Kervin Searles

If the deepest conversations you’re having are about sports, money, or surface-level jokes, then you’re starving emotionally.

Men need spaces where they can say, “I’m struggling,” and hear, “Me too, let’s figure it out.”

📖 That’s why I wrote Undrafted and Purposed — to help you move beyond surface talk into authentic connection.

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💡 Challenge: This week, ask a friend something deeper than, “What’s up?”
#MensMentalHealth #BlackMenAndConnection #LockerRoomHealing #AuthenticBrotherhood

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Kervin Searles

You can’t lead your family, career, or community if you can’t lead yourself. Self-leadership is about responsibility, discipline, and vision.

Before asking, “Who’s following me?” ask, “Where am I leading myself?”

📖 Undrafted and Purposed equips you with practical steps to strengthen self-leadership before seeking influence.

💡 Remember: True leadership starts within.
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#LeadYourselfFirst #MensPurpose #BlackMenHealing #LeadershipDevelopment

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

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Too many men confuse loyalty with silence. But holding your truth inside isn’t protecting anyone — it’s poisoning you.

Healthy connection requires voice, vulnerability, and honesty.

💡 Question for you: Where in your life are you calling silence “strength,” when it’s really fear?

Undrafted and Purposed challenges you to step into your truth without apology.

#SpeakYourTruth #MensEmotionalHealing #TherapyForBlackMen #LeadershipThroughHonesty

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

Even the best athlete can fail to reach his potential if he’s playing the wrong position. The same is true in life.

If you’re out of position — in relationships, career, or even faith — you’ll always feel out of rhythm.

💡 Teachable moment: Alignment = fulfillment. Misalignment = frustration.

📖 In Undrafted and Purposed, I walk you through discovering where your skills, values, and purpose intersect. Available now on Amazon. (a.co/d/b1nPBvT)

#FindYourPosition #PurposeDrivenMen #BlackMenHealing #MensGrowth

1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

When you feel like you don’t belong, you’ll hustle for worth in places that deplete you. But when you know you belong, you move with confidence, not desperation.

💡 Ask yourself: Do you walk into rooms trying to prove yourself, or knowing you already carry value?

Undrafted and Purposed teaches Black men how to find spaces of belonging where you don’t have to perform to be accepted.

👉🏾 Stop fighting for a seat at tables that were never built for you. Build your own.

📘 Undrafted and Purposed: Still Living, Loving, and Leading in Life — Available now on Amazon.

#BlackMenBelong #MensHealing #TherapyForMenOfColor #EmotionalWellness

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

Today I woke up incredibly grateful. I woke up to my dream.

I have been blessed with a beautiful wife inside and out. I have a loving family of six, with healthy, growing, and unique kids. Not only am I grateful for my family, but also for the family I came from. I truly believe that in order for my current reality to be possible, it started with the sacrifices my mom and dad endured, which created an example for me to follow and, at times, expand on. I don’t know what tomorrow will bring, but in the spirit of mindfulness and being present, I thank God for right now. And to God be the glory.

#Grateful #FamilyFirst #UndraftedAndPurposed #Blessed #EverydayJoy

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

Men often think legacy means leaving millions behind or making headlines. Truth? Legacy is built in the daily choices your children, family, and community witness.

How you speak. How you show up. How you love. That’s the inheritance people will carry.
What consistent actions do you want to be remembered for?

📖 Undrafted and Purposed teaches men to see legacy not as a finish line but as a lifestyle.
Start living the story you want remembered.

📘Available now on Amazon.
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#LegacyBuilders #BlackMenLeading #MensWellness #PurposeAndLeadership

2 months ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

Too many men see discipline as restriction. In reality, discipline is the fence that keeps your future safe. Every time you choose consistency over comfort, you invest in the man you’re becoming.
Think of discipline as love for your future self. It’s saying: “I won’t rob tomorrow’s version of me for today’s impulse.”

📘 In Undrafted and Purposed, I break down how discipline is the bridge between intentions and legacy.

💡 Tip: Write down one habit you want to protect your future with. Start small. Consistency beats intensity.

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#DisciplineEqualsFreedom #MensGrowth #TherapistCoach #UndraftedAndPurposed

2 months ago | [YT] | 1

Kervin Searles

Society often tell men their worth is tied to what they produce — points, stats, money, strength. But purpose runs deeper than performance.

Performance fades. Purpose sustains.

Ask yourself: If I stopped performing today, who would I still be?

That question may shake you, but it’s also the doorway to real freedom.

In Undrafted and Purposed, I guide you from living for applause to living with alignment. You don’t need a spotlight to validate your worth.

👉🏾 Live purposed, not just drafted.
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2 months ago | [YT] | 0

Kervin Searles

Look closely: are you repeating the same arguments, the same mistakes, the same disappointments? That’s not coincidence. That’s a pattern.
The good news is this: what you recognize, you can redirect. But if you keep ignoring your patterns, you’ll keep repeating your pain.

Practical step: Journal tonight about a moment that triggered you this week.

Ask: When was the first time I remember feeling this way?

What belief about myself is connected to this?

That’s how awareness begins. That’s how you stop reacting and start choosing.
📖 In Undrafted and Purposed, I teach men how to watch their “film” — their life’s highlight reel — and adjust their game plan. Champions win because they study the tape.

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