تعلق گہرا ہو تو آواز کا مدّ و جزر اور رویے کی اونچ نیچ بھی کھٹک جاتی ہے ...
سیدنا ابو طلحہ انصاری رضی اللہ عنہ نے اپنی زوجہ ام سلیم رضی اللہ عنہا سے کہا :
”میں نے رسول اللہ ﷺ کی آواز کو بھوک کے مارے مدہم پڑتے سنا ہے، تمہارے پاس کھانے کو کچھ ہے؟!“ (صحیح البخاري : ٦٦٨٨)
ام المؤمنين سيده عائشہ رضی اللہ عنہا حادثۂ افک بیان کرتے ہوئے فرماتی ہیں : ”مجھے کچھ پتہ نہ تھا کہ معاملہ کیا ہے، مگر یہ بات مجھے کھٹکتی رہی کہ رسول اللہ ﷺ کے رویے میں وہ لطف و نرمی نہ تھی جو اس سے پہلے میری بیماری کے دنوں میں ہوا کرتی تھی!“ (صحیح البخاري : ٤١٤١)
Every message sent to a non-mahram man is a step by which shayṭān opens his door, a loosening of the veil of. modesty, and a whisper that may lead to a stumble.
"So do not be soft in speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should desire." [Qur'ān 33:32]
And if you think that chastity alone is a sufficient fortress, remember this: we are not purer than the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ, nor are you purer than the Mothers of the Believers. Yet Allāh said of the purest of homes:
“And when you ask them for something, ask them from behind a partition.” [Qur'ān 33:53]
So how can we feel safe from that against which Allāh Himself has warned?
Fear Allāh for your heart, fear Allāh for your modesty, for the first step of a fall…is a message written with shy restraint.
Shaykh Ibn al Uthaymin رحمه الله said: “If a person says: ‘What will make a man love his wife and vice versa?’ We say: Allah has clarified this in His statement:
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ And live with them honourably. [النساء ٤:١٩] If every person lives with his wife honourably and vice versa, then love, a strong bond, and a happy married life will be established. [فتاوى نور على الدرب ٦ / ٢٩]
"The wise would conceal their sudden circumstances and suppress whatever sorrow, fear, or anxiety befell them, not from an inability to speak, but from a capacity for self-control and the preservation of dignity.
Thus, in their biographies one reads that a certain man was threatened, or lived for a period in fear; yet trials did not hinder him from his work. Rather, he carried on with his affairs as though nothing had touched him—calm, steady-hearted, and composed.
This was among the clear distinctions between a man and others: restrained patience, guarded endurance, and pain that was never put on display.
Then times changed and conditions deteriorated. Many men came to find it unbearable to conceal what afflicted them. They broadcast their worries, expose their states, and turn their sorrows into public news—especially in the age of “status updates” and instant messages.
It is as though one opens a door upon himself without knowing who may knock at it: a friend, a watcher… or a spy."
أَنِّي مَسَّنِيَ الضُّرُّ وَأَنتَ أَرْحَمُ الرَّحِمِينَ Verily, distress has seized me, and You are the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy. (Quran 21:83)
Kya hua apke gham me koi sahara na bana to, aap kisi ke gham me sahara banjana...
Hum jo mohabbat ki ummed, kisi shakhs ka sath, gham me kisi ke kandhe ki umeed rakhte hai aur wo puri na ho to koi gham nahi aap kisi ki takleef me uske sathi banjao, aap ko jo dusre se umeed thi agarche wo puri na ho to aap kisi ki umeed puri karne wale banjana..
Jab aapke pass isteta'at ho, to wo sahara bano jo kabhi aapne khud chahiye tha zindagi hamesha aazmaishon se isliye guzarti hai ke hum dusron ke dard ko samajh sakein, jo zakhm humne tanhayi me sahe wo dusron ke zakhmon par marham lagane ke qabil banaate hai, jo aansu tumne chhupkar bahaye wo tumhe sikhate hai ke kisi ke aansu khamoshi se kaise pohnche jaate hai. Isliye jab waqt tumhe taqat de, to wo raushni banjana jo tumhe kabhi andheron me chahiye thi!
Kabhi kisi ke liye dua ban jana, kabhi muskurahat, kabhi umeed, kyun ke shayad tumhari ek narmi kisi ke bikhre hue dil ko phirse jod de :) !
القانتات
Worldly attachments given by Allāh<
1 week ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
تعلق گہرا ہو تو آواز کا مدّ و جزر اور رویے کی اونچ نیچ بھی کھٹک جاتی ہے ...
سیدنا ابو طلحہ انصاری رضی اللہ عنہ نے اپنی زوجہ ام سلیم رضی اللہ عنہا سے کہا :
”میں نے رسول اللہ ﷺ کی آواز کو بھوک کے مارے مدہم پڑتے سنا ہے، تمہارے پاس کھانے کو کچھ ہے؟!“
(صحیح البخاري : ٦٦٨٨)
ام المؤمنين سيده عائشہ رضی اللہ عنہا حادثۂ افک بیان کرتے ہوئے فرماتی ہیں :
”مجھے کچھ پتہ نہ تھا کہ معاملہ کیا ہے، مگر یہ بات مجھے کھٹکتی رہی کہ رسول اللہ ﷺ کے رویے میں وہ لطف و نرمی نہ تھی جو اس سے پہلے میری بیماری کے دنوں میں ہوا کرتی تھی!“
(صحیح البخاري : ٤١٤١)
1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said:
And know that anyone who loves a thing more than Allāh, then it is inevitable that he will be hurt by the thing he loves.
[مجموع الفتاوى ٢٨/٣٨]
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
*Correspondence… the Devil’s Bridge to Hearts*
O pure-hearted one…
Every message sent to a non-mahram man is a step by which shayṭān opens his door, a loosening of the veil of. modesty, and a whisper that may lead to a stumble.
"So do not be soft in speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should desire." [Qur'ān 33:32]
And if you think that chastity alone is a sufficient fortress,
remember this: we are not purer than the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ, nor are you purer than the Mothers of the Believers. Yet Allāh said of the purest of homes:
“And when you ask them for something, ask them from behind a partition.” [Qur'ān 33:53]
So how can we feel safe from that against which Allāh Himself has warned?
Fear Allāh for your heart, fear Allāh for your modesty, for the first step of a fall…is a message written with shy restraint.
✍️ Faisal Al-Hashidi
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
🪻 A woman’s true maturity lies in understanding that integrity and strong character outweigh physical beauty by a thousand degrees
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
1 month ago | [YT] | 1
View 0 replies
القانتات
What Makes a Man Love His Wife?
Shaykh Ibn al Uthaymin رحمه الله said:
“If a person says: ‘What will make a man love his wife and vice versa?’
We say: Allah has clarified this in His statement:
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
And live with them honourably.
[النساء ٤:١٩]
If every person lives with his wife honourably and vice versa, then love, a strong bond, and a happy married life will be established.
[فتاوى نور على الدرب ٦ / ٢٩]
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
Composure, Self-Control & Preservation of Dignity
Sheikh Abu Mashkoor hafidahullah mentioned:
"The wise would conceal their sudden circumstances and suppress whatever sorrow, fear, or anxiety befell them, not from an inability to speak, but from a capacity for self-control and the preservation of dignity.
Thus, in their biographies one reads that a certain man was threatened, or lived for a period in fear; yet trials did not hinder him from his work. Rather, he carried on with his affairs as though nothing had touched him—calm, steady-hearted, and composed.
This was among the clear distinctions between a man and others: restrained patience, guarded endurance, and pain that was never put on display.
Then times changed and conditions deteriorated. Many men came to find it unbearable to conceal what afflicted them. They broadcast their worries, expose their states, and turn their sorrows into public news—especially in the age of “status updates” and instant messages.
It is as though one opens a door upon himself without knowing who may knock at it: a friend, a watcher… or a spy."
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
أَنِّي مَسَّنِيَ الضُّرُّ وَأَنتَ أَرْحَمُ الرَّحِمِينَ
Verily, distress has seized me, and You are the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy.
(Quran 21:83)
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
View 0 replies
القانتات
Kya hua apke gham me koi sahara na bana to, aap kisi ke gham me sahara banjana...
Hum jo mohabbat ki ummed, kisi shakhs ka sath, gham me kisi ke kandhe ki umeed rakhte hai aur wo puri na ho to koi gham nahi aap kisi ki takleef me uske sathi banjao, aap ko jo dusre se umeed thi agarche wo puri na ho to aap kisi ki umeed puri karne wale banjana..
Jab aapke pass isteta'at ho, to wo sahara bano jo kabhi aapne khud chahiye tha zindagi hamesha aazmaishon se isliye guzarti hai ke hum dusron ke dard ko samajh sakein, jo zakhm humne tanhayi me sahe wo dusron ke zakhmon par marham lagane ke qabil banaate hai, jo aansu tumne chhupkar bahaye wo tumhe sikhate hai ke kisi ke aansu khamoshi se kaise pohnche jaate hai. Isliye jab waqt tumhe taqat de, to wo raushni banjana jo tumhe kabhi andheron me chahiye thi!
Kabhi kisi ke liye dua ban jana, kabhi muskurahat, kabhi umeed, kyun ke shayad tumhari ek narmi kisi ke bikhre hue dil ko phirse jod de :) !
1 month ago | [YT] | 1
View 0 replies
Load more