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𝗛𝗼𝗻. 𝗠𝗮𝘃𝗶𝘀 𝗛𝗮𝘄𝗮 𝗞𝗼𝗼𝗺𝘀𝗼𝗻 is a Ghanaian politician, educationist, and former Member of Parliament for Awutu Senya East in the Central Region of Ghana. Born on 3 February 1966,she hails from the Guan-Gonja community of Salaga in the Savannah Region of Ghana, she worked as a professional teacher for over 21 years before entering politics. She studied at Bimbilla Training College, the University of Education, Winneba, and Ghana Institute of Management and Public Administration (GIMPA). A member of the New Patriotic Party (NPP), she served in Ghana’s Parliament and held ministerial roles including Minister for Special Development Initiatives and Minister for Fisheries and Aquaculture Development under President Nana Akufo-Addo. She is widely recognized for her strong grassroots influence, leadership, and contribution to education, women’s empowerment, and community development in Ghana.

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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗢𝘁𝗶 𝗥𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗼𝗻 is one of the regions in Ghana with a significant 𝗚𝘂𝗮𝗻 population. The Guans of Oti include the Nkonya, Likpe, Santrokofi, Lolobi, Akpafu, Bowiri, Akposo, Buem, Atwode, Nawuri, Krachi, Chumburung, Delose, and Adele peoples, whose presence reflects the deep historical and cultural roots of Guan heritage in the region. The land is widely admired for its rich traditions, indigenous languages, and colorful harvest and yam festivals that celebrate unity, thanksgiving, and agriculture through drumming, dancing, and communal gatherings. Beyond culture, the Guan lands of Oti are blessed with remarkable tourism potential, including the Kyabobo National Park, Volta Lake, waterfalls, caves, forest reserves, mountain landscapes, and ancient settlement sites. Together, the culture, history, and natural beauty of the Guans of Oti continue to make the region one of Ghana’s notable eco-cultural and heritage destinations.

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I don’t have a problem with my husband supporting his mother. In fact, I respect and appreciate that. My concern is about our future and financial balance as a family.

He gives me Gh¢200 daily for the house and my personal upkeep, which I manage alongside home responsibilities and the needs of the children. At the same time, he gives his mother even more than that every day. I raised a simple concern with him, suggesting that maybe some of the money could be saved or invested for emergencies, healthcare, or the future, especially because life is unpredictable.

Unfortunately, the discussion has now created tension between us. What hurts me most is that he told his mother that I don’t want him to take care of her, which is not true at all. I only wanted us to think wisely about our finances and plan ahead as a family.

Am I wrong for feeling concerned about this situation?

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 21:
The Wisdom of Counsel

Scripture:
“For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.” — Proverbs 11:14 (NIV)

Devotion:
Strong marriages are not isolated. They are connected to a community of wisdom. There will be times when you feel stuck or overwhelmed. In those moments, seeking godly counsel is wisdom, not weakness. A pastor, a counselor, or a mature couple can offer perspective, prayer, and tools you may not have on your own. Wisdom grows in community.

Reflection Questions:

1. Are there recurring issues in our marriage where we feel stuck?

2. Who are two or three trusted people we could turn to for guidance?


Prayer:
Lord, you are our Wonderful Counselor. Give us humility to seek help when needed. Surround us with wise voices who can strengthen our marriage and speak truth into our journey. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Pastor || Counselor
Grace Inspired Marriage Center
(+233) 0533360543

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 20:
Resolving in Love

Scripture:
“In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” — Ephesians 4:26-27 (NIV)

Devotion:
Conflict is certain, but allowing conflict to linger is optional. Unresolved anger gives the enemy room to work in your relationship. Not letting the sun go down on anger means refusing to let hostility settle in your hearts. It means reaffirming love, offering grace, and promising to return to the conversation with calmness and humility. You may not solve everything in one night, but you agree not to carry bitterness into the next day.

Reflection Questions:
1. What is our usual pattern during conflict?

2. What would living out this scripture look like practically?


Prayer:
God of peace, forgive us for letting anger linger and for giving the enemy room in our relationship. Teach us humility and courage to resolve issues in love. Strengthen our unity and help us protect our peace. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Pastor || Counselor
Grace Inspired Marriage Center
(+233) 0533360543

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 19:
Praying Together

Scripture:
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” — Matthew 18:20 (NIV)

Devotion:

Praying together unites your hearts before God. It brings vulnerability, connection, and divine partnership. When you pray together, you are no longer two individuals facing challenges. You are joined with God, who fights for you and leads you. Even if praying together feels new or awkward, start small. A simple prayer whispered in unity can shift the spiritual climate of your relationship.

Reflection Questions:
1. What fear or hesitation keeps us from praying together more often?

2. What is one need we can bring to God together right now?


Prayer:
Lord Jesus, you promised to be with us when we gather in your name. Draw us into prayer as a couple. Remove our fears and hesitations. Unite our hearts as we seek you together. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Grace Inspired Marriage Center

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 18:
The Words of Your Mouth

Scripture:

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” — Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)

Devotion:

Your words carry the power of life and death. "Unwholesome talk" includes criticism, sarcasm, and contempt. God calls you to a higher standard: to use words that build, not break. Before you speak, ask: Will this comment build my spouse up? Does it meet a need they have? Will it benefit them? Make it your goal to be your spouse’s chief encourager. One sincere word of affirmation can change the atmosphere of your home.

Reflection Questions:

1. What is one specific encouraging thing I can say to you today?

2. What type of unwholesome talk am I most prone to?


Prayer:
Father, you spoke light into darkness. Let our words bring life to our marriage. Guard our mouths from harmful speech. Fill them with words that build, encourage, and impart grace. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Grace Inspired Marriage Center

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 17:

Speaking the Truth in Love

Scripture:
“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.” — Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)


Devotion:

Honesty without love becomes brutality. Love without honesty becomes empty. God calls you to the balance of both. "Speaking the truth in love" means being transparent for the purpose of growth, not victory. It means choosing gentle words, considerate timing, and motives that aim for unity. The goal is not to be right, but to be right together. This is how couples grow into the mature, unified relationship God desires.

Reflection Questions:
1. Is there a truth I need to share that I’ve been avoiding for fear of conflict?

2. When I need to share a difficult truth, what is the most loving way to approach you?

Prayer:

Lord Jesus, you are full of grace and truth. Teach us to be the same. Give us courage to be honest and tenderness to be loving. May our conversations aim for growth and unity. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Grace Inspired Marriage Center

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 16:
Slow to Speak

Scripture:

“Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.” — Proverbs 10:19 (NIV)

Devotion:

Being "slow to speak" is the partner to being "quick to listen." It is the discipline of the pause. In that sacred space between your spouse's words and your response, you have a choice: to react impulsively or to respond thoughtfully. A reactive word can cause deep wounds, while a measured word can bring healing. This pause allows you to ask yourself: Is what I'm about to say true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? It gives the Holy Spirit a moment to guide your response. Holding your tongue is not weakness, but spiritual strength.

Reflection Questions:

1. Recall a recent conversation. How might a longer pause before I spoke have changed the outcome?

2. What is a trigger that causes me to speak quickly or reactively?


Prayer:

Heavenly Father, you spoke the universe into being, yet you are slow to anger and full of love. Tame our tongues. Help us embrace the power of the pause. Let our words be few and full of grace, building each other up. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Grace Inspired Marriage Center

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COUPLES DEVOTIONAL Day 15:
Quick to Listen

Scripture:

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,” — James 1:19 (NIV)

Devotion:

True listening is an act of love and humility. It requires us to press pause on our own thoughts, opinions, and defenses to fully enter into your spouse's world. Being "quick to listen" means giving them the gift of your full attention, making eye contact, putting down your phone, and seeking to understand the meaning and emotion behind their words. It’s listening to comprehend, not just to compose your reply. This kind of listening validates your spouse and makes them feel valued. When both of you practice this, misunderstandings decrease and emotional intimacy grows.

Reflection Questions:

1. When you are speaking, what makes you feel truly listened to? What makes you feel ignored?

2. What internal barrier most often keeps me from being a "quick" listener?


Prayer:

Lord, you are a God who hears our prayers. Forgive us for the times we have been slow to listen and quick to interrupt. Quiet our hearts and minds. Give us a genuine curiosity to understand each other. Help us to listen with the same patience and attentiveness you show to us. Amen.

Abeiku Okai
Grace Inspired Marriage Center

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