Wake the Elephant

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Wake the Elephant

Episode 96 New Podcast Episode Dropped Today:
The Hidden Connection Between Narcissistic Abuse and Patriarchy: A Groundbreaking Episode
Have you ever wondered why toxic relationship patterns keep repeating, no matter how hard you try to "fix" things? What if I told you the problem isn't you, your partner, or even individual men – but an invisible system so pervasive that most people never see it operating? In this riveting episode, we uncover the shocking connection between narcissistic abuse and patriarchy that will fundamentally change how you understand relationships, power, and social change. This isn't another male-bashing session – it's a revolutionary approach to healing that liberates everyone from destructive patterns while holding people accountable for their actions.

What You'll Discover:

The devastating truth about why individual relationship "fixes" always fail
Shocking research findings connecting narcissistic abuse patterns to patriarchal systems
The exact same tactics both narcissists and patriarchy use: gaslighting, isolation, trauma bonding, and reality manipulation
Real-life examples of couples who transformed their relationships by addressing systemic patterns
Why this approach benefits everyone – including men trapped by toxic masculinity expectations
Practical steps to dismantle destructive patterns in your personal life and community
The liberation perspective that turns partners into allies instead of adversaries
How to hold people accountable while simultaneously changing the systems that create problems
Perfect for:

People healing from narcissistic abuse and toxic relationship patterns
Partners wanting authentic equality
Anyone interested in systemic social change
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🎙️ The Pick Me Culture, Why Women Are Still Expected to Be Chosen is live!

We’re diving into the unspoken pressure on women to be chosen, to be marriageable, to define their worth through someone else's eyes.

This episode unpacks:

The roots of this cultural mindset

How it sets the stage for narcissistic abuse

Why being too “agreeable” makes you a magnet for control

The price women pay for being pleasing instead of powerful

💬 Have you ever been told to “make yourself more likable” or “tone it down”? Let’s talk about it.

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Behind the Mic: My Interview with Listen Notes
When I was invited to be interviewed by Listen Notes, (Listen Notes Podcast Interview), I was honored. For those unfamiliar, Listen Notes is a powerful podcast search engine and discovery platform used by millions of podcast listeners, creators, and researchers around the world. Whether you’re a devoted fan of audio content or a podcast producer looking to grow your audience, Listen Notes serves as a central hub for exploring shows across every genre imaginable.

It was a privilege to be asked thoughtful, in-depth questions about my podcast journey—how I started, what I’ve learned, and where it’s all heading. The opportunity to share the behind-the-scenes process, motivation, and purpose of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast was not only meaningful but also affirming. Being featured alongside other creators on a platform as respected as Listen Notes is something I don’t take lightly.

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💥 New Episode Alert: Why Some Women Still Uphold the Patriarchy (Even Without Realizing It)

The patriarchy isn’t just propped up by men—it’s also reinforced by women who’ve been taught to value male approval, judge other women, and conform to roles that erase their power.

In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, I dive into:
🔹 “Pick Me” culture and how it derails progress
🔹 The silent power of internalized misogyny
🔹 Subtle ways women are trained to center men
🔹 Why calling this out isn’t betrayal—it’s liberation

This one might sting—but it’s the kind of truth that sets you free.

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Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast offers a thoughtful and authentic exploration of toxic relationships and the often-hidden dynamics of narcissistic abuse. We examine the complexities of narcissistic family systems—going no contact, the scapegoat and golden child roles, and the profound pain of ostracization—while providing pathways toward healing and self-discovery.

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Our work extends beyond personal relationships to explore how narcissism is woven into broader cultural systems, institutions, and structures like the patriarchy. By addressing gender roles, equality, and other often-overlooked topics, we aim to shed light on how these dynamics shape our lives and relationships.

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Well Hola and Greetings from Mexico!

Just wanted to send out an updated photo with a behind the scenes look and to show off my new progressive glasses. It’s only been an hour so I’m getting used to them.

Any advise for adjusting to them, am I now considered old? haha!

Lynn

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Wishing you and your family a safe, healthy New Year! xo Lynn

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Happy Holidays from Moving Forward with Hope! Thinking of you all during this holiday season!

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Happy Thanksgiving from us to You! No matter where you are or who you are with...Holidays can be hard, I know this firsthand. My thoughts are with you. XO ~ Lynn

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