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what's your MBTI? - INFP
what was your job in tech? - consultant/program manager
what did you study? - psychology + economics

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tapiocapress

checking in🌷

hey friends, i haven’t uploaded for a while and saw you guys leaving the sweetest comments on my earlier videos so just wanted to come on here and say hi:) i’ve missed you!!

i’ve been home in china lately, taking a break from traveling. but, i am editing some vlogs from my journey in europe at the end of last year and will be posting them very very soon✨

here are some moments from my life i’ve shared on instagram (@tapioca.press). i’ll try my best to share more here for those of you who are not on there

upcoming videos: 1) barcelona vlog (so excited to share this adventure with you!) 2) a lil life update sharing what’s been on my mind while i’ve been quiet (…a lot)

i hope 2025 has been treating you well🪓

see you so soon, in the next video🩵

xx
evelyn

10 months ago | [YT] | 305

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a bit (month) late but I turned 30šŸŽ‚

I’ve been experiencing this odd sense of, relief? And reassurance? That despite how lost and and stuck and behind I felt throughout my 20s, everything turned out to be okay…wow, I wish I had known this.

so just in case you needed to hear this too: it’s going to be okayšŸ’“

Hope you are having a good week! (and yes video coming soon šŸ‘€ šŸ›¼)

1 year ago (edited) | [YT] | 575

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hi friends✨ realized I haven’t given you a life update for a while oops…so here’s my summer so far:

1. I was in ThailandšŸ‡¹šŸ‡­ for a month in June (some of you guessed in the comments!!) Sorry for not posting about it. I had the most magical, crazy, heartwarming experience running into one of you in the streets of Chiang Mai…vlogs to come. Can’t wait to tell you all about the trip!

2. I’m currently back in my hometown Shenyang. I’ve always struggled to find a sense of belonging here because I spent all my life trying to run away for it but…why does it feel like home now🄺

3. I’ve been working from a bookstore every day. Air con + iced oat latte beats the heatšŸƒ

4. There’s been a lot of rainy + gloomy days lately. I guess it’s monsoon season? Is that even a thing in northeastern China? But hey, my baby’s here to brighten up my dayšŸˆā€ā¬›

5. How’s your summer going?

also - in case the algorithm hid it from your feed here’s my latest video, a little love letter to Beijing, may be the last Beijing vlog in a while:
https://youtu.be/f8q5JNjbJ3o

hope you enjoyed this lil update…have a lovely dayšŸ’—ā˜ļø

1 year ago (edited) | [YT] | 295

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we hit 50K this week!!!!!✨

wow…that’s wild. thank you for being here, rooting for me, and supporting each other in our little community🫶

this world is so big. we come from different backgrounds, with wildly different life experiences, and the fact that we are all here means we were all touched by some similar feelings, or struggles, at some point.

it’s crazy to have felt like a misfit all my life and find 50K people who can relate.

if anything, we are definitely not alone…

ēˆ±ä½ ä»¬šŸ’—

Evelyn

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I thought this might be a good time for us to do another Q&A here!! please leave your questions in the commentsšŸ’«

p3 - hi from Beijing!!
p4 - hutong cats
p5 - a cute bookstore/cafe in Beijing called YAN books. great for working!

1 year ago (edited) | [YT] | 753

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hi friends✨ how’s your week going?

we did a little gratitude exchange on instagram (@tapioca.press) earlier, and I wanted to share snippets of it here…

i hope you are having a good week so far…if you are not, please remember practicing gratitude is a powerful way to make it better🫶

what are you grateful for? let’s lift each other up in the commentsšŸ’—

1 year ago | [YT] | 428

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hello friends✨sharing snippets of my life here b/c i realized not all of you use Instagram and I want to keep you posted about my life:)

And here’s a big update: I just left Guangzhou!

4 years ago around this time I was making a room makeover video at my parents’: https://youtu.be/Zs9Z18zrbQA

During the past 4 years, some of my consultant friends made manager; tech friends bought their second homes; college friends got married, had kids.

Everyone seems to be moving up and up, their lives figured out. And here I am, back at my parents’, having murdered my tech career, editing the same type of ā€œaesthetic lifestyleā€ content consumed mainly by college students, even though I’m turning 30 in less than 3 months.

But for the first time in my life, I feel okay exactly where I am. I see the person I am today, and I’m even a little proud of how much she’s grown over the past 4 years. I’m so grateful to you for being on the journey with me.

So here’s a reminder, if you happen to need one: progress is not measured just by promotions and raises. Please remember to celebrate your growth even though it’s so hard to see it w/o the numbers. You deserve to give yourself credit for how far you’ve comešŸ«¶šŸ¤šŸ’«

1 year ago (edited) | [YT] | 524

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hi friends!!!

I’m *finally* making a video telling you all about how I edit. please drop your editing questions in the comments here (if you missed my story on IG), and I’ll try to answer them in the video✨

this video is taking so long to write b/c I’ve learned SO MUCH from all my mistakes over the last 4 years🫠 so, I’m sharing all the workflow/time saving/aesthetics tips to save you some pain!!

šŸ””video will be out Thursday 3/21. turn on the notification bell so you don’t miss it!

1 year ago | [YT] | 256

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Happy Lunar New YearšŸ§§šŸ²šŸ§ØšŸ®

I’m back, with a Beijing vlog. I’ve missed Beijing, and I’ve missed you, lotsšŸ’Œ

watch here: https://youtu.be/8Dwas-118Gw?si=rYmOC...

xx,
Evelyn

1 year ago (edited) | [YT] | 146

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Happy 2024āœØšŸŽ‰šŸ¾ļøšŸ«¶šŸŽŠ

Thank you guys so much for all the love on my last video. I just went through all the comments. And my heart is so fullā¤ļø

I spent Christmas in Japan, but there will not be a Japan vlog b/c I needed to take some time for myself. But, I did take some pictures for you - Japan is such a lovely place, and I would love to go back (and take you guys along next time!) šŸŽšŸ™šŸ„ŗ

Over the past few days I’ve been reflecting on how I’ve been unkind to myself, holding myself up to unrealistic standards and putting pressure on myself to always be productive. And you guys reminded me, that we don’t have to live like that.

In 2024, my goal is to learn self compassion, and to live by what I love, courageously. I want to travel in Asia and Europe. I want to live without self-imposed limits about what I should be doing at this stage of my life. I’m turning 30 this year. 30 is not too late to prioritize being happy:)

Oh, and keep on reading. I’m currently reading The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Funitake Koga.

Thank you so much for being here and lifting me up in 2023. I’m so excited to share 2024 with you✨

What are you looking forward to in 2024?šŸ‘€

1 year ago | [YT] | 211

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hello friendsšŸ’«how are you?!!! sorry for not posting much lately - December has been a tough month, but I’ve taken some time to reflect and make a lil chatty vlog for you catching up on what’s been going on in my life, and how I’ve decided to live by love not fear in 2024🌟

It’ll be out 12/21 9AM ET. I hope it makes you feel better if you are also ~*oVeRthiNking*~ around the end of the year…

also - I baked some cookies yesterday! Hope you are staying cozy during the holidaysšŸŽ„

2 years ago | [YT] | 218