there.
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Mindy Pickel
Were you truly happy in the relationship before she expressed wanting to separate?
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Mindy Pickel
One of the hardest things when trying to save your marriage is giving her space and respecting her decision when she asks. And many guys think this means just giving up. It doesn't. All it means is giving her the space she needs to emotionally breathe. That's your opportunity to really take the time to reflect and get to the root cause of where the disconnect was coming from.
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Hey Guys! I've decided to start hosting a free relationship clinic once a month on Sunday evenings. I'm going to keep it to 20 guys to make sure everyone gets an opportunity to ask a question about their situation. More details coming soon - but let me know who's interested!
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