I'm Cis — and I help women over 50 rediscover who they were before the world told them who to be.

Personal Development for Women Who've Actually Lived

You're not broken. You're not lost. You're buried under decades of "shoulds."

The woman you were before the kids, the career, the caregiving, the endless people-pleasing? She's still there. And she's ready to come back.

I don't do fluff. I don't shame. I teach clarity, courage, and the self-trust you had before life convinced you to doubt everything.

After 20+ years as an RN and a lifetime of navigating family chaos, devastating loss, unexpected love, and rebuilding myself from scratch — I now help women understand why they spiral, why they stay small, and how to break free for good.

If you're done falling down the same rabbit holes and ready to live with strength, honesty, and unshakeable purpose — welcome home.

Grounded in decades of nursing, advanced coaching certification, NLP, and Tony Robbins' Leadership Academy.




Cis Ahearn

Aging! What a gift! My body isn't as cooperative as it once was and recovering from meer colds and flu's just isn't as easy. Thank goodness I have learned to just stop and relax, trust my body will get through it with the least amount of conflict. Take this GI flu going around. Wow! NOT fun! And postponing my Maui trip a few days cost me, but when I woke up that first morning, I never felt so grateful. The storm inside my belly had finally quieted, there was a sweet fresh rain going on, it was warm enough to sit outside and enjoy the sounds of the birds and the drops on the leaves. I realized that I must absolutely get present for these kind of moments because there might not be as many of them going forward in the second half of my life. Recognize the Blessings, the Magic Moments you have every day. Be still with them. It takes just a few seconds. Love you!

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Cis Ahearn

Here's a thought, are you really angry or just frustrated? Think about it. Just shifting from anger to "I'm just frustrated" can change how you feel and how others respond. You can own a feeling that does not bring on a world of bad thoughts, feeelings and connections. Just saying!

6 months ago | [YT] | 1

Cis Ahearn

Where I started with creating videos for Youtube, isn't at all where I am today. People ask me, "Are you making money?" and I say "who cares, I am having fun and creating stuff from all the things I have learned in this 70 years". That isn't to say I did not want to make money, but when I shifted my thoughts to "who could I help with the knowledge I have, money no longer controlled me. I hope you enjoy the videos I share. I come from experience love and the desire to help others. After all, I still work as a nurse a day or two a week after retiring from a 45 yeard career. I love exploring the possibility of more!!

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