Irose FromTheConcrete
Mission: To empower women and children in their recovery journey, fostering hope, strength, and unshakable joy through personal experiences and professional guidance.
Hey, I'm Toya, aka Irosefromtheconcrete! I've walked the recovery path myself, and I understand the struggles and triumphs that come with it. As a state-certified Peer Support Specialist and Recovery Coach, my mission is to share my journey, strength, and hope to help women and children facing dual diagnosis. My content covers the Franklin Reality Model, the 12 Steps, Think and Grow Rich, Psycho-Cybernetics, Seeking Safety, and all things mental health wellness. You'll find story times, reaction videos, commentary, and music!
Together, we can navigate life's challenges and build a life filled with unshakable joy.
Blooming through adversity, rising together.
WELCOME TO THE SAFE ZONE
🧠 I make assessments, not assumptions
💬 I offer suggestions, not shame
📌 I believe in support over control
✊🏾 We heal by choice—not force.
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🧱 Incomprehensible Demoralization Series
“It Was About Control from the Beginning…”
Let’s talk about a special kind of monster.
The kind who doesn’t want love,
doesn’t want partnership,
doesn’t even want the child he helps create.
What he wants… is leverage. 🎭
He doesn’t want to be your man —
He wants to be your handler.
He watches, waits, and chooses women who are in survival mode —
Because he knows:
A woman who’s already carrying shame…
A woman who’s already fighting for her life…
is easier to break in. 💔
That’s the part that’s incomprehensible.
He saw her hurting — and instead of offering love, he offered control dressed as care.
That’s what makes this kind of abuse so hard to even explain to people.
He didn’t yell.
He didn’t hit.
He whispered.
He studied her soft spots.
Then used them to climb into her world and take over. 🕳️
He gets her pregnant not out of love — but out of strategy.
Because now, there’s a legal tether.
Now he can watch her unravel and say,
“See? I told you she was unstable.”
Meanwhile he’s:
📸 Posting new family pictures
👔 Looking “respectable”
🧾 Filing custody paperwork
🎯 Painting her like the villain in a story he authored
And the court?
The community?
The system?
They don’t ask how she ended up in that condition.
They just look at who seems more composed.
More responsible.
More “safe.”
And guess what?
He planned it that way.
What makes it demoralizing is not just the manipulation —
It’s that she thought she had finally found someone who could see her.
Someone who accepted her despite the mess.
Someone who said, “I got you.”
But instead of being held — she got hijacked.
Instead of being loved — she got watched, judged, and discarded.
That’s what breaks something in the soul.
That’s what makes some women give up.
Because it’s not just heartbreak —
It’s a betrayal wrapped in hope.
It’s spiritual sabotage with a smile on it.
Some women don’t come back from that. 💀
But some do.
And when they do —
they don’t just speak up.
They expose systems.
They break generational chains.
They teach other women to see it before it happens.
💡 So to any mother living through this RIGHT NOW — here’s what you need to know:
✅ Cut contact where you can. Let peace be your loudest answer.
✅ Get clean. Get sober. Every clear-headed day is another nail in the lies they told.
✅ Build your time and your receipts. The longer you stay grounded, the stronger your case becomes.
✅ Find advocates. Peer Specialists. DV counselors. Legal support. Get a team.
✅ Pursue legal options. There are family law resources for low-income mothers. Look into clinics, coalitions, shelters.
✅ When you’re ready, bring the courts into it — but only once your mental health is stabilized and documented.
✅ Keep records. Screenshot, save voicemails, track everything. Use court-safe co-parenting apps like OurFamilyWizard or Talking Parents.
✅ Take emotion out of the courtroom. Let the facts build your case.
✅ If you’re in a state where it’s legal — train and license yourself to carry. Not out of fear, but out of self-protection and preparedness.
This is about survival AND power.
This is about recovery AND reclamation.
You were not created to be a puppet in someone’s power game.
You are a mother. A warrior. A witness.
And every day you stay on course — you win.
🗣️ To the women who were set up, silenced, and written off:
You were not weak — you were targeted.
You were not crazy — you were overwhelmed.
And you are not done — you are dangerous now…
because you made it out.
📍**#IncomprehensibleDemoralization**
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