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Married Men for Christ - Ending Secret Struggles
⚠️ No Live Stream Today (Thursday, Jan. 8th)Men of God,There will be no live stream today, Thursday, January 8th, 2026, because I am undergoing an emergency procedure.God-willing, we will resume tomorrow, Friday, January 9th, 2026, at our regular time, 4pm PST.Here is your assignment for today:Practice Matthew 5:1 and Matthew 5:2.Say them out loud. Write them down. Share them with your wife and children.Matthew 5:1 (ESV):"Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him."Matthew 5:2 (ESV):"And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:"Live them out today to the glory of God.Position yourself to receive from Christ (v.1)Listen when God speaks (v.2)I will see you tomorrow, Friday, January 9th, God-willing.Pray for me as I undergo this procedure.To His glory,David Tetteh-Quarshie, Married Men for Christ
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You've tried everything.Praying harder. Accountability partners. Filters. Fasting. Promise after promise to God that this time will be different.But you're still here.Here's what 20 years of struggling taught me that nobody else will tell you:The 𝗮𝗱𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁 isn't your problem. It's 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗿.Stress at work? Disconnection from your wife? The crushing weight of leading while feeling like a fraud? Fear that you're failing God, your family, your calling?You're medicating a wound you haven't identified yet.Most Christian programs hand you more accountability and expect different results. They treat the symptom while the infection spreads.Real permanent freedom comes when you stop managing the fruit and start replacing the tree.𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝟯 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱:𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘵𝘳𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘦 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸?W𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘯𝘮𝘦𝘵?I𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘨𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘸, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘮 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦?Write these down. Answer them honestly. The wound you discover is where real healing begins.𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝟯 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂❓
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Married Men for Christ - Ending Secret Struggles
⚠️ No Live Stream Today (Thursday, Jan. 8th)
Men of God,
There will be no live stream today, Thursday, January 8th, 2026, because I am undergoing an emergency procedure.
God-willing, we will resume tomorrow, Friday, January 9th, 2026, at our regular time, 4pm PST.
Here is your assignment for today:
Practice Matthew 5:1 and Matthew 5:2.
Say them out loud. Write them down. Share them with your wife and children.
Matthew 5:1 (ESV):
"Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him."
Matthew 5:2 (ESV):
"And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:"
Live them out today to the glory of God.
Position yourself to receive from Christ (v.1)
Listen when God speaks (v.2)
I will see you tomorrow, Friday, January 9th, God-willing.
Pray for me as I undergo this procedure.
To His glory,
David Tetteh-Quarshie,
Married Men for Christ
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Married Men for Christ - Ending Secret Struggles
You've tried everything.
Praying harder. Accountability partners. Filters. Fasting. Promise after promise to God that this time will be different.
But you're still here.
Here's what 20 years of struggling taught me that nobody else will tell you:
The 𝗮𝗱𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁 isn't your problem. It's 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗿.
Stress at work? Disconnection from your wife? The crushing weight of leading while feeling like a fraud?
Fear that you're failing God, your family, your calling?
You're medicating a wound you haven't identified yet.
Most Christian programs hand you more accountability and expect different results. They treat the symptom while the infection spreads.
Real permanent freedom comes when you stop managing the fruit and start replacing the tree.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝟯 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱:
𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘵𝘳𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘦 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸?
W𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘯𝘮𝘦𝘵?
I𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘨𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘸, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘮 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦?
Write these down. Answer them honestly. The wound you discover is where real healing begins.
𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝟯 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂❓
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