I’m Kim Velez — transformation coach, licensed trauma therapist, and creator of the Being Her movement — here to help women rewire their self-concept, reprogram their subconscious mind, and create the life and love they want without chasing or settling. On this channel, you’ll learn:

-Self-concept in love — how to feel chosen, secure, and worthy

-Neuroscience-based identity shifting — backed by brain science

-Subconscious reprogramming to break toxic patterns for good

-Nervous system regulation so you feel safe and confident

-How to stop overthinking and attract healthy relationships

-The psychology of rewiring beliefs for lasting change

If you’ve been stuck in cycles of insecurity, anxious attachment, or unhealthy love — these videos will give you the mindset, nervous system, and self-concept shifts to finally become her: The version of you who already feels good enough, already feels loved, and naturally attracts the life and relationships you want. New videos every Thursday.


Kim Velez

🔥 It’s My Birthday, and I’m the Gift. Period. 🔥

Listen—another year of leveling the f*ck up. Another year of becoming THAT woman.

I didn’t survive what I did just to play small, settle, or doubt myself. I’m here to take up space, own my worth, and let the universe roll out the red carpet accordingly. 🎉✨

So here’s what I know for sure on this birthday:

Your glow-up isn’t optional. It’s a requirement. The old you was cute, but this version? Unstoppable.

Love that feels like breadcrumbs? Expired. You’re the main f*cking course.

The dream life isn’t a “maybe.” It’s a non-negotiable. And I’m living proof.

Another year, another level unlocked. 💖

Drop a 🔥 if you’re on your “no more playing small” era with me!

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I’m jumping on around 9:15 am Et today for daily dose live. Office isn’t done but that’s okay! See you soon 🩷

11 months ago | [YT] | 28

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Hey loves!! There will be no daily dose live today! I’m in middle of moving into my new office today and have scheduled deliveries and people coming this morning! 🩷🩷🩷

11 months ago | [YT] | 78

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Let’s meet today for daily dose at 9am ET. They are drilling right on the other side of the wall and it’s super loud. 🩷

11 months ago | [YT] | 24

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Hi loves! I will be doing daily dose today at 8:30am ET! See you soon! 🩷🩷

11 months ago | [YT] | 42

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Daily dose is cancelled today. I will be back tmrw (Friday at 9am). My son’s car won’t start and he’s blocking my car in driveway- we are waiting on a tow truck 🩷🩷

1 year ago | [YT] | 126

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I will be doing DAILY DOSE live today at 9:30 am ET. Have to get Masha from the groomers right now.

1 year ago | [YT] | 44

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Hi loves! I will jumping on live today at 8:30 am Et for daily dose. See you then 🩷🩷

1 year ago | [YT] | 24

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Hi loves!! I had an early appt to get something fixed on my car. I was originally supposed to get a loaner but they told me it wouldn’t take long to fix. I shld be back at my office- depending on traffic - around 10:30 or so. I will jump on today for Daily Dose around 10:30-11:00 am Et. So please set your notification so you know ow when I jump on live.

1 year ago | [YT] | 64

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Super weird- the live stream cut off 😩😩 I will be back Tuesday morning LIVE at 9 am ET ❤️❤️

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